The years when I was doing things in another world

Chapter 556 Xiao Jingshui's Love Teaching

Xiao Jingshui said: "Keep a distance, which is to leave a distance that makes her feel safe and comfortable. Don't oppress her, don't ask about her private affairs, and don't meddle in her private affairs. Once she feels uncomfortable with you, you It will be very difficult to get close to her. But you can't just watch from a distance, because if you go on like this, you will be no different from a stranger in her eyes. "

"Then, how should we grasp this speed?" Jun Yuecheng was still at a loss.

What Xiao Jingshui said was still too broad, without practical suggestions.

The current relationship between him and Xiao Jingshui can be regarded as ordinary friends at best, and it is difficult to go any further.

"Well...you can start with friends first, and you will get the moon first if you are close to the water." Xiao Jingshui thoughtfully gave advice, "On weekdays, give some proper care and understanding for her behavior. But don't care too much, try it out slowly Her bottom line is to increase her tolerance for you and boil the frog in warm water step by step. In this way, even if we can't get together in the end, we can still be friends."

People who are defensive generally do not like to establish too close a relationship with others. Family affection is innate, and there is nothing they can do about it.But for other controllable emotions, they will be extremely vigilant, and have natural resistance and defense against love, partners, children, etc.

But friends are not included.

Friends sound close, especially bosom friends and soul mates, but the relationship between friends is not bound and protected by rules. Friendship arises because of fate and ends because of fate. There is no corresponding obligation between them, and they are free to gather and leave.And no matter what kind of friends, they will not get together all year round, and there is enough distance between each other.

Jun Yuecheng's eyes lit up, this sounds very feasible.Now that he and Xiao Jingshui are practicing together, they are close to the water.

"However, everyone has their own personality. What I said can only be used as a reference. As for the specifics, Yue Cheng has to learn and use them."

After all, Xiao Jingshui has never experienced it himself, and now it is just talking on paper. In order to avoid misleading his children, he added such words.

People's hearts are always complicated, and the conclusions drawn by the predecessors may be reasonable, but if it is to really play a role, it still needs to analyze specific issues in detail, and applying it mechanically will only be counterproductive.

But Jun Yuecheng seems to be a smart person, so he won't mess it up.

"Thank you." Jun Yuecheng solemnly thanked you.

If Xiao Jingshui hadn't told him this, he might still be confused.

Xiao Jingshui said with a smile: "You are welcome, we are friends."

However, Xiao Jingshui thought of another thing, sighed, and said to Jun Yuecheng: "Yuecheng, as a friend, I have to tell you one thing, if the person you like is really very defensive, then you'd better It’s better to give up as soon as possible.”

Seeing the shock and confusion on Jun Yuecheng's face, Xiao Jingshui explained: "It's not that I want to hit you, but I have to tell you that people who are very defensive generally don't want to have feelings with others that go beyond the boundaries of friendship. They feel insecure. So for them, friends are the most important thing."

So if you don't have a deep obsession, don't like such a person. While the relationship is still shallow, cut it off as soon as possible, so as not to sink in step by step, and the water will be hard to recover.

Jun Yuecheng could hear Xiao Jingshui's incomplete meaning, but he just shook his head.

"There are some things that I can't just give up if I want to."

There were so many things mixed in Jun Yuecheng's voice that Xiao Jingshui couldn't distinguish the complexity.

A breeze blew across the roof, ruffling their hair.

After a while, Xiao Jingshui said slowly: "That's right, emotional matters are uncontrollable and unreasonable."

Whether you like it or not, is never something that can be decided simply by talking about it.

"I have never experienced this kind of emotion, so I don't understand it very well. I made rash judgments."

Xiao Jingshui said this with relief, but there was a trace of regret in his heart.

She doesn't know Jun Yuecheng's identity now, nor does she know what role he will play in the future.

But it is undeniable that Jun Yuecheng's identity is very important.The slightest change in his body will be a butterfly that can stir up a hurricane.In the face of catastrophe, the fewer variables, the better.

But variables are variables, they cannot be controlled by her, and they will not be changed by her wishes.

In this way, Xiao Jingshui had no choice but to comfort himself, variables are not always bad, and changes that may be good are not necessarily so.

Jun Yuecheng laughed: "It's not because of feelings, Jing Shui didn't say anything wrong, so don't blame yourself."

When Xiao Jingshui said that he had never experienced such feelings, Jun Yuecheng felt a little joy in his heart.

Xiao Jingshui wondered: "Since it's not emotion, what is it?" It means that emotional matters cannot be controlled, and other things are controllable.

"It's fate."

When he said these words, the sun fell gently on his face, Jun Yuecheng looked with a little inexplicable piety, and his voice was soft:

"As fate would have it, I will fall in love with her and we will be together."

Xiao Jingshui was surprised: "Fate?"

"Yes, destiny."

Xiao Jingshui gave Jun Yuecheng a strange look: "I didn't expect you to believe in fate."

Although Jun Yuecheng usually pretends to be quite good, Xiao Jingshui can feel that he is a superior person.

A qualified superior will not believe in fate. They think that their fate is in their own hands.

Jun Yuecheng shook his head and laughed, "I don't believe in fate."

Being a king does not always conform to fate, otherwise you can only become a puppet of fate.A real king wants to make fate his puppet.

There was a hint of interest in Xiao Jingshui's eyes.

"Oh?" Xiao Jingshui uttered a syllable, showing a look of wishing to hear more about it.

Jun Yuecheng, who had just been taught a bunch of love books by Xiao Jingshui, naturally would not reject her simple wish, and narrated his thoughts:
"For me, fate can be trusted or not. If it conforms to my will, I will believe it and realize it; otherwise, I will fight it to the end. I will never let fate control me."

Rather than saying that he believes in fate, it is better to say that he is willing to use fate as an excuse to do something in line with his heart.

When Jun Yuecheng said this, his tone was not very forceful, but the determination in it was convincing.

Appreciation flashed across Xiao Jingshui's eyes: "Heroes see the same thing."

Destiny will only be accepted when it conforms to people's hearts. If it goes against people's hearts, then some people want to step on it.Like her, like Jun Yuecheng.

"However, from this point of view, Yue Cheng also likes that fairy very much." Xiao Jingshui said softly.

Otherwise, Jun Yuecheng wouldn't have said such a thing.

It's just that I don't know how unique a fairy must be to make Jun Yuecheng so happy.

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