Abandoned Concubine

Chapter 815 Children (56) Standard Mode

"It's possible."

Chu Sijiu smiled shallowly, and she didn't speak well for Yan Zhuoqi, so she raised her eyebrows and asked the next one, "What about Wang Shiwen? What's Yu'er's opinion?"

Yu'er frowned slightly, this one had a good reputation, and on the way back, Yun Hao praised him several times.

"He is very good-looking. When he calms down, his eyebrows and eyes are especially touching. I have not talked with him, but I have seen him talking with others. He is different from the noblemen nowadays. He has no arrogance and extravagance. When chatting, he will look at the other party intently, listen carefully, and respond sincerely. Although he lacks a little extravagance, he is very simple and sincere."

Chu Sijiu gasped, looking at Yu'er with eyes full of appreciation.She has always praised her without hesitation, and gave her a big thumbs up, "Yu'er observes carefully, the angle is also very novel, and the analysis is even clearer, the empress is very pleased."

Yu'er glanced at her dissatisfied, "Your Majesty just said that I have grown up, but she still treats me like a child in her heart."

Chu Sijiu smiled cheerfully, "In the eyes of the empress, Yu'er is just like Xi'er. I have to hold her hard and protect her in every possible way. How would you know that you have grown up quietly and have independent thinking skills?" , the ability to judge people and judge things, you won't lose your soul if you are coaxed by a man, and do something you regret for life."

These words were very meaningful, and Yu'er fell silent.

Pausing for a moment, she took the initiative to say, "Wang Shiwen must be a good man if he is favored by his father and mother, especially the Eighth Emperor. I observe that he should be a thoughtful and resolute person. However, the ruler is short. I am not sure if I will be bored with him, and I am even more worried that I will be restrained by him. I am a princess, raised by your mother who does not pay attention to secular etiquette, I like to follow my own preferences Do things. If he is pedantic, he will think that I am arrogant and domineering, and that will be boring."

Chu Sijiu was taken aback by what she said, but it also made sense, "Yu'er is right, a good person is not necessarily a suitable person, so I need to understand more."

Yu'er didn't say a word, she was taken aback.

Chu Sijiu looked at her quietly, and sighed slightly in her heart, "So, Yu'er doesn't like these two very much?"

Yu'er frowned slightly, and asked softly, "Mother, do you think you should find a suitable person for marriage? Or find someone you like?"

Chu Sijiu hugged her and said slowly, "Find someone who likes me, suits me, and still likes me."

Yu'er understood Chu Sijiu's arrangement order, lowered her eyes and thought for a while, "It's difficult."

Chu Sijiu smiled and taught her, "Yu'er is only 15 years old this year, so Yu'er doesn't know, there are many things that look like this when you are 15 years old, but when you are 30 years old, it will be another Appearance. Such as 'like', such as 'suitable', they will all change."

Yu'er looked at her suspiciously, "Why did it change?"

Chu Sijiu pursed her lips slightly, and asked honestly, "Think about it carefully, which of the things you liked when you were young, is there anything you still like now?"

Yu'er became thoughtful, her eyes flickered slightly, she raised her head, "That's different, I've grown up, and my mind is fixed. Even if there is a change, it won't be very big."

Chu Sijiu nodded, "Yu'er is right. After adulthood, most of the mind is fixed, but people will still grow. If one person's experience and knowledge are constantly increasing, the other person is slack in learning and stays in the In the original position, I don’t want to make progress. The distance between the two people will become wider and wider, and the "like" and "suitability" that I thought before will change."

Yu'er thought seriously, "Niangniang and Huang Chang's father haven't changed."

Chu Sijiu nodded again, "That's right, because Huang Chang is growing up like the empress, and they support each other during the growth process, and there is no intermittent emotional communication, so the flow of water is long, and the 'like' and 'suitability' are getting thicker and thicker." , more 'like' and 'suitable'."

Yu'er pondered.

Chu Sijiu didn't urge her either, she only had a deep understanding of the education she received in her previous life, coupled with so many years of comprehension.

It is really profound to tell a 15-year-old girl.

Sure enough, Yu'er was confused, "Niang Niang, do you mean that my current liking is unreal?"

Of course it can't be understood that way, Chu Sijiu realized that she was too deep, and wanted to take her daughter's innocent feelings into the ditch.

"Of course Yu'er's current liking is real. Not only is it true, but it is also very precious. It is so precious that if you can't be with him, even if it has been a long time in the past, as long as you see him, you will still burst into tears. This is first love, it is everyone's first love. The most beautiful emotion in my heart, it is not mixed with a little bit of interest, it is very pure and beautiful."

"But this kind of pure beauty cannot become a reality?" Yu'er slowly organized her thoughts.

"That's not necessarily the case. If your first love happens to be the one you 'like', and he happens to 'like' you, and you are suitable, this beauty can become a reality."

Chu Sijiu used herself as an example to help her understand this concept. "For example, Empress and Huang Chang, when they first got married, they 'liked' each other, and they were 'suitable' for each other. At that time, it became a reality. But then something changed, and Empress felt that Huang Chang was no longer 'suitable' for Empress. So The empress left Huang Chang and went to the Southland Kingdom, and that was a separation. If it wasn't for a coincidence, she met Huang Chang again. After a few years, the empress might marry another man to find another "like" and 'Appropriate'. Huang Chang will always exist in the empress's heart, even if it has been a long time, as long as she sees him, the empress will still burst into tears."

The mother and daughter chatted so intently that they didn't notice that Dongfang Hao was standing outside the palace gate.

It was getting late, and he came to pick up Chu Sijiu, but he didn't expect to hear such words, his heart was sour, and he sighed endlessly.

Thinking of losing Chu Sijiu in danger, she was also terrified.

However, he shook his head again, Ah Jiu, if you educate Yu'er so emotionally, aren't you afraid of leading her in a detour?He had a bad premonition in his heart, and it was not convenient to go in to intervene. After thinking about it, he left helplessly.

And Yu'er has suddenly realized.

"Even if you choose wrong the first time, there will be a second chance. In short, you can't wrong yourself."

Chu Sijiu was dumbfounded, is that what I want to say?

However, it is also good to understand this truth.Pursing her lips, she selected the key sentence and gave her affirmation, "A woman should treat herself well, no matter it is the first time or the second time, she must not wrong herself."

Yu'er nodded sharply, and gave a further conclusion, "Life is very long, I can only know what I like and suit at this moment, and choose one. In the future, I will work hard to support each other and grow together, to be like Huang Chang is the same as the empress, more likable and suitable. If it doesn’t work, don’t be sad, keep the past in your heart and continue your new life.”

Chu Sijiu was speechless, this is like a standard model, how many people can really do it?
Of course, she can't hit Yu'er, while she likes it, she is thinking about talking to her about understanding and tolerance next time.

　Yu'er is really blessed to have a lovely lady like Ah Jiu!
　　
　
(End of this chapter)