I dare to be alone in your arms

Chapter 3 Preface I dare to be alone in your arms

The past few years have changed a lot for me.There is a newly discovered life, and there is also a world that is not adapted to.There are new ones that are sold now, and some that I will never understand in my life.

However, no matter how it changes, as long as I can sit down and write something, I will be complacent.

When I was single, I always wanted to write a book called "Practice Alone".At that time, friends often asked me, how to make a person's life more quality, enjoyable, and even enviable? (It turned out that someone envied me!) Indeed, I have some experience in being alone.However, "knowing how to be alone" and "being able to make sense of loneliness" are not the same thing after all.I have never been able to properly share my experience with others.Until I "leave the single", I want to nag about this again, but the more I think about it, the weirder it gets.

So on second thought, let me talk about the relationship between being alone and getting along.The getting along here refers to one person and oneself, or two people, or one person and many people.

I often feel that loneliness is innate, not because you are alone, you must be lonely, or because you are accompanied by others, you will be complete.Loneliness doesn't mean pain to me, it's just a state of being with myself.I want people around me to understand that loneliness is something that happens on its own, not because of other people.When I say this, on the one hand, I hope to relieve the psychological burden of others, and on the other hand, I want to maintain the freedom of loneliness.I cherish this freedom.That's why, I call this book "I Dare to Be Alone in Your Arms".Because I keep you, I feel happy, and at the same time keep myself, so I can feel at ease and free.

When I promised the publisher to write a book, I was not pregnant yet. When I really started to conceive, my body was no longer my own, but my desire to complete this plan became stronger and stronger.I started to invite friends to drink tea and chat, and recorded the conversations and moods at that time, until I collected them into this magazine book.I cherish and appreciate that during this period of time, I was able to create a new life at the same time, and gave birth to these texts.It allows me to be surrounded by camaraderie and feel free at the same time.

Thank you to the friends who chatted with me, you didn't ask me what I was going to do at all, and came when I made an appointment.Thank you Songling, Ivy, Ruting, and Liangliang for running all over Taipei with my growing body.You ease my burden and discomfort while "gentlely" increasing my efficiency.Finally, thank you, you, and you who have always indulged me...

I'm not sure of the value of this strange book, but he must be very honest.

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