Reborn Wife 32

Chapter 652 When the wedding is in progress (2)
"So you are disappointed in her for the second time now, right?" The psychiatrist can already make an initial conclusion on what he told, "Tell me about your current thoughts, do you want to continue to face her, or I want to sever ties with her, or never associate with her again."

Gong Xiancan has thought about these three options, but each one is a great challenge for him.The great psychological challenge made him timid, afraid, and fearful.

"She and I are already married in name, and it is impossible to break the relationship. I also told myself not to associate with her in the future, and not to give her a chance to take advantage of myself in the future. However, I just saw her carrying her hand in the courtyard. Weeding with a cumbersome weed mower, I still can't help but want to help her." Frowning tightly, Gong Xiancan seemed to be caught in an uneasy tangle, "I still want to continue to face her. But I don't know how to deal with someone who wants to take advantage of me."

"Perhaps, you can try to communicate with her and tell her sincerely that you hope to maintain a friendship with her, and don't let the interests be established between you and her." The psychologist tried to help him enlighten and clear up, "Your Psychology is kind, you can forgive her behaviors that hurt you again and again, and put yourself in her shoes, find out many reasons for her, and persuade yourself that her faults are not many, and her faults are not bad. Worth the original."

The psychiatrist's analysis was right, Gong Xiancan stared at her intently, nodded slightly, "In a family like ours, there is no one who will not make mistakes, and no one will not be sorry to others. My brothers and sisters treat many people The damage caused was even worse than in my case."

"You are very honest and realistic, and you look at everyone with the eyes of God, but you yourself live in a fairy tale world." Looking down at the notebook, the psychiatrist looked up at him meaningfully. "You live in such a family, and the people or things you face are all like this, which you think is normal. But you yourself are dealing with such things in a way of redemption. It stands to reason that when you My family, seeing these things happen to me all day long, when the same thing happened to me, the reaction you should make is your father’s kind of vengeful feedback. But in fact, you chose to forgive carelessly.”

"Forgive the girl who hurt you, and even feel sad for her, and even feel that you have hurt her. Your magnanimity is not actually the palm of her redemption. Treat the girl who has always been selfish with your tolerance, and you will get There are two results, one is that she is influenced by you, she accepts your kindness, and chooses kindness for you. There is another kind..." The pen in his hand paused, and the psychiatrist pulled his face to face each other, "It's yours. These palms failed to pull her back to the excess of kindness, but pushed her even harder into the abyss of evil."

"Doctor." Gong Xiancan froze for a moment, his brows were slightly wrinkled, and his mood was hard to calm down.

"How do you know that she can follow you to do good, and she can give up her selfishness for you? Like you said, for her selfishness, she wants to get closer to you and get what she wants from you. Benefits. Suppose you give her all your good intentions and all your belongings. After she accepts it completely, can she give you the same feedback, or a trace of sincerity?" Although all the technical terms are used, But Gong Xiancan understood what the psychiatrist said.

"Then, what should I do...how should I face her?" Gong Xiancan was distressed and helpless, he couldn't make up his mind about himself and Nan Xiaomo.

"Adopt your most correct attitude and get along with her with peace of mind. You are afraid that she will continue to use you, and you don't want her to approach you for her own selfishness. Then, you have to let her know what you think. Feelings are mutual, personal In many cases, what you feel is happiness in the same thing, but what she feels is the joy after taking advantage of the success." The psychiatrist can't give him too much interference, and her suggestions are only Here, "For example, you help her with housework, and you are happy for helping her, but she thinks you are good-tempered and easy to bully, so what should you do?"

"She did say so." Gong Xiancan replied.

"So, if you feel that this will make you feel unhappy, you can take the initiative to tell her. Maybe there will be unexpected gains?" The psychiatrist pursed his lips and smiled, and Gong Xiancan on the bed understood.

The two hours of treatment just passed, and after seeing off the psychiatrist, Gong Xiancan stood at the window of his room and looked down.

Well, it just so happened that his eyes fell on Nan Xiaomo who was still pruning flowers and plants in the courtyard.

His expression could not be seen to be happy, relaxed or sad, just like his attitude towards Nan Xiaomo.He didn't know what kind of attitude he should take to face her.

He wants to get in touch with her, wants to communicate with her in the most comfortable way, and wants to become friends with her.But all of this, he also knew, was at most just his wishful thinking, if she didn't want to, he couldn't force it.

"Oops..." With a cry of surprise, Nan Xiaomo in the courtyard dropped the big scissors from her hand. From Gong Xiancan's perspective, seeing her squatting on the ground and not getting up for a long time, it seemed that something had happened.

For a moment, Gong Xiancan couldn't hold back the anxiety in his heart, and ran out of the room in big strides, heading straight for Nan Xiaomo.

When he was waiting for him to run to the courtyard, Nan Xiaomo was happily playing with the praying mantis in her hand, when she turned her head and saw him coming, she immediately raised the thing to scare him.

"Ah..." Before he could see anything clearly, Gong Xiancan was subconsciously frightened and took a big step back. He didn't step on his feet firmly, and fell to the ground all of a sudden.

"Haha, look at your prospects..." Nan Xiaomo laughed while pointing at him, and shook the big praying mantis caught in the other hand, saying, "Look at the little thing I got by accident!"

It's not uncommon to find a big mantis in the grass, Gong Xiancan didn't understand why she was so happy, but seeing her smiling so cheerfully, his mood turned from cloudy to sunny.

"Did you know? When I picked up such a big praying mantis when I was a child, my dad would tie it up with a rope and give it to me as a pet." Nan Xiaomo was talking to him, and he really got up to find the rope, "I and You say, tie it up with a rope, put it in an empty bottle, poke a hole, and this thing will live for days. Got any rope, with you?"

"No." Shaking his head, Gong Xiancan got up from the ground, before patting the dirt on his buttocks, he searched for a string everywhere, "I'll find it for you. Just wait for me."

"No, no, I'll do it myself. I know where to put the rope." With a wave of his hand, Nan Xiaomo walked past him and strode into the house. Gong Xiancan followed behind her, staring at her back in a daze.

She is a girl, but most of the time she is like a boy.She likes to play with crickets, like to shoot cockroaches, and said she likes to catch dragonflies, including fighting and causing trouble. These are boys' hobbies, and she has them all.

(End of this chapter)