Smart Women Should Read Men's Psychology: Secrets Men Don't Want You to Know

Chapter 28 Men's Love White Paper in the E-era (5)
There is a girl named Xiaorui, a pharmacist, who is very beautiful and has many suitors around her.Almost without exception, though, she slept with men on the first date.Later, she slept with a man she really liked.After they had sex, the man had a sudden thought, stared at her and asked, "Are you like this with all men?"

That's why, if you start out having sex with a guy, he'll think, "She just didn't say no to me!" Then he'll scratch his head wondering how many men you didn't say no to.

Although making love is as short as the speed of light, the man has already got his wish.The reason a man is more conscious after making love is that he has been released, he has served his purpose.A woman is just the opposite. She has just begun to pursue her goal, her efforts have only just begun.Then she started chasing him...and he ran away.

Whether you like it or not, in the beginning, you need to negotiate your relationship skillfully with your boyfriend on a point-by-point basis.If you compromise quickly, you give up all bargaining power.You have to be on your own pace and be able to determine if this man is the one you want, neither striding forward nor holding on to anything.

Men like to play games that women think are crazy.We might as well imagine such a scene: a man full of energy is watching the Super Bowl game on TV, and the current score is 47:3.This kind of score is not going to make him very excited, is it?But if he's watching a game that goes into overtime, even if he's sat and watched for three hours, he'll be in high spirits, and once his team wins, he'll start yelling, "Great! Great!" Such a game, even after 3 years, he will definitely be able to describe the situation at that time, as if the game happened yesterday.

In the same way, if a woman can give herself up slowly, she will have the same effect.He will hunger for you even more.This may sound like a cliché, but please believe that this is the conclusion that experts have reached through research on countless men.

It can't be denied that some men simply don't want to put in the effort, and there are others who subscribe to the "three-date rule."This rule says: Only date the same woman three times, and if she doesn't "give in," then give up on her altogether.In reality, this type of man just wants to be successful in getting a woman and then be successful in getting rid of her.For such a man, it is best for a woman to stay away.

Some women may feel obligated, pressured, or compelled to have sex with a man early on.After making love to a man, she believed that, with harmonious sex, he would fall in love with her, and she thought that the sex she provided was as precious as gold.In fact, it's the exact opposite. Sex is gold when a man thinks he can't get it right away.

Therefore, when a woman interacts with a man, she must first set up a "chaste archway" for herself in her heart, and let him pay enough to get you, otherwise he will treat you as a "cheap" and throw it away after playing. up.

Tips for Asking Your Boyfriend to "Wait"

When you're trying to keep your relationship with your boyfriend out of the bed in the bedroom, it's important to remember that he thinks very differently than you do about it.You want to keep your feet on the ground, but he wants your footsteps to be confused, so as to wait for the opportunity to "strike" you.

In fact, even if you like a guy very much, don't let him know, because it will not do you any good.Giving him an ambiguous sexual hint is easy to get a response, because he's already ready for sex and has been trying to seduce you with sex.

For example, if you have taken off your shirt, or you are kissing on the sofa, while making some teasing movements, after a few minutes, he thinks you are ready, at this time, if you say "no", then It's like giving a piece of candy to a child and then taking it away from him.In this way, it will make him feel very depressed and suffer a blow.He hardly ever wants to get you in the game, because you've taken all the fun out of it.As a result, he changed from being full of "sex" to aggrieved by you.If he feels like he's being teased, he has every reason to give up on pursuing you.

Follow these tips to make sure you put off having sex without making him think you're teasing him until he gets you:
1. Praise him at the right time

Let him know you care about him.For example, when he hugs you, hold him tight, smell his cologne, or tell him he looks handsome.You should show that you are just biding your time instead of just saying no to him.

2. Always smile knowingly at his jokes
You should let him regard you as both a friend and a lover.If he babbles on and on about himself, especially if he's even a little nervous, that's an excellent sign.Because if he likes you, he will try to open up about himself.

3. Activities are best arranged during the day
If you go on a bike ride with him, it's a red light.But if it's midnight and the two of you are sitting wrapped in blankets in front of the fireplace with a glass of wine, he'll think you might have given the green light.

4. Give him a warm kiss at the right time

Definitely when you're out, or somewhere you won't be lingering for long.Although you may cuddle on the floor, in bed, on the couch, don't let his actions escalate when you're alone.

5. Don’t let him into your room after a date

On the first outing, it was late at night when the breakup happened, and he might want to come into your room.If you decide he's up to something, be sure to let his farewell be done at the door.

6. Be wary of dirty jokes
Many times, men will test your tolerance with dirty jokes.Don't be serious - you can laugh when someone tells a joke, and you can tell a joke.However, don't stop at the sexual content, that way, he will mistakenly think that the green light is on.

7. Show that you are a loving woman
Holding his hand or resting your head on his shoulder will make him feel manly in himself.While you're watching a movie, touch his legs lightly, but don't tease him -- it just means keeping your knees close together.

8. Can make out in public
Doing so is usually quite safe, since he can take no further action.

9. Don’t hesitate
Even if you do wander, don't show it.Don't keep telling him he'll have to wait another month; don't make it clear if he's excited, don't tell him three days in advance that you're almost ready.If you're not ready to do something, don't give him the chance to do it.

10. Don't believe things like "we're just cuddling"

Even if you have known each other for a long time, even if he is a real gentleman with extraordinary restraint.Your purpose here is not to tease him.

In fact, if he really likes you, even though he will subtly put pressure on you, deep down in his heart, he still wants you to make him wait a little longer.He wants you to be "different".He wants to impress you with elegance, coolness and chic.He wants you to pick up on his jokes and think he's funny.What he wants is a goddess, what he wants is an extraordinary woman.

So how do you go about making that impression on him?It's very simple, let him pursue you, don't hand over your body too easily.

man who doesn't contact after sex

In fact, such men are very common. When they pursue women, they treat women as princesses, and they are responsive to women. However, after they succeed, even when women take the initiative to ask them out to play, they will find various excuses. Women have a sense of being cheated.

Xiaofei met such a bad man:

He is the elder brother of a classmate of Xiao Fei, who was introduced to him by a classmate, and after getting along for a period of time, Xiao Fei became his girlfriend.Xiaofei thinks he is a real man, very mature, and his conversation is very pleasing to girls.And, most importantly, Xiaofei felt that he cared about herself.When they were in a relationship, they would see each other every day, and he would call as soon as they got home.

Later, they ate the forbidden fruit while traveling for a weekend, and since then, they have had sex whenever they saw each other.However, what made Xiao Fei depressed was that he would never take the initiative to contact her again. Even if he had sex the first day, he didn't call her the next day. He always said that he was busy when he called.At first, Xiaofei really understood him and thought that he worked very hard, but after a long time she found that it was not the case at all.

Generally speaking, if a man often has no news for several days after having sex, it means that he regards you as an unburdened sexual partner, and he doesn't love you at all, let alone think about marrying you.

Sex is the expression of love and the process of expressing love.Of course, men may have sex with women on impulse, but as long as they are not pursuing one-night stands, most of them will maintain some kind of relationship for a long time.In this case, sex should become part of love, only in this way can a woman gain satisfaction.

If a man really likes a woman, he doesn't just ask for sexual gratification.In order to hear your voice, see your smile, and smell your fragrance, it is impossible for him not to contact you for several days.To put it another way, can you not contact the man you like for several days in a row?It is precisely because that man doesn't love you that he doesn't have to contact you at all.

Wise women, how would you feel if you were with a guy you liked and all you got were sex memories?So if you spent the night with him last night, make it your last night with him!

"sex" man
What men value most, besides career, is "sexual" bravery.A man's sexual desire is the general longing of his soul.When a man touches a woman's plump breasts and smooth jade legs, he will immediately feel the stimulation of the combination of desire and love.By touching these tender women, a man begins to feel his tenderness for women.

Lust is part of the primordial nature of man, but he must feel it through the touch of a woman's body and the pleasurable response she gives.Usually, only after having a perfect sexual experience, they suddenly realize that they have not noticed how beautiful the sky outside is for a long time.

Men get this feeling of dynamism at work too, but with perfect sex with their partners, they can rediscover a sense of life sensitivity that can easily be forgotten in the process of focusing on their work goals .The perfect sex helps them stop their hasty pace and experience the fragrance of roadside flowers.

The greater the pressure on men in real life and the busier their work, the more they yearn for sexual stimulation and relief.Because, the relief of these intense sexual pleasures matched his real emotions again and opened his heart again.For him, sexual desire is not only a pleasurable experience, but also a profound experience of love.

When a man's desire to be comforted and comforted is satisfied, his spiritual ability will naturally increase.And when his spiritual feeling ability is awakened, great vitality will emerge.At this time, he will once again experience feelings of joy, peace and relaxation.

Men love a woman's sexy body, the looming curves, and the shy and timid delicacy will have a huge temptation for men.However, after the two get acquainted, some women tend to ignore this point. Not only do they show their bodies naked in front of their lovers without any worries, without the shyness that once made men's hearts beat, but they also no longer pay attention to underwear, and even don't wear makeup or look slovenly. , thinking that since the two are already intimate, there is no need to hide it anymore.

In fact, men lose their "sexual interest" in this "confession".Because men are always willing to retain their curiosity about women, they like the mystery and allure of women, and hope that they hide themselves behind a mysterious veil and give themselves an impulse to uncover it.

Therefore, men's sexual requirements are often stronger than women's, but the indecent sex often makes them degenerate.Some men, for various reasons, cannot obtain the sex that satisfies him, so they often resort to other means, such as watching porn and so on.

Why do men love watching porn so much?This is a difficult and easy question to answer.The general answer is often an escape or an obstacle.Because real problems are often glossed over or ignored.Another answer is - the "color" of men.Because men do not have the burden of pregnancy and no scruples about chastity, they can conquer the world of "sex" and "swim around and have fun" like a fish in water. Therefore, men are naturally more enthusiastic about watching porn.

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