The male god of fast wear is too fierce and cute

Chapter 470 Blood Prince VS Protoss Girl 45
The message was sent by Su Qing: Don't talk to me now, and don't contact me.I'll let you know when I heal myself.

It was the first time He Tingbai received this kind of information, and he didn't know how to deal with it.

Because he didn't know whether Su Qing really wanted him to stay away, or whether he needed him to come forward to comfort him because of duplicity.

Fearing that Su Qing would be even more angry if he rushed forward rashly, He Tingbai decided to wait and see what happened.

"Ji Wenyan, what were you thinking during those 15 minutes?"

Su Qing's anger was almost gone, so she calmed down and explained to him: "Because people use a 'lizard brain' when they are angry. What they say and do when they are angry are often out of control. I don't know. Do you have the feeling that after you lose your temper, you can’t remember what you said, or feel very regretful when you wake up. But I have.”

"Sometimes, when I say harsh words and drop things, let alone solve the problem, I may even forget the reason for the quarrel when I am angry. So, in order to make you and I feel so angry, I can only start Calm yourself down."

"It's 100% normal for people to have angry emotions, and it's not a heinous sin to lose your temper once in a while. But I don't want to fight you because of it."

He Tingbai walked over and put his arms around Su Qing's shoulders, "It's okay for you to lose your temper. After all, this matter is my fault. I didn't make it clear to you in advance."

Su Qing withdrew from his arms and corrected him earnestly: "Small quarrels make you happy, but big quarrels hurt you. When the other party is really angry, you can't solve it hastily. When you feel angry, it's best not to Debate and quarrel with others immediately. Because your thinking is very confused at this time, you basically try to solve it by yelling, which is of no help to solve the problem. At this time, it is best to stand up and walk alone, or go for a drink of water .”

"This stage takes 10 to 15 minutes. After doing enough mental construction, start trying to solve the problem. Ask yourself: Is it possible to solve the problem if I am so angry? Is he sure he knows what I am angry? Why am I? Are you angry? Is there any other reason that affected the performance of the two of us just now? Is it because life is too tiring, or have we suffered some grievances?"

"Generally, after the above-mentioned thinking, the two of you can sit down and have a good talk. Tell me why you lost your temper, and explain what you should pay attention to next time. Got it?"

He Tingbai listened to her words seriously, "I know. So, you have finished thinking, right?"

"Ah."

"Then let's go to the next step and sit down and have a good talk."

Su Qing went to sit on the sofa, with a look of 'tell me, I'll listen'.

He Tingbai took a few glances at Su Qing to confirm that she had really calmed down before she was relieved.

"I am a divorced family, and my parents quarreled countless times. You are right, my father is indeed a good father, but he is not a good husband, and my mother is not a good mother. Later, because my mother left, My life has become more stringent, and I can’t even make a single mistake, I must be several times, dozens of times better than my peers.”

"Every time my father vented his anger on me, and kept instilling some ideas in me, telling me not to get married."

(End of this chapter)