A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 84 Essay Question 7: Let me practice "Dad Charm"

To measure the success of a man, we can use "financial resources", "ability", "power" and "charm" as the assessment criteria, but to measure the success of a father, we don't need so many criteria. A "charm" is enough.A charming father can live a simple life with gusto, can turn the original monotonous life into laughter, can turn all difficulties into motivation, and can make children feel the best love.These cannot be exchanged for financial resources, power and ability to handle affairs, so we say: a loving dad is better than a rich dad.

Love does not need to be inspired, it is in our hearts, but what is love?A father who knows how to love first knows how to practice "dad charm".

Zheng Yuanjie, the famous fairy tale king, has always been able to attract children all over the country with the writing on the tip of a pen, but for his own son, the pen is not enough.

Zheng Yuanjie is a very courageous father. His son Zheng Yaqi dropped out of primary school and studied at home.Zheng Yuanjie compiled 10 family textbooks for her children as middle school courses, and used the fairy tale characters written by her pen to run through the courses.When the son finishes his studies, he will be considered a graduate.In terms of education, Zheng Yaqi only has a primary school diploma, but he is a truly literate person.

"I think that after the age of 18, a boy has to be self-reliant. So since Zheng Yaqi's 18th birthday, I haven't given him a penny, and he hasn't asked his family for it."

It's not that Zheng Yuanjie didn't think about letting his son inherit his father's business.When the child was young, he watched his father write every day, and sometimes helped him number the pages.Zheng Yuanjie said that she was narrow-minded, but this selfishness was double-denied by herself and her son in the end.Zheng Yaqi has rejected the identity of "Zheng Yuanjie's son" since he was 16 years old. At the age of 18, he found a newspaper by himself and supported himself by building and maintaining websites and repairing computers.It took three years to take the position of director of the technical department there.Later, he resigned by himself, and Zheng Yuanjie didn't say anything.

The son began to discuss cooperation with his father, and asked Zheng Yuanjie to authorize him to start the "Pipilu" magazine. "I was ecstatic at the time——finally I spoke! But to be honest, I don't know whether to say he relies on me or I rely on him." In the first year when her son joined his business, Zheng Yuanjie's annual book sales soared!Under the operation of her son, Zheng Yuanjie participated in various TV programs... There is no doubt that Zheng Yuanjie's resources have expanded, and the value of her son has also been reflected.Fortunately, Zheng Yuanjie did not hold another kind of "selfishness" - in order to show that she was able to teach her son well, she deliberately refused to cooperate with her son to gain fame.

Later, Zheng Yaqi founded a photography studio, and did so without telling his father. "At that time, I was very complicated: Is he trying to get rid of my influence? However, I am still happy after all: my son has started a new stove, all kinds of professional photography facilities are available, and the studio is big enough to drive a dozen cars. I also like to take pictures, but I still use a point-and-shoot camera.” Perhaps, it is Zheng Yuanjie’s heart that allows his son to always independently control his destiny.

"A good father should never expect to realize the unfinished self in the child. A truly qualified father not only does not beat and scold the child, but also shoulders the burden of the glory family."

These words of Zheng Yuanjie can be engraved in the hearts of every father: what a loving father needs to cultivate is precisely this kind of mind that can afford it, let it go, and be indifferent, and it is the full respect and respect for children. Absolute trust.This is the secret weapon that can resolve all doubts in children's growth, and this is the charm of dad.

How will you cultivate your father's charm in the future?This question requires us to spend our whole life discussing it, and we need our actions to answer it.

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