long marriage
1060
Chapter 1060
After Lin Man resigned, she went to live in Wuzhen for more than a month. She thought, when some people don't want children, the children always come like timely rain. It is also difficult to want to. She thinks that her age and physical condition may take some time to recuperate.
When I came back, I didn’t know if I was pregnant or not. There is no sign yet. I will continue to study. After graduation, I may teach at T University. Lin Man thinks it’s good. She likes studying and teaching. Maybe it's the perfect ending.
Ms. Shang had dinner with her son and daughter-in-law, and seeing Lin Man's complexion was extremely good, but it was her son's face...
Cough!
She was embarrassed to ask, but Qin Shang's expression was very bad, even if you want to have a child, don't lose one thing, the most important thing is to take care of your body.
Half of Lin Man's face was reddish and radiant. The more he looked at it, the more he looked...sucked up...Ms. Shang stopped in time.
I can only let my son eat more.
"Did you enjoy playing?"
"Happy." Lin Man replied.
How can you be unhappy, go to play without any pressure, go to rest, the whole person is relaxed.
"I look at Qin Shang's face full of unhappiness..." Ms. Shang teased her son, and her son's face was full of depression.
Qin Shang is depressed, why depressed?
After staying for a month, he spent most of the time flying around, which made his schedule very stressful and tiring. Lin Man was the only one who was happy. The beautiful environment on the top satisfies her turbulent mind of a literary and artistic young woman. There is a beautiful boy lying on the bed at night. If he is not happy on such a day, there is nothing he can do.
Being a man is actually quite tragic. If your wife points east, she must hit east, and if she points west, she must hit west. Others only see that Lin Man treats him well, yes, it's good, now it's time to get something in return, she He said that if he wanted a child, he would have to work hard. He didn't make people every day, but he felt a little uncomfortable with this feeling, and Lin Man's focus was shifting.
"En." Qin Shang replied lukewarmly.
Ms. Shang raised her eyebrows, are you really upset?Think you're not ready to be a dad?
Lin Man was the eldest who was pregnant around May. At that time, the weather was fine, and she didn't feel any special feeling, and she didn't have any wonderful dreams. Mason came to report, and her body didn't have any strong signs, because she was already in the stage of pregnancy preparation. After going to the hospital for an examination, it was found out that she was pregnant without accident. Lin Man didn't say hello to her family, but first informed Qin Shang that she was talking after three months.
It's almost like getting pregnant without twists and turns, and you can get what you want. This is a bit beyond her imagination, she thought...
"I'm a little disappointed looking at you." Qin Shang moved his chopsticks.
Not happy, Qin Meiren is very upset!
When his wife is pregnant, the rules and regulations will obviously increase. In the past few months, his life has been wonderful. The most hateful thing is that he thinks it is enough to have one child. Having more children takes up a lot of time. How can there be so much thought? Going to raise and educate, one is enough to worry about, but obviously his wife doesn't think so. When he wants to, he has said that he will strive to have two children in three years, so that she can continue to work after completing the task.
Happy?Hehe, he couldn't feel it at all, he just wanted it, and then he came, it's as simple as that.
It's like, you want to eat a piece of bread and ham, you go to the supermarket to pick it up, and eat it when you come back. What's the surprise?
The reactions from the two families were all lukewarm, and no one was particularly happy. They probably felt that they were old enough to have children. Ms. Shang would not take care of Lin Man, and she did not plan to take care of Lin Man herself. One of the biggest problems is that the distance is too close. Even if it is her own child, it is easy to take care of it badly. The work here is poor, and the work there is not satisfactory. She has already greeted the professionals. Lin Man gave birth Before the other party didn't need to come over, after the birth, the other party had to live with Lin Man for a few months. As for how much to live, Lin Man had the final say, and her mother-in-law would pay for the money.
On the contrary, Lu Wen felt that when a daughter gave birth, her mother would always be by her side. Lin Mantong disagreed, and she also planned to take care of her in the past. After all, her mother was different, and there was nothing worth buying. She bought it. Originally, she was going to buy some necessary things for the child, but the gender of the child is not clear now, so it is difficult to start. When it is confirmed, as soon as Qin Shang made a move, Lu Wen immediately stopped. Qin Shang is everyone who can spend money , It seems that the things you buy are only based on whether they are expensive or not, so Lu Wen's desire to help his daughter has faded away, as if... she is not needed for anything at the moment.
Manman was pregnant for more than seven months, and the gender of the child was already known. It was a boy, which was quite in line with Qin Shang's thoughts.
Ms. Shang took the time to accompany her daughter-in-law to the hospital for the examination, and there was no need to wait in line. Sometimes, having a certain financial capacity can still improve the comfort of life to a certain extent. The adult is in good health and weighs More or less increased too little.
"She has gained about six catties." Because Lin Man's diet was specially arranged by Ms. Shang, after six months, Lin Man would take a walk for about an hour after dinner every day. In other cases.
"A little thin, but the child is growing well."
Ms. Shang looked at Lin Man's stomach and smiled. How does it feel to have a grandson?I think it's still quite amazing. I have been a mother once, and now I am going to be a grandma. This feeling is still very good.
Lin Man wore a matchstick skirt with a small black leather jacket on it. She couldn't help but try to fool her when it came to dressing. Her mother-in-law would send the matching clothes home, because she was resting at home now. Ms. Shang felt that Although a woman who doesn't dress up can't be said to be ugly, it's better to live a more refined life. Occasionally, she will find her daughter-in-law to go shopping and buy clothes. Your husband can make money, and a wife must learn to spend.
Mason hardly bothered her much, never vomited, not even once, and no nausea or anything happened, the baby just stayed in the stomach honestly, anyway, Lin Man felt that her pregnancy was perfect, and she stood up. In the belly, Qin Shang's annual birthday was ushered in.
Ms. Shang doesn't care about these things. After that, she will participate and have a mouth to eat. However, she will ask Qin Shang in advance so that Qin Shang can eat a bowl of longevity noodles. As a mother, she has no other requirements Well, given that Lin Man's belly is puffy now, he really doesn't have the mood to make a big show, so he chose to give him alone at home.
"Can't you come back?"
Businessman Qin is out of town, and his birthday will be two days later. He said that he probably won’t be able to come back, because he is really busy during this time, and he can’t take care of it. Fortunately, his wife can rest easy, and there is someone at home who can take care of her. Qin Shang is unlikely. Because Lin Man was pregnant, he stopped everything he was doing and made a special trip to wait for Lin Man to give birth, which he couldn't do.
"Probably not, and you don't want to come here." Her current body should be as little tossing as possible, and her birthday can be celebrated at any time.
He just said, having a baby is delaying things, there is really one more him, everything has changed, and you have to compromise for him, I think it's quite unreliable when I think about it.
Lin Man nodded, she didn't intend to fly there, the journey was a bit long, and although her body could bear it, she didn't want to work so hard.
"If you can't come back, remember to eat a bowl of noodles and an egg."
The noodles are what the mother-in-law wants Qin Shang to eat, and the eggs are what she wants Qin Shang to eat.
From childhood to adulthood, Lin Man celebrated her birthday every year. As long as she opened her eyes in the morning, there would be a bowl of eggs on the table. What she ate was not the eggs themselves, but a meaning. Her parents wanted her to grow up healthy and happy. Now, from the perspective of her wife, she also gives this meaning to Qin Shang, hoping that he will be healthy and know how to rest.
"Okay, Mason didn't bother you?"
Lin Man nodded.
About a day later, she received a text message from Qin Shang, saying that Mason had a name. Lin Man thought about this name for a long time. She really wanted to name her son herself, but she was about to overwhelm her dictionary, so she thought it was not good. , that was inappropriate, and then I didn't want to touch the dictionary at all, and I didn't bother to look it up, thinking that it was not good to get it.
If it’s too strong, it doesn’t need it, it’s just an ordinary child, if it’s not strong, it doesn’t sound good to me, and it’s repeated over and over again, until finally she thinks it’s better to just wait and catch the IOU later, and whatever word she catches, she can call it whatever. The name is ready, so I can only call it like Mason first.
Qin Zihao.
On the day of Qin Shang's birthday, she woke up early in the morning, woke up at the end of the day, and lay down for a while. The doctor asked her to lie down for 5 minutes after waking up, then got up, grabbed her coat, put it on, and grabbed her feet. Slippers and quilts are simply tidied up. The doctor also said that she is a bit thin. She eats so well and eats everything. I feel that the wrinkles have been stretched out, and my face is full of meat. I poured some food for luck and went by myself wash up.
I was brushing my teeth when I received a call from Lu Wen.
Lu Wen has already planned to come here with Lin Qinghua. In order to take care of Lin Man, why did he choose to advance instead of timing. The time for this woman to give birth is uncertain. It is not up to you to decide whether to give birth early or late, Lu Wen wanted to come two months in advance, so there would be no mistakes, right?
"It's really not necessary." Lin Man spat out the mouthwash, and she grabbed the towel beside her to wipe the corners of her mouth.
Qin Shang doesn't like to be alone with others. After her parents come, she will definitely encounter embarrassing times. She is not willing to let her parents worry about it. She can do everything now, and there is nothing to worry about. Moreover, the parents live too close together, and you feel that you don’t take many things to heart. Maybe they think it’s not considerate enough, and it’s easy to create rifts. She agrees with the statement that distance creates beauty.
When Qin Shang lived in the hospital before, Lu Wen came to the hospital to take care of Qin Shang. At first he could barely talk to his mother-in-law, but later he didn’t say a word all day. As Qin Shang, he was used to In addition to living alone, his mother did not participate in his life, because this is Lin Man's mother, so he tried to ease it as much as possible. From Lu Wen's point of view, the son-in-law seems to be too quiet. I have nothing to say to you, it's really boring and embarrassing for you to sit in the ward like this for a whole day.
"This won't work. Your father and I have already discussed it." As far as Lu Wen was concerned, she didn't have a good confinement herself, so no matter what she said, she couldn't let this kind of history repeat itself on Lin Man.
Lin Man is powerless, her situation is different from her mother's, but she can understand her mother's thoughts, so come if you want, and this is the only way for now.
At four o'clock in the afternoon, Lin Man looked at the small cakes on the table, thinking that Qin Shang would really not come back, no matter what, she had already prepared everything she should have prepared, and put it in the refrigerator, what if he flew back at night? , and still catch up to eat, if you can’t come back at night, let auntie eat.
I went to bed at nine o'clock, and received a call from Qin Shang. He was still busy, and he was afraid that she would worry, so he took the time to make a call.
"not asleep yet?"
Lin Man moved her legs to the bed, pulled the quilt to cover her legs, and laid her head on the pillow comfortably. She had finished washing.
"Just went to bed, ready to sleep, busy?"
"Well." Qin Shang is still working. According to his personality, this call is actually not willing to make a call. It is not his style to take time to care about his wife when he is busy. You are busy with work while sharing Xin, how can this job be done well?However, Lin Man's personality has been somewhat rounded out, and when he thinks about things, he will be more rounded.
This is when he was interrupted by others at work, even though he made the call himself.
"Qin Shang, I'm going to sleep."
"it is good."
Lin Man hung up the phone first, and Qin Shang quickly hung up the phone.
Lin Man sighed, the awkward Mr. Qin, I don't know what kind of personality Mason will be born with. Don't be like Qin Shang, it's best to be like yourself.
Lu Wen and Lin Qinghua came to take care of Lin Man, and happened to catch up with Qin Shang returning home. Qin Shang was carrying a super big doll bear in his hand. He originally bought it for Lin Man to play with, but he dragged a bear into the door and saw There were two more people in my family, and my face turned cold.
"Qin Shang is back, wash your hands and eat."
Lin Man's eyes were aimed in Qin Shang's direction. It seemed that she should say something?
"Bought it for me?" Standing up with a smile, I am a bit clumsy now, so I have to be more careful when I get up from the chair. It may be that the flesh grows faster and I get fatter when I get to the back.
Lu Wen was going to help his daughter, but Qin Shang was a step faster than his mother-in-law. His movements didn't look gentle, but his hands were very light. He helped Lin Man up, and felt that there were still some changes in her body. It's not the same as when I left.
"I bought it for you. It's a bit big. I'll carry you upstairs later."
Manman nodded.
"My mother came to take care of me, the month is old..."
Qin Shang nodded. Seeing her sitting up, he felt that the month was really old, and he was a little guilty. He hadn't been by her side during this period, but if he was by her side, he couldn't do much.
After washing for a long time at night, she sat in the mirror and patted lotion on her face. She wiped her hands again. Qin Shang had already washed it. Now Qin Shang is completely abstinent. His pajamas are all long-sleeved. He lifted the quilt and went straight to bed Yes, when Lin Man came up, he moved in. In fact, there must be enough space on Man Man's side, but subconsciously, he didn't squeeze her when he was too crowded, and he didn't dare to turn over at night when he slept. That's what he said no. It's convenient, if you want to make any movement, you will subconsciously realize that she has a big belly and is a very dangerous person. A slight touch may make her feel uncomfortable.
Man Man got into Qin Shang's arms, reached out and touched his waist, feeling that he would feel safe in this way.
"My mother doesn't worry about me."
Qin Shang hummed, it's not normal for a mother to be worried about her child, as long as you don't pick on him for being too intimate, he really can't get hot, the only heat has gone to Lin Man, and now it's gone Being hollowed out is the only way to treat others.
"Why are you sleeping in pajamas now?"
In the past, it was directly lying on the bed, and she couldn't express it too strongly. She stretched out her hand to touch pajamas, and she didn't feel embarrassed to go inside. After all, in the current situation, it's best not to light a fire or something. , Qin Shang has always been not used to her belly.
"I won't wear it, and we're lying here, and you're so nonchalant about talking, what do you think will happen next?"
Pull up the quilt, wrap the person up, and sleep on your own sleep. The future is long and you have a lot of work. In fact, the days are not so sad. Your mind is full of work, and you don’t have time to think about other things. Even if you want to Well, with such a stomach, what else could he think?
Lin Man stretched out her hands to pinch his belly, and it took a lot of effort to pick it up a little bit. What do you mean looking for something to talk about?
"You really don't have any enthusiasm for me." Lin Xiaoman sighed.
"I'm passionate about you. I'm afraid you won't be able to bear it. At this time, don't look down and go to sleep." Qin Shang's hand covered her eyes, which was forcing her to sleep.
Children live with their parents, unless the parents and children give in to each other, just pretend that you don't see what you don't like, otherwise...
Qin Shang is a careless person at times. For example, although Lin Man is pregnant now and the months are getting older, he believes in Lin Man just as he believes in himself. She has enough sense in her heart, but from Lu Wen's point of view, as a mother-in-law, seeing her daughter busy with her belly, sometimes she wants to talk, but she feels that she is the only one who has more to do. Hold it in, hold it in, tell yourself, don't meddle in other people's business, it's not her decision to have a good life or not.
The time of delivery was a bit later than the expected date, because it happened to coincide with the Chinese New Year, and the expected date of delivery was 29. This day made Lin Man a little depressed. Her son was born, and the days should not be too young. Although it didn't affect it, the Chinese New Year was only a few days away Well, it can become the biggest one. I don’t know if it’s because of the thoughts in her heart. There is no movement during the Chinese New Year, and there is still no movement from the first day to the tenth day of the new year. How can Lu Wen still sit still? There is no movement at all. , there is no sign of giving birth at all, this situation is not right, I still have to go to the hospital, the hospital Lin Man entered on the [-]th day of the first lunar month is past the due date, but I just don’t feel it, everything is normal after the doctor’s examination, the doctor’s suggestion is still hold on.
"The situation is very stable." He suggested to wait and not to have an autopsy, because Lin Man's baby will be born very well, the baby is not too young, and the mother's body is also very healthy, but everything he said is just a suggestion, and the last thing to do It's the family that decides.
Ms. Shang came here in the afternoon. When she heard that she was hospitalized, she had to show up. After asking about the situation, she was very happy. The child didn't stay long enough and didn't want to come out. They shouldn't be in a hurry. It just so happened that Qin Shang didn't come back either. Perhaps the child came back for his father.
On the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, there was still no movement. She ate two glutinous rice balls. Her mother didn't let her eat more, so she gave her one. Her father secretly fed her the other one, and Lu Wen found out about it. After muttering, the muttering Lin Qinghua had completely forgiven him, and he didn't dare to feed things secretly anymore. Lu Wen said that now Lin Man couldn't digest the glutinous rice balls, so he absolutely couldn't feed them.
On the [-]th day of the first lunar month, she had a stomachache early in the morning. At first, it was similar to menstrual pain, and it was slightly lax. After two hours, she wanted to bang her head against the wall when it hurt. It didn’t hurt. When I was in the hospital, I hurriedly squinted. Ms. Shang had already come to the hospital to sit in charge, and informed Qin Shang that Qin Shang was already on his way back.
Lu Wen grabbed Lin Man's hand. She wanted to feel pain for her daughter. It was a pain for this woman to give birth. Didn't she say that there are painless births?
Ms. Shang explained, because the painless injection would still affect Lin Man's body to some extent. It's not that he can't have the injection, but the effect is not so good after the injection. Women always have to go through this test.
"You go out and wait first, I will accompany her here."
As soon as Lu Wen cried, Ms. Shang asked her to go out and wait, because the pregnant woman is easily nervous now, and she is afraid of others crying. She is a mother-in-law, and Lin Man is always embarrassed to cry when she sits here. say something.
After tossing about for about six hours, she felt a strong feeling of laying eggs. All her strength was concentrated in one piece, and she couldn't hold it anymore. She was pushed in. After going in, the doctor checked and said it would take a little time. The doctor chatted with her, and Lin Man didn't take it to heart when he talked about it. He only thought about his stomach, which was too uncomfortable, and he just wanted him to come out sooner.
"Doctor..." Lin Man called out.
"Well, tell me." The doctor is not in a hurry, and it was not his birth, so there is nothing for him to worry about.
"When will you give me a happy time?"
Doctor:……
It doesn't matter what he said.
"You have to work harder."
Lin Man put all her energy into breastfeeding, tried several times, the last time the doctor's hand landed on her stomach, it was fine if he didn't push, but Lin Man wanted to die when he pushed like that Yes, mason was born, chosen on the seventeenth day of the first lunar month.
Qin Zihao weighs six catties and one tael.
"Mother and child are safe..."
Before the child was released, Ms. Shang communicated with Lu Wen about who would follow the child and who would follow the mother. As a mother-in-law, she really couldn’t follow the child. She absolutely believed in the hospital. If Lu Wen was worried , Lu Wen can follow the child and turn back after watching the child settle down. Ms. Shang herself has to wait for Lin Man to come out and follow Lin Man back to the ward. Qin and Shang's side may be a problem with the special plane, and it should arrive logically. Now it's too late.
Lu Wen was really worried. She was also worried about the child and Lin Man. How could Lin Man do it if there was no one around?
"Go, follow the child..." Lin Qinghua was given the task of following the child.
When Lin Man was cleaned up and was pushed out, the doctor followed. The doctor and Ms. Shang had a brief conversation, and told them in detail about the situation of the parturient. There were no major problems during the delivery process. How should the nursing care be carried out after giving birth? Lin Man was covered up and down tightly. Lu Wen stood in front of Lin Man's head and took off her coat. She was afraid that the wind would blow to Lin Man.
"You have a good sleep, and you'll be fine once you wake up."
Lin Man smiled wryly. It was like a catastrophe. She thought she couldn't stand it anymore, and she felt that way after giving birth.
Ms. Shang separated from the doctor, and she walked to Lin Man's side. She didn't have to push her, and she was responsible for standing still and being energetic. When her son was away, she had to take care of all the problems. Fortunately, everything went well.
When Qin Shang came back, Lin Man was still resting. He was dusty and cold. Instead of going directly into the ward, he stood in the corridor and asked his mother about the situation. He took off his coat and sat on a chair. Bringing the wind in, the mother was shocked.
When Qin Shang saw his mother, the first thing he asked was: "How is Lin Man?"
Ms. Shang replied: "Mother and child are safe, both adults and children are fine."
Sitting on the chair, Qin Shang breathed a sigh of relief, he couldn't help but feel relieved when she was pregnant for several months, he was very tired and extremely hard. down.
"Have you visited Mason?" Ms. Shang asked her son.
"Not yet." Qin Shang said.
Just as Lu Wen came out, he was taken aback when he saw Qin Shang, and hurried back?Seeing my uncle sitting outside, wanting to say a few words to him, then you know where her due date is, and she should come back early, but looking at Qin Shang's slightly trembling hands, it's just an inadvertent glance, Qin Shang is sitting It was a coincidence that Lu Wen didn't wear a coat, his head was sweaty, and his eyes just fell on his son-in-law's hand. With a flick of his head, all the complaints disappeared.
"She's fine, she hasn't suffered much, go and see the child, she looks like Lin Man."
Qin Shang nodded but did not move. Ms. Shang patted his son's hand. Qin Shang had to come back early before the due date, but something went wrong, and he dragged him for more than ten days. Compressed all the time that could be compressed, clapped, everything is fine, there is mother here.
Qin Shang sat outside for more than an hour, he didn't really want to go in, because he was afraid of seeing Lin Man's face, afraid of seeing her tired face, even if he was happy, he was afraid, until now he didn't know if he could be a Qualified father.
"Qin Shang? Come in." Lu Wen asked Qin Shang to enter the ward. What's the matter with this child?Sitting outside all the time, you can’t talk until people come back, and you don’t come in when you come back?
Qin Shang entered the ward, Lin Man woke up when Lu Wen called Qin Shang, no matter how soft her mother's voice was, she took a rest and felt much better, her gentle eyes met his and smiled at him Smiling, wanting to reach out his hand, Qin Shang walked to her bed.
"...Some problems happened temporarily, and I didn't come back until now..." He is not very good at explaining, he finds explanations boring, and he doesn't bother to explain to anyone, just believe it or not.
Lin Man held his hand, her tone was very light, she thought she would complain to him, but now he looks like a frightened person instead.
"Have you been to Mason?"
"not yet."
Curious, but not in a hurry, his heart needs to be stable.
After seven o'clock in the evening, Mason was sent back. In fact, the doctor asked Lin Man to see her after the birth, but she couldn't see her state clearly at that time. It was a different feeling from going to see her son again now. Hands and feet, small face, how does Lin Man think this child can be so good?Because it was born by herself, she now understands what it means to be an old man selling melons.
"See if you look like you?" Lu Wen felt happy, raising a child like a mother is common sense.
Upon hearing this, Lin Man frowned, like her?
Her wish before she was born was that it would be better to look like Qin Shang and have a personality like herself.
"Still like Dad..."
How can Lu Wen not know what his daughter is thinking, but this child doesn't look like Qin Shang at all, although he just came out not long ago, of course, the child changes every day, maybe tomorrow he will be like Qin Shang.
According to what Ms. Shang said, Lin Man was discharged from the hospital three days after giving birth, and went home for confinement. After 42 days of confinement, she was nursed by confinement women throughout the whole process. It is not until Lu Wen gets started, and the things that Lu Wen knows are not in line with the present. They are all experienced. The advantage is that there is no so-called unpleasantness at all. The child's confinement wife takes care of it very well, and the diet is also a confinement company. It is delivered to the door every day, and the follow-up care of the mother is all from the confinement center.
Qin Shang has hardly sat in the house for too long in the past 42 days. He is both a child and an adult. The cost of giving birth to a child is too high. It's not enough for Man to hang on Mason's body every day, how can he spare time to take care of Qin Shang?
In other words, ask him if he has had breakfast, and if he is busy recently, there is nothing else he can do.
Ms. Shang came to visit her child once a week, not too many times. Lin Man was confinement, and Lu Wen and Lin Qinghua went home. It really looks like a light bulb staying here, and they don’t need to intervene in anything. , the child is very good and the adults are good, if they stay here and cause trouble for others, they simply go back.
"Her mother-in-law is a genius." Lu Wen commented on Ms. Shang.
Can't find any flaws on a mother-in-law, don't you think it's strange?It can only be said that he has a high emotional intelligence, but it does not mean that he is not at the forefront. He takes care of everything that should be taken care of, and absolutely keeps silent about what should not be taken care of. In contrast, Lu Wen has quite a headache, she is like that, but fortunately she doesn't stay together all the time, otherwise she would despise herself.
Some people say, how can there be no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?Lin Man really has nothing here, including her confinement, there is no tendency to be depressed at all, the aunt at home is very understanding, the confinement wife is even more careful, the husband has nothing to worry about, and the mother-in-law is more There is nothing wrong with me, my mother-in-law is here, I sit outside, and I will go upstairs when I feel warm. What I should care about is just letting Mason go. Do you like it?That's really like it, Ms. Shang's grandson, the first grandson, hugged in her arms, mouth shut, no matter how you look at it, you like it, the shortcomings can be regarded as advantages, like it but not nostalgic, let alone classify the child as your own On the one hand, it was born by someone else's mother, and being close to her mother is what should be done. She doesn't pick these right and wrong.
After 42 days of confinement, I have lost a lot of weight. Mason's temper is too violent. This child is completely different from when I was pregnant. There are some things. If you don't be someone else, you will be Lin Man. When you are in her arms, it will start in her hands. After working hard for Lin Man, he lost weight even after tossing about it. It wasn't because his body was tired, but because of his heart.
The confinement wife said that it is good for boys to have a little temper.
"I don't think I have a temper..." Lin Man shook her head, afraid of something.
That's why I said, when you are pregnant, you must not think about it. She just thinks about what the child looks like and what kind of personality. Now you are completely rebellious. She looks like her, and her personality is like Qin Shang. Don't ask her How did you see it.
Qin Zihao...
He is a child who is not easily persuaded by others. He is a child with a special personality, which can give you a headache.
Qin Zihao was three years old, and his younger brother Qin Zihao was born. Originally, Lin Man hoped to have a daughter, but it turned out that he was destined to have no daughter, so he couldn't force it.
As the male protagonist in charge of creating human beings, he expressed his own unique views.
"I just said, you can only have a son." Qin Shangxian said coolly.
daughter?
Hit without a girl.
"Why can I only have a son?" Lin Man asked back, did she have the face of a son?
depressed! *
Qin Zihao has been different from other children since he was a child, what's the difference?A child who is particularly competitive and strong, has a strong will to win and lose, and is a bit rebellious. The teacher in the kindergarten is also in charge. The teacher said that this child is not easy to manage because he is disobedient. You said that he is disobedient, he is not the kind of troublemaker, but his personality has some uncertain attributes, some places are blank, and the teacher does not know which part of him is blank, everyone loves smart children, but Smart children are not necessarily easy to teach, and this is the most troublesome.
Lin Man's time is very loose. After changing jobs, every day is full of time. Qin Shang's work is still busy, and the responsibility of raising and educating children falls on her. Before she was born, as Qin Shang said, The question of whether to give birth lies with Lin Man, because after the birth, education and upbringing are all Lin Man's problems. He is beyond his reach, and it is impossible for a man to spend all his time with the child. Their family is a typical Chinese-style family, and the father is responsible for making money. , Refusing to pay more obligations, mothers also make money, but more of them have to raise and educate children.
She only had one class in the afternoon. Seeing that it was almost time, she was ready to pick up her son. When she drove past, some parents had already come to pick her up. Lin Man was standing at the door waiting, and Stanford was sent out. Mason waited. I still haven't come out after a long time, is this being detained by the teacher?
Qin Zihao stood at his mother's feet, looking at his cheeks and looking cute, he smiled slightly when he saw everyone, and his face was a little fleshy, and anyone who saw it wanted to go up and pinch it. Good-looking is a natural capital, like I just lifted the steaming steamed white flour steamed buns from the steamer. My eyes are gentle and clear. When I meet aunts and uncles I don’t know, I will take the initiative to wave goodbye and say goodbye. I am very polite.
Lin Man waited with Stanford for about 40 minutes, but he still didn't come out. Something was wrong. After greeting the guard, she led Stanford, and Stanford walked slowly. People say that a mother is the first priority of a child. The object of study, what the mother usually looks like, to a large extent, children can learn [-]% of it.
The teacher is about to be driven crazy by Mason. There was a small-scale exam in the class today. Mason answered a question wrong. Now he asks to play an overtime match with his classmates. Whoever loses will chop his hand and chop his left hand right hand.
Lin Man: ...
The teacher looked at Stanford standing at Lin Man's feet, she wanted to cry, how could a mother be so different? Mason really competes too much. It's not a good thing to care about winning or losing at such a young age.
Lin Man's name was Mason, and he refused to leave if there was no one better than him. He insisted on doing what he said. The mother and son stood in a stalemate for half an hour, and finally Mason lost.
Carrying the small one into the car, he reached out to hug the big one, so he climbed up by himself. Lin Man froze for a moment, and then fastened his son's seat belt.
"It doesn't feel good to lose, but no one is ever victorious. There are many people who are better than you, and there is one in front of you."
Stanford laughed and shook his head with a smile. Is he the one his mother said?
Scratch your head, don't praise him in person, he will be shy, ashamed!
"Mom is a pretty amazing person, have you tried the trick?"
Lin Man sat on one side of the table, and Mason sat on the other side of the table. The mother and son looked at each other, comparing writing Chinese characters. Mason was considered smart enough, but judging by his age, how about it? It was Lin Man who bullied her son. She must know more words than her son. Zihao had no chance of winning. Xiaoer sat on the side, hugged by his mother, and sometimes he stretched out his hand to make trouble. , His mother doesn't talk about him, she smiles at him occasionally, points to the words on it, and tells him what it is, and sometimes there are stories to listen to, but his brother is endless, adding one scene after another, Zihao lay in his mother's arms, hugged her mother's neck, closed his eyes tightly, he was sleepy, and when he fell asleep, he turned into lying at his mother's feet, with his belly exposed to the setting sun, Lin Man Cover the belly for the younger son.
Mason was a little depressed, now his mother is a mountain, a mountain that he can't climb.
"Is it over?" Lin Man asked.
It was already eight o'clock since school was over, and they were all hungry. It seemed that Mason felt that enough was enough.
Mason nodded with a cold face.
"Then OK, we are over now, the game is over, and my mother has to say some extra words, it is not a bad thing to be more serious, you are a smart child, in the hearts of parents, teachers and classmates, you are very smart, Mom has never seen a child who is smarter than you. But you are already a little man. When you know how to win or lose, should you consider that your brother is younger than you? Since you came back from school until now, you are hungry Stomach, my brother is also accompanying you to starve your stomach, mother is an adult, it is my duty to let you not let me go, I care about you, you should have the same relationship with me, right?"
In terms of family relationship, the eldest is too independent, and he hardly feels his love for the younger brother. You can say that the child is young now, but being young is not a reason or an excuse. From another perspective, she is a girl , the son is a boy, boys have an innate advantage, shouldn't they be tolerant and humble to girls?
Well, we have been promoted to teenagers in a long way, Mason is playing every day since he was a child, and Stanford is responsible for laughing and laughing
(End of this chapter)
After Lin Man resigned, she went to live in Wuzhen for more than a month. She thought, when some people don't want children, the children always come like timely rain. It is also difficult to want to. She thinks that her age and physical condition may take some time to recuperate.
When I came back, I didn’t know if I was pregnant or not. There is no sign yet. I will continue to study. After graduation, I may teach at T University. Lin Man thinks it’s good. She likes studying and teaching. Maybe it's the perfect ending.
Ms. Shang had dinner with her son and daughter-in-law, and seeing Lin Man's complexion was extremely good, but it was her son's face...
Cough!
She was embarrassed to ask, but Qin Shang's expression was very bad, even if you want to have a child, don't lose one thing, the most important thing is to take care of your body.
Half of Lin Man's face was reddish and radiant. The more he looked at it, the more he looked...sucked up...Ms. Shang stopped in time.
I can only let my son eat more.
"Did you enjoy playing?"
"Happy." Lin Man replied.
How can you be unhappy, go to play without any pressure, go to rest, the whole person is relaxed.
"I look at Qin Shang's face full of unhappiness..." Ms. Shang teased her son, and her son's face was full of depression.
Qin Shang is depressed, why depressed?
After staying for a month, he spent most of the time flying around, which made his schedule very stressful and tiring. Lin Man was the only one who was happy. The beautiful environment on the top satisfies her turbulent mind of a literary and artistic young woman. There is a beautiful boy lying on the bed at night. If he is not happy on such a day, there is nothing he can do.
Being a man is actually quite tragic. If your wife points east, she must hit east, and if she points west, she must hit west. Others only see that Lin Man treats him well, yes, it's good, now it's time to get something in return, she He said that if he wanted a child, he would have to work hard. He didn't make people every day, but he felt a little uncomfortable with this feeling, and Lin Man's focus was shifting.
"En." Qin Shang replied lukewarmly.
Ms. Shang raised her eyebrows, are you really upset?Think you're not ready to be a dad?
Lin Man was the eldest who was pregnant around May. At that time, the weather was fine, and she didn't feel any special feeling, and she didn't have any wonderful dreams. Mason came to report, and her body didn't have any strong signs, because she was already in the stage of pregnancy preparation. After going to the hospital for an examination, it was found out that she was pregnant without accident. Lin Man didn't say hello to her family, but first informed Qin Shang that she was talking after three months.
It's almost like getting pregnant without twists and turns, and you can get what you want. This is a bit beyond her imagination, she thought...
"I'm a little disappointed looking at you." Qin Shang moved his chopsticks.
Not happy, Qin Meiren is very upset!
When his wife is pregnant, the rules and regulations will obviously increase. In the past few months, his life has been wonderful. The most hateful thing is that he thinks it is enough to have one child. Having more children takes up a lot of time. How can there be so much thought? Going to raise and educate, one is enough to worry about, but obviously his wife doesn't think so. When he wants to, he has said that he will strive to have two children in three years, so that she can continue to work after completing the task.
Happy?Hehe, he couldn't feel it at all, he just wanted it, and then he came, it's as simple as that.
It's like, you want to eat a piece of bread and ham, you go to the supermarket to pick it up, and eat it when you come back. What's the surprise?
The reactions from the two families were all lukewarm, and no one was particularly happy. They probably felt that they were old enough to have children. Ms. Shang would not take care of Lin Man, and she did not plan to take care of Lin Man herself. One of the biggest problems is that the distance is too close. Even if it is her own child, it is easy to take care of it badly. The work here is poor, and the work there is not satisfactory. She has already greeted the professionals. Lin Man gave birth Before the other party didn't need to come over, after the birth, the other party had to live with Lin Man for a few months. As for how much to live, Lin Man had the final say, and her mother-in-law would pay for the money.
On the contrary, Lu Wen felt that when a daughter gave birth, her mother would always be by her side. Lin Mantong disagreed, and she also planned to take care of her in the past. After all, her mother was different, and there was nothing worth buying. She bought it. Originally, she was going to buy some necessary things for the child, but the gender of the child is not clear now, so it is difficult to start. When it is confirmed, as soon as Qin Shang made a move, Lu Wen immediately stopped. Qin Shang is everyone who can spend money , It seems that the things you buy are only based on whether they are expensive or not, so Lu Wen's desire to help his daughter has faded away, as if... she is not needed for anything at the moment.
Manman was pregnant for more than seven months, and the gender of the child was already known. It was a boy, which was quite in line with Qin Shang's thoughts.
Ms. Shang took the time to accompany her daughter-in-law to the hospital for the examination, and there was no need to wait in line. Sometimes, having a certain financial capacity can still improve the comfort of life to a certain extent. The adult is in good health and weighs More or less increased too little.
"She has gained about six catties." Because Lin Man's diet was specially arranged by Ms. Shang, after six months, Lin Man would take a walk for about an hour after dinner every day. In other cases.
"A little thin, but the child is growing well."
Ms. Shang looked at Lin Man's stomach and smiled. How does it feel to have a grandson?I think it's still quite amazing. I have been a mother once, and now I am going to be a grandma. This feeling is still very good.
Lin Man wore a matchstick skirt with a small black leather jacket on it. She couldn't help but try to fool her when it came to dressing. Her mother-in-law would send the matching clothes home, because she was resting at home now. Ms. Shang felt that Although a woman who doesn't dress up can't be said to be ugly, it's better to live a more refined life. Occasionally, she will find her daughter-in-law to go shopping and buy clothes. Your husband can make money, and a wife must learn to spend.
Mason hardly bothered her much, never vomited, not even once, and no nausea or anything happened, the baby just stayed in the stomach honestly, anyway, Lin Man felt that her pregnancy was perfect, and she stood up. In the belly, Qin Shang's annual birthday was ushered in.
Ms. Shang doesn't care about these things. After that, she will participate and have a mouth to eat. However, she will ask Qin Shang in advance so that Qin Shang can eat a bowl of longevity noodles. As a mother, she has no other requirements Well, given that Lin Man's belly is puffy now, he really doesn't have the mood to make a big show, so he chose to give him alone at home.
"Can't you come back?"
Businessman Qin is out of town, and his birthday will be two days later. He said that he probably won’t be able to come back, because he is really busy during this time, and he can’t take care of it. Fortunately, his wife can rest easy, and there is someone at home who can take care of her. Qin Shang is unlikely. Because Lin Man was pregnant, he stopped everything he was doing and made a special trip to wait for Lin Man to give birth, which he couldn't do.
"Probably not, and you don't want to come here." Her current body should be as little tossing as possible, and her birthday can be celebrated at any time.
He just said, having a baby is delaying things, there is really one more him, everything has changed, and you have to compromise for him, I think it's quite unreliable when I think about it.
Lin Man nodded, she didn't intend to fly there, the journey was a bit long, and although her body could bear it, she didn't want to work so hard.
"If you can't come back, remember to eat a bowl of noodles and an egg."
The noodles are what the mother-in-law wants Qin Shang to eat, and the eggs are what she wants Qin Shang to eat.
From childhood to adulthood, Lin Man celebrated her birthday every year. As long as she opened her eyes in the morning, there would be a bowl of eggs on the table. What she ate was not the eggs themselves, but a meaning. Her parents wanted her to grow up healthy and happy. Now, from the perspective of her wife, she also gives this meaning to Qin Shang, hoping that he will be healthy and know how to rest.
"Okay, Mason didn't bother you?"
Lin Man nodded.
About a day later, she received a text message from Qin Shang, saying that Mason had a name. Lin Man thought about this name for a long time. She really wanted to name her son herself, but she was about to overwhelm her dictionary, so she thought it was not good. , that was inappropriate, and then I didn't want to touch the dictionary at all, and I didn't bother to look it up, thinking that it was not good to get it.
If it’s too strong, it doesn’t need it, it’s just an ordinary child, if it’s not strong, it doesn’t sound good to me, and it’s repeated over and over again, until finally she thinks it’s better to just wait and catch the IOU later, and whatever word she catches, she can call it whatever. The name is ready, so I can only call it like Mason first.
Qin Zihao.
On the day of Qin Shang's birthday, she woke up early in the morning, woke up at the end of the day, and lay down for a while. The doctor asked her to lie down for 5 minutes after waking up, then got up, grabbed her coat, put it on, and grabbed her feet. Slippers and quilts are simply tidied up. The doctor also said that she is a bit thin. She eats so well and eats everything. I feel that the wrinkles have been stretched out, and my face is full of meat. I poured some food for luck and went by myself wash up.
I was brushing my teeth when I received a call from Lu Wen.
Lu Wen has already planned to come here with Lin Qinghua. In order to take care of Lin Man, why did he choose to advance instead of timing. The time for this woman to give birth is uncertain. It is not up to you to decide whether to give birth early or late, Lu Wen wanted to come two months in advance, so there would be no mistakes, right?
"It's really not necessary." Lin Man spat out the mouthwash, and she grabbed the towel beside her to wipe the corners of her mouth.
Qin Shang doesn't like to be alone with others. After her parents come, she will definitely encounter embarrassing times. She is not willing to let her parents worry about it. She can do everything now, and there is nothing to worry about. Moreover, the parents live too close together, and you feel that you don’t take many things to heart. Maybe they think it’s not considerate enough, and it’s easy to create rifts. She agrees with the statement that distance creates beauty.
When Qin Shang lived in the hospital before, Lu Wen came to the hospital to take care of Qin Shang. At first he could barely talk to his mother-in-law, but later he didn’t say a word all day. As Qin Shang, he was used to In addition to living alone, his mother did not participate in his life, because this is Lin Man's mother, so he tried to ease it as much as possible. From Lu Wen's point of view, the son-in-law seems to be too quiet. I have nothing to say to you, it's really boring and embarrassing for you to sit in the ward like this for a whole day.
"This won't work. Your father and I have already discussed it." As far as Lu Wen was concerned, she didn't have a good confinement herself, so no matter what she said, she couldn't let this kind of history repeat itself on Lin Man.
Lin Man is powerless, her situation is different from her mother's, but she can understand her mother's thoughts, so come if you want, and this is the only way for now.
At four o'clock in the afternoon, Lin Man looked at the small cakes on the table, thinking that Qin Shang would really not come back, no matter what, she had already prepared everything she should have prepared, and put it in the refrigerator, what if he flew back at night? , and still catch up to eat, if you can’t come back at night, let auntie eat.
I went to bed at nine o'clock, and received a call from Qin Shang. He was still busy, and he was afraid that she would worry, so he took the time to make a call.
"not asleep yet?"
Lin Man moved her legs to the bed, pulled the quilt to cover her legs, and laid her head on the pillow comfortably. She had finished washing.
"Just went to bed, ready to sleep, busy?"
"Well." Qin Shang is still working. According to his personality, this call is actually not willing to make a call. It is not his style to take time to care about his wife when he is busy. You are busy with work while sharing Xin, how can this job be done well?However, Lin Man's personality has been somewhat rounded out, and when he thinks about things, he will be more rounded.
This is when he was interrupted by others at work, even though he made the call himself.
"Qin Shang, I'm going to sleep."
"it is good."
Lin Man hung up the phone first, and Qin Shang quickly hung up the phone.
Lin Man sighed, the awkward Mr. Qin, I don't know what kind of personality Mason will be born with. Don't be like Qin Shang, it's best to be like yourself.
Lu Wen and Lin Qinghua came to take care of Lin Man, and happened to catch up with Qin Shang returning home. Qin Shang was carrying a super big doll bear in his hand. He originally bought it for Lin Man to play with, but he dragged a bear into the door and saw There were two more people in my family, and my face turned cold.
"Qin Shang is back, wash your hands and eat."
Lin Man's eyes were aimed in Qin Shang's direction. It seemed that she should say something?
"Bought it for me?" Standing up with a smile, I am a bit clumsy now, so I have to be more careful when I get up from the chair. It may be that the flesh grows faster and I get fatter when I get to the back.
Lu Wen was going to help his daughter, but Qin Shang was a step faster than his mother-in-law. His movements didn't look gentle, but his hands were very light. He helped Lin Man up, and felt that there were still some changes in her body. It's not the same as when I left.
"I bought it for you. It's a bit big. I'll carry you upstairs later."
Manman nodded.
"My mother came to take care of me, the month is old..."
Qin Shang nodded. Seeing her sitting up, he felt that the month was really old, and he was a little guilty. He hadn't been by her side during this period, but if he was by her side, he couldn't do much.
After washing for a long time at night, she sat in the mirror and patted lotion on her face. She wiped her hands again. Qin Shang had already washed it. Now Qin Shang is completely abstinent. His pajamas are all long-sleeved. He lifted the quilt and went straight to bed Yes, when Lin Man came up, he moved in. In fact, there must be enough space on Man Man's side, but subconsciously, he didn't squeeze her when he was too crowded, and he didn't dare to turn over at night when he slept. That's what he said no. It's convenient, if you want to make any movement, you will subconsciously realize that she has a big belly and is a very dangerous person. A slight touch may make her feel uncomfortable.
Man Man got into Qin Shang's arms, reached out and touched his waist, feeling that he would feel safe in this way.
"My mother doesn't worry about me."
Qin Shang hummed, it's not normal for a mother to be worried about her child, as long as you don't pick on him for being too intimate, he really can't get hot, the only heat has gone to Lin Man, and now it's gone Being hollowed out is the only way to treat others.
"Why are you sleeping in pajamas now?"
In the past, it was directly lying on the bed, and she couldn't express it too strongly. She stretched out her hand to touch pajamas, and she didn't feel embarrassed to go inside. After all, in the current situation, it's best not to light a fire or something. , Qin Shang has always been not used to her belly.
"I won't wear it, and we're lying here, and you're so nonchalant about talking, what do you think will happen next?"
Pull up the quilt, wrap the person up, and sleep on your own sleep. The future is long and you have a lot of work. In fact, the days are not so sad. Your mind is full of work, and you don’t have time to think about other things. Even if you want to Well, with such a stomach, what else could he think?
Lin Man stretched out her hands to pinch his belly, and it took a lot of effort to pick it up a little bit. What do you mean looking for something to talk about?
"You really don't have any enthusiasm for me." Lin Xiaoman sighed.
"I'm passionate about you. I'm afraid you won't be able to bear it. At this time, don't look down and go to sleep." Qin Shang's hand covered her eyes, which was forcing her to sleep.
Children live with their parents, unless the parents and children give in to each other, just pretend that you don't see what you don't like, otherwise...
Qin Shang is a careless person at times. For example, although Lin Man is pregnant now and the months are getting older, he believes in Lin Man just as he believes in himself. She has enough sense in her heart, but from Lu Wen's point of view, as a mother-in-law, seeing her daughter busy with her belly, sometimes she wants to talk, but she feels that she is the only one who has more to do. Hold it in, hold it in, tell yourself, don't meddle in other people's business, it's not her decision to have a good life or not.
The time of delivery was a bit later than the expected date, because it happened to coincide with the Chinese New Year, and the expected date of delivery was 29. This day made Lin Man a little depressed. Her son was born, and the days should not be too young. Although it didn't affect it, the Chinese New Year was only a few days away Well, it can become the biggest one. I don’t know if it’s because of the thoughts in her heart. There is no movement during the Chinese New Year, and there is still no movement from the first day to the tenth day of the new year. How can Lu Wen still sit still? There is no movement at all. , there is no sign of giving birth at all, this situation is not right, I still have to go to the hospital, the hospital Lin Man entered on the [-]th day of the first lunar month is past the due date, but I just don’t feel it, everything is normal after the doctor’s examination, the doctor’s suggestion is still hold on.
"The situation is very stable." He suggested to wait and not to have an autopsy, because Lin Man's baby will be born very well, the baby is not too young, and the mother's body is also very healthy, but everything he said is just a suggestion, and the last thing to do It's the family that decides.
Ms. Shang came here in the afternoon. When she heard that she was hospitalized, she had to show up. After asking about the situation, she was very happy. The child didn't stay long enough and didn't want to come out. They shouldn't be in a hurry. It just so happened that Qin Shang didn't come back either. Perhaps the child came back for his father.
On the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, there was still no movement. She ate two glutinous rice balls. Her mother didn't let her eat more, so she gave her one. Her father secretly fed her the other one, and Lu Wen found out about it. After muttering, the muttering Lin Qinghua had completely forgiven him, and he didn't dare to feed things secretly anymore. Lu Wen said that now Lin Man couldn't digest the glutinous rice balls, so he absolutely couldn't feed them.
On the [-]th day of the first lunar month, she had a stomachache early in the morning. At first, it was similar to menstrual pain, and it was slightly lax. After two hours, she wanted to bang her head against the wall when it hurt. It didn’t hurt. When I was in the hospital, I hurriedly squinted. Ms. Shang had already come to the hospital to sit in charge, and informed Qin Shang that Qin Shang was already on his way back.
Lu Wen grabbed Lin Man's hand. She wanted to feel pain for her daughter. It was a pain for this woman to give birth. Didn't she say that there are painless births?
Ms. Shang explained, because the painless injection would still affect Lin Man's body to some extent. It's not that he can't have the injection, but the effect is not so good after the injection. Women always have to go through this test.
"You go out and wait first, I will accompany her here."
As soon as Lu Wen cried, Ms. Shang asked her to go out and wait, because the pregnant woman is easily nervous now, and she is afraid of others crying. She is a mother-in-law, and Lin Man is always embarrassed to cry when she sits here. say something.
After tossing about for about six hours, she felt a strong feeling of laying eggs. All her strength was concentrated in one piece, and she couldn't hold it anymore. She was pushed in. After going in, the doctor checked and said it would take a little time. The doctor chatted with her, and Lin Man didn't take it to heart when he talked about it. He only thought about his stomach, which was too uncomfortable, and he just wanted him to come out sooner.
"Doctor..." Lin Man called out.
"Well, tell me." The doctor is not in a hurry, and it was not his birth, so there is nothing for him to worry about.
"When will you give me a happy time?"
Doctor:……
It doesn't matter what he said.
"You have to work harder."
Lin Man put all her energy into breastfeeding, tried several times, the last time the doctor's hand landed on her stomach, it was fine if he didn't push, but Lin Man wanted to die when he pushed like that Yes, mason was born, chosen on the seventeenth day of the first lunar month.
Qin Zihao weighs six catties and one tael.
"Mother and child are safe..."
Before the child was released, Ms. Shang communicated with Lu Wen about who would follow the child and who would follow the mother. As a mother-in-law, she really couldn’t follow the child. She absolutely believed in the hospital. If Lu Wen was worried , Lu Wen can follow the child and turn back after watching the child settle down. Ms. Shang herself has to wait for Lin Man to come out and follow Lin Man back to the ward. Qin and Shang's side may be a problem with the special plane, and it should arrive logically. Now it's too late.
Lu Wen was really worried. She was also worried about the child and Lin Man. How could Lin Man do it if there was no one around?
"Go, follow the child..." Lin Qinghua was given the task of following the child.
When Lin Man was cleaned up and was pushed out, the doctor followed. The doctor and Ms. Shang had a brief conversation, and told them in detail about the situation of the parturient. There were no major problems during the delivery process. How should the nursing care be carried out after giving birth? Lin Man was covered up and down tightly. Lu Wen stood in front of Lin Man's head and took off her coat. She was afraid that the wind would blow to Lin Man.
"You have a good sleep, and you'll be fine once you wake up."
Lin Man smiled wryly. It was like a catastrophe. She thought she couldn't stand it anymore, and she felt that way after giving birth.
Ms. Shang separated from the doctor, and she walked to Lin Man's side. She didn't have to push her, and she was responsible for standing still and being energetic. When her son was away, she had to take care of all the problems. Fortunately, everything went well.
When Qin Shang came back, Lin Man was still resting. He was dusty and cold. Instead of going directly into the ward, he stood in the corridor and asked his mother about the situation. He took off his coat and sat on a chair. Bringing the wind in, the mother was shocked.
When Qin Shang saw his mother, the first thing he asked was: "How is Lin Man?"
Ms. Shang replied: "Mother and child are safe, both adults and children are fine."
Sitting on the chair, Qin Shang breathed a sigh of relief, he couldn't help but feel relieved when she was pregnant for several months, he was very tired and extremely hard. down.
"Have you visited Mason?" Ms. Shang asked her son.
"Not yet." Qin Shang said.
Just as Lu Wen came out, he was taken aback when he saw Qin Shang, and hurried back?Seeing my uncle sitting outside, wanting to say a few words to him, then you know where her due date is, and she should come back early, but looking at Qin Shang's slightly trembling hands, it's just an inadvertent glance, Qin Shang is sitting It was a coincidence that Lu Wen didn't wear a coat, his head was sweaty, and his eyes just fell on his son-in-law's hand. With a flick of his head, all the complaints disappeared.
"She's fine, she hasn't suffered much, go and see the child, she looks like Lin Man."
Qin Shang nodded but did not move. Ms. Shang patted his son's hand. Qin Shang had to come back early before the due date, but something went wrong, and he dragged him for more than ten days. Compressed all the time that could be compressed, clapped, everything is fine, there is mother here.
Qin Shang sat outside for more than an hour, he didn't really want to go in, because he was afraid of seeing Lin Man's face, afraid of seeing her tired face, even if he was happy, he was afraid, until now he didn't know if he could be a Qualified father.
"Qin Shang? Come in." Lu Wen asked Qin Shang to enter the ward. What's the matter with this child?Sitting outside all the time, you can’t talk until people come back, and you don’t come in when you come back?
Qin Shang entered the ward, Lin Man woke up when Lu Wen called Qin Shang, no matter how soft her mother's voice was, she took a rest and felt much better, her gentle eyes met his and smiled at him Smiling, wanting to reach out his hand, Qin Shang walked to her bed.
"...Some problems happened temporarily, and I didn't come back until now..." He is not very good at explaining, he finds explanations boring, and he doesn't bother to explain to anyone, just believe it or not.
Lin Man held his hand, her tone was very light, she thought she would complain to him, but now he looks like a frightened person instead.
"Have you been to Mason?"
"not yet."
Curious, but not in a hurry, his heart needs to be stable.
After seven o'clock in the evening, Mason was sent back. In fact, the doctor asked Lin Man to see her after the birth, but she couldn't see her state clearly at that time. It was a different feeling from going to see her son again now. Hands and feet, small face, how does Lin Man think this child can be so good?Because it was born by herself, she now understands what it means to be an old man selling melons.
"See if you look like you?" Lu Wen felt happy, raising a child like a mother is common sense.
Upon hearing this, Lin Man frowned, like her?
Her wish before she was born was that it would be better to look like Qin Shang and have a personality like herself.
"Still like Dad..."
How can Lu Wen not know what his daughter is thinking, but this child doesn't look like Qin Shang at all, although he just came out not long ago, of course, the child changes every day, maybe tomorrow he will be like Qin Shang.
According to what Ms. Shang said, Lin Man was discharged from the hospital three days after giving birth, and went home for confinement. After 42 days of confinement, she was nursed by confinement women throughout the whole process. It is not until Lu Wen gets started, and the things that Lu Wen knows are not in line with the present. They are all experienced. The advantage is that there is no so-called unpleasantness at all. The child's confinement wife takes care of it very well, and the diet is also a confinement company. It is delivered to the door every day, and the follow-up care of the mother is all from the confinement center.
Qin Shang has hardly sat in the house for too long in the past 42 days. He is both a child and an adult. The cost of giving birth to a child is too high. It's not enough for Man to hang on Mason's body every day, how can he spare time to take care of Qin Shang?
In other words, ask him if he has had breakfast, and if he is busy recently, there is nothing else he can do.
Ms. Shang came to visit her child once a week, not too many times. Lin Man was confinement, and Lu Wen and Lin Qinghua went home. It really looks like a light bulb staying here, and they don’t need to intervene in anything. , the child is very good and the adults are good, if they stay here and cause trouble for others, they simply go back.
"Her mother-in-law is a genius." Lu Wen commented on Ms. Shang.
Can't find any flaws on a mother-in-law, don't you think it's strange?It can only be said that he has a high emotional intelligence, but it does not mean that he is not at the forefront. He takes care of everything that should be taken care of, and absolutely keeps silent about what should not be taken care of. In contrast, Lu Wen has quite a headache, she is like that, but fortunately she doesn't stay together all the time, otherwise she would despise herself.
Some people say, how can there be no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?Lin Man really has nothing here, including her confinement, there is no tendency to be depressed at all, the aunt at home is very understanding, the confinement wife is even more careful, the husband has nothing to worry about, and the mother-in-law is more There is nothing wrong with me, my mother-in-law is here, I sit outside, and I will go upstairs when I feel warm. What I should care about is just letting Mason go. Do you like it?That's really like it, Ms. Shang's grandson, the first grandson, hugged in her arms, mouth shut, no matter how you look at it, you like it, the shortcomings can be regarded as advantages, like it but not nostalgic, let alone classify the child as your own On the one hand, it was born by someone else's mother, and being close to her mother is what should be done. She doesn't pick these right and wrong.
After 42 days of confinement, I have lost a lot of weight. Mason's temper is too violent. This child is completely different from when I was pregnant. There are some things. If you don't be someone else, you will be Lin Man. When you are in her arms, it will start in her hands. After working hard for Lin Man, he lost weight even after tossing about it. It wasn't because his body was tired, but because of his heart.
The confinement wife said that it is good for boys to have a little temper.
"I don't think I have a temper..." Lin Man shook her head, afraid of something.
That's why I said, when you are pregnant, you must not think about it. She just thinks about what the child looks like and what kind of personality. Now you are completely rebellious. She looks like her, and her personality is like Qin Shang. Don't ask her How did you see it.
Qin Zihao...
He is a child who is not easily persuaded by others. He is a child with a special personality, which can give you a headache.
Qin Zihao was three years old, and his younger brother Qin Zihao was born. Originally, Lin Man hoped to have a daughter, but it turned out that he was destined to have no daughter, so he couldn't force it.
As the male protagonist in charge of creating human beings, he expressed his own unique views.
"I just said, you can only have a son." Qin Shangxian said coolly.
daughter?
Hit without a girl.
"Why can I only have a son?" Lin Man asked back, did she have the face of a son?
depressed! *
Qin Zihao has been different from other children since he was a child, what's the difference?A child who is particularly competitive and strong, has a strong will to win and lose, and is a bit rebellious. The teacher in the kindergarten is also in charge. The teacher said that this child is not easy to manage because he is disobedient. You said that he is disobedient, he is not the kind of troublemaker, but his personality has some uncertain attributes, some places are blank, and the teacher does not know which part of him is blank, everyone loves smart children, but Smart children are not necessarily easy to teach, and this is the most troublesome.
Lin Man's time is very loose. After changing jobs, every day is full of time. Qin Shang's work is still busy, and the responsibility of raising and educating children falls on her. Before she was born, as Qin Shang said, The question of whether to give birth lies with Lin Man, because after the birth, education and upbringing are all Lin Man's problems. He is beyond his reach, and it is impossible for a man to spend all his time with the child. Their family is a typical Chinese-style family, and the father is responsible for making money. , Refusing to pay more obligations, mothers also make money, but more of them have to raise and educate children.
She only had one class in the afternoon. Seeing that it was almost time, she was ready to pick up her son. When she drove past, some parents had already come to pick her up. Lin Man was standing at the door waiting, and Stanford was sent out. Mason waited. I still haven't come out after a long time, is this being detained by the teacher?
Qin Zihao stood at his mother's feet, looking at his cheeks and looking cute, he smiled slightly when he saw everyone, and his face was a little fleshy, and anyone who saw it wanted to go up and pinch it. Good-looking is a natural capital, like I just lifted the steaming steamed white flour steamed buns from the steamer. My eyes are gentle and clear. When I meet aunts and uncles I don’t know, I will take the initiative to wave goodbye and say goodbye. I am very polite.
Lin Man waited with Stanford for about 40 minutes, but he still didn't come out. Something was wrong. After greeting the guard, she led Stanford, and Stanford walked slowly. People say that a mother is the first priority of a child. The object of study, what the mother usually looks like, to a large extent, children can learn [-]% of it.
The teacher is about to be driven crazy by Mason. There was a small-scale exam in the class today. Mason answered a question wrong. Now he asks to play an overtime match with his classmates. Whoever loses will chop his hand and chop his left hand right hand.
Lin Man: ...
The teacher looked at Stanford standing at Lin Man's feet, she wanted to cry, how could a mother be so different? Mason really competes too much. It's not a good thing to care about winning or losing at such a young age.
Lin Man's name was Mason, and he refused to leave if there was no one better than him. He insisted on doing what he said. The mother and son stood in a stalemate for half an hour, and finally Mason lost.
Carrying the small one into the car, he reached out to hug the big one, so he climbed up by himself. Lin Man froze for a moment, and then fastened his son's seat belt.
"It doesn't feel good to lose, but no one is ever victorious. There are many people who are better than you, and there is one in front of you."
Stanford laughed and shook his head with a smile. Is he the one his mother said?
Scratch your head, don't praise him in person, he will be shy, ashamed!
"Mom is a pretty amazing person, have you tried the trick?"
Lin Man sat on one side of the table, and Mason sat on the other side of the table. The mother and son looked at each other, comparing writing Chinese characters. Mason was considered smart enough, but judging by his age, how about it? It was Lin Man who bullied her son. She must know more words than her son. Zihao had no chance of winning. Xiaoer sat on the side, hugged by his mother, and sometimes he stretched out his hand to make trouble. , His mother doesn't talk about him, she smiles at him occasionally, points to the words on it, and tells him what it is, and sometimes there are stories to listen to, but his brother is endless, adding one scene after another, Zihao lay in his mother's arms, hugged her mother's neck, closed his eyes tightly, he was sleepy, and when he fell asleep, he turned into lying at his mother's feet, with his belly exposed to the setting sun, Lin Man Cover the belly for the younger son.
Mason was a little depressed, now his mother is a mountain, a mountain that he can't climb.
"Is it over?" Lin Man asked.
It was already eight o'clock since school was over, and they were all hungry. It seemed that Mason felt that enough was enough.
Mason nodded with a cold face.
"Then OK, we are over now, the game is over, and my mother has to say some extra words, it is not a bad thing to be more serious, you are a smart child, in the hearts of parents, teachers and classmates, you are very smart, Mom has never seen a child who is smarter than you. But you are already a little man. When you know how to win or lose, should you consider that your brother is younger than you? Since you came back from school until now, you are hungry Stomach, my brother is also accompanying you to starve your stomach, mother is an adult, it is my duty to let you not let me go, I care about you, you should have the same relationship with me, right?"
In terms of family relationship, the eldest is too independent, and he hardly feels his love for the younger brother. You can say that the child is young now, but being young is not a reason or an excuse. From another perspective, she is a girl , the son is a boy, boys have an innate advantage, shouldn't they be tolerant and humble to girls?
Well, we have been promoted to teenagers in a long way, Mason is playing every day since he was a child, and Stanford is responsible for laughing and laughing
(End of this chapter)
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