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Chapter 239 Don't Lend Money to Others Easily
Shakespeare has a famous saying: "Don't lend money to others, lending will make you lose money; don't borrow money from others, borrowing will make you forget to be thrifty."

You can help your friend in other kind ways, but don't lend him money.To lend money to another is to buy yourself an enemy.

If someone borrows money from you, how do you refuse him?Specific analysis can be done like this:

1. No opening method
Sometimes it is not easy to refuse the other party. I often rehearse it N times in my heart. Once I face the other party and cannot make up my mind, I always cannot speak.This is where body language comes in handy.Generally speaking, shaking your head means negation. When others see you shaking your head, they will understand what you mean, and you don't need to say any more after that.In addition, the interruption of a smile is also a hint. In a conversation, a sudden interruption of a smile implies that you cannot agree and refuse.Similar body language includes: adopting a leaning posture, wandering eyes, looking at the watch frequently, absent-minded...but do not hurt the other party's self-esteem.

2. Direct Analysis

Directly state to the other party the objective reasons for rejecting the other party, including your own situation that does not allow it, social conditions, etc.Usually these situations should be recognized by the other party, in order to understand your difficulties, and then voluntarily give up.

3. Procrastinating and procrastinating
If you have already promised something, it is unwise to procrastinate again and again. The procrastination method here refers to not giving a reply temporarily. Research or think about it, then the smart counterparty can immediately understand that you are not willing to agree.

4. Clever transfer method

When it is not good to directly refuse, we have to adopt roundabout tactics, whether it is to change the topic or have other reasons, the main thing is to be good at using the turning point of tone-gentle and persistent-never agree, but it will not tear your face.For example, express sympathy or praise to the other party first, and then give reasons and refuse.

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Don't lend money to others easily. The "others" here refer to ordinary friends, or good friends who have no ability to repay.If this friend is worthy of your trust and has the ability to repay, in order to maintain a friendly relationship, you can still consider lending him money.

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