No regrets ninety-two

Chapter 853 Ma Li's Heart Disease

If a person has had a bad experience, he will leave a knot or heart disease in his heart.

Heart disease is the most difficult to cure.

But for Wu Xiaozheng, in his past and present lives, he has encountered too many bad things, so he has left too many heart problems and knots.

No one else can help him with these heart problems and knots, he can only solve them one by one by himself.

Now, he finally unlocked another one.

At this time, he hoped that the miserable experience he had suffered would not let others experience it again.At least in Xiangshui Village, he can do as much as he can.

It's just that he didn't expect that what he said and did just now made the noses of the other two sour.

One is Wu Minxia.

When it comes to the patriarchy of country people, she has the most personal experience.

Because of Wu Changhe's patriarchal patriarchy, it left a big heartache in her heart and shattered her life dreams. This created a lot of resentment in her heart, which could not be resolved for a long time.

Fortunately, Wu Xiaozheng has completely changed the fate of the Wu family. Under his influence, Wu Changhe no longer shows patriarchal thoughts too much.

This made Wu Minxia very pleased.

But when she heard that Wu Xiaozheng asked Liu Shiquan to include patriarchy in the uncivilized norms of Xiangshui Village, she still couldn't help her nose sore.

Another person with a sour nose is naturally Ma Li.

Before, although Wu Xiaozheng was mediating the marriage between Liu Xuewen and Xiumei, Ma Li felt the same way.

Because of a painful marriage experience, Ma Li suffered a huge blow. She felt that she had become a worthless second-hand product from a young girl, so she had a tendency to abandon herself.

And in the mediation process just now, Wu Xiaozheng succeeded in pulling off the sidelines, which made her sigh endlessly.

When looking for a wife, is it more important to be a big girl, or to be virtuous, able to manage the house, able to make money, and able to respect in-laws?

After the crowd dispersed, when everyone was going back to Wu's house, Ma Li was still thinking about this issue.

Isn't it true that if you are not a big girl with a yellow flower and have a marriage experience, you won't be disgusted by others?

She is not sure.

Therefore, as soon as she got in the car, she asked Wu Xiaozheng: "If you were Liu Xuewen, would you really mind that Xiumei was divorced and brought a baby?"

Wu Xiaozheng gave her a strange look.

When Ma Li asked this question, he could roughly guess what she was thinking.

His thoughts turned quickly again.

Really don't mind?

He couldn't be sure.

It's not a big problem if you've been divorced, but it's not necessarily a problem if you have a baby.

Unless he loves that woman to the bone!
He came to such a conclusion.

It seems that I am still a layman!

He couldn't help admiring Liu Xuewen.

In this respect, Liu Xuewen is much better than himself.

Of course, such thoughts cannot be expressed, otherwise Ma Li's heart disease will be even worse.

"What's so strange about that? Do you think divorce is a big deal?"

In order to conceal his thoughts, Wu Xiaozheng asked a question.

"Isn't it a big deal?"

Of course Ma Li didn't agree with this, she felt that Wu Xiaozheng didn't hurt his back when he spoke standing up.

She feels that people who have never been divorced do not know the sadness of divorced people.

As far as she is concerned, in her marriage, she was obviously Xiong Hanming's scum, and such a big scandal broke out, but in the process of her divorce, she still experienced many obstacles.

When she had the idea of ​​divorce, her parents, brothers, sister-in-law didn't understand, saying that once divorced, her reputation would be bad, the rumors outside would be too much for her, and her family would be dishonored, so they persuaded her to endure it. with.

When she returned to school, the school leaders also came to persuade her, saying that marriage is not easy, that it can be done and cherished, and that Xiong Hanming should be given a chance to change his ways.

Then when other colleagues and students saw her, they also looked at her strangely.

When it came to the specific divorce, the procedures were also very cumbersome. She needed a letter of introduction from the school, a letter of introduction from the neighborhood committee, and then went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle it. This made her suffer another round of strange looks.

It was precisely because of this that she made up her mind to escape from Xiangshui.

"It's really not a big deal. After ten years, you will find that divorce will become a common occurrence for everyone. A casual quarrel between husband and wife may lead to divorce."

Speaking of divorce, Wu Xiaozheng really didn't stand up and talk without back pain.

If counting his previous life, he experienced this earlier than Ma Li.

Therefore, he is clear about divorce.

But he also knows that divorce in this era is really different from ten years later.

He is not very clear about the specific content of the current marriage law, but he knows that by next year, the 94th version of the "Regulations on the Administration of Marriage Registration" will be promulgated and implemented.

In this version of the Marriage Law, divorce is still a troublesome matter. In addition to certificates from units, neighborhood committees or village committees, the Civil Affairs Bureau may conduct multiple mediations.

Therefore, once people in this era get divorced, it will be known to everyone.

In 2003, the new "Regulations on Marriage Registration" will be promulgated. At that time, according to the regulations, both parties only need to present valid documents, a divorce agreement signed by both parties and two 2-inch photos, plus a "divorce certificate" worth 2 yuan. 》The cost of work can easily handle the divorce.

At that time, the divorce becomes a very private matter. If the parties concerned do not disclose it, the parents and children of both parties may not know about it.

It is precisely because of this that the divorce rate in China has begun to increase rapidly.

Also in 2003, the number of divorces increased by 2002% compared with 20.6, and has been increasing year by year since then. Later, China's divorce rate even climbed to the top three in the world, second only to Russia and the United States.

Thinking of this, Wu Xiaozheng thought a lot.

He didn't know that the divorce rate in later generations has risen so fast, is it related to the change in social atmosphere?Or is it related to the 2003 version of the Marriage Ordinance?
Alas, the world is changing so fast!
Ma Li also did not believe that there would be such a change ten years later.

She curled her lips, expressing her disapproval of Wu Xiaozheng's words.

A group of people returned to Wu's house, and everyone made a meal together.

Next, it's time to arrange for Ma Li and Zhang Ying to go home.

Among the three women who came back together, Zhuang Ningwen will definitely spend the New Year at Wu's house, but Ma Li and Zhang Ying have their own homes. For the older ones, they should go home to spend the New Year with their parents and family.

But Wu Xiaozheng immediately ran into a problem again.

Ma Li immediately replied: "I don't want to go back so early. I have to listen to gossip and complain from my parents when I go back."

When she came like this, Zhang Ying also booed: "I also want to play here for a day or two."

Wu Xiaozheng: "..."

It's the 27th of the twelfth lunar month, and you still haven't gone home?

What's the point of this?
Forget about Zhang Ying, she must still want to cling to herself.

But Mary...

It seems that her heart disease is not as serious as usual!

In desperation, he had no choice but to say: "Then go to my home in the county and settle down first."

This is a last resort.

The Wu family's new villa has not yet been completed, and the old residence simply cannot accommodate so many people.

Fortunately, Wu Xiaozheng bought a three-bedroom and one living room in the county, and now it happens to house these three women.

He just didn't know if there would be any troubles in this way.

(End of this chapter)