Psychological Suggestion: Awaken Your Best Self

Chapter 14 Life can not be Reshaped Without the Help of Suggestion

The first section "want" to stimulate positive energy
Maybe you haven't noticed, maybe you have noticed, a very strange phenomenon often occurs in our daily life, that is, "good words don't work, bad words work".You say I don’t want to be fat, but you just get fatter; you say I’m an idiot, but you really become an idiot; you say I don’t want to be late, but you are late; You really mess up all the work.

Is this a curse?No!no!This is just an oolong that you accidentally made!

Why do you say that?Because everything that happens to you is the result of your subconscious reacting to your "commands," and you have had misfortune, and it can only be said that you gave the wrong order.Yes, that's it, you have to know that your subconscious is very immature, still a child, it doesn't understand that double negation is equal to affirmation, it doesn't understand any twists and turns, any negation words may cause it to misunderstand.

For example, you say: "I can't forget", well, your subconscious mind misunderstood, it saw the mental image of "forgetting", so it helped you forget.

For another example, if you say: "I will not be late", well, your subconscious mind is confused again, and it has clearly seen the mind map of "being late", so it helps you to be late.

For example, when you are sick and your head hurts, the first thing you care about is always the headache, and the most you think about is how to make the headache not hurt, how much pain and inconvenience the headache has brought you, but I never thought about making myself healthy.This kind of logical thinking is obviously problematic, but many people are used to this way of thinking, and it is not surprising.

Therefore, don't let words like "I don't want to..." "I can't..." "I won't..." "I don't..." appear in your subconscious mind, otherwise, what you get will be what you want the most. Unwanted.

Well, well, I'll admit I'm just a quirk, and I've never been willing to give in to inertia.Now, I also want to guide you out of the vicious circle of inertia and change your entry point of thinking.

Don't hesitate, come with me, focus all your attention, all your thoughts, all your energy on your health, hold on, and trust that the medicine you are taking is the magic medicine that can heal your pain easily Headaches, yes, keep doing this, stimulate positive energy, and your health will return to you soon.

What are you still hesitating about?What are you still doubting?Your subconscious mind only believes in what you "want", and only conforms to what you "can", what you "don't want", what you "can't", it will never give it to you.In other words, wanting is the last word and positive energy can be stimulated.Focus on what you want, focus on what you want to accomplish, focus on what you want to accomplish, focus on the dreams you want to achieve, if you can articulate it all with your focus Give it to the subconscious mind, and it will respond to you and help you realize it.

So it's important not to get distracted, not to say anything that gets misunderstood, not to picture anything in your mind that you don't want, and not to let negative people or things affect your feelings.

Again, remember that what you "want" must not contain negative words, otherwise the subconscious will definitely take it out of context.

Having said so much, there is actually one sentence: "want" is the last word, "want" can stimulate positive energy, and positive energy can reshape life, so don't let negative thoughts affect you.

Melinda's parents are both businessmen. She lives a good life, but she is not happy because her parents are busy and have no time to accompany her. She is very lonely. As she grows older, the smile on her face becomes less and less .

This summer, 17-year-old Melinda and her classmates came to Wyoming, USA to visit Yellowstone National Park.During the trip, she stayed with an old woman who owned a grocery store.

Although the time spent together was very short, Melinda still felt the happiness of the old woman.She was very puzzled. The old woman's husband died in a safety accident 30 years ago. Only one son still drinks and gambles. So happy?Melinda asked the old woman, but the old woman didn't answer, but let her sit quietly in the grocery store, listening and watching.

After a while, a man walked into the grocery store. He greeted the old woman: "Mrs. James, please give me a pack of cigarettes!"

The old woman handed the cigarette to the man swiftly, and asked him, "Bob, how are you today?"

The man complained: "Damn it, the weather is really unbearable, it's so hot!"

The old lady nodded: "It's very hot!"

The man complained for 15 minutes and went out with a cigarette.

Ten minutes later, a fat woman in an apron walked into the grocery store, and as soon as she entered, she exclaimed, "Mrs. James, my life sucks. My son, you know, is little Billy. I can't bear it. I don't understand how I could have such a stupid child. Oh, sorry, give me a bag of salt. God, I can't help but be angry when it comes to salt, stupid Billy It's sugar, it's poured into my coffee, and I..."

The fat woman complained for a full 10 minutes before leaving with a bag of salt.

When the fat woman left, the old woman asked Melinda, "Son, did you see it? Did you hear it?"

Melinda nodded. "They're full of complaints. They're complaining about life."

The old woman smiled and said: "Yes, they complain, so they are distressed, and they are not happy; I never complain, so I am happy. Children, you have to understand that no amount of complaining can help you solve your problems. If you are right You are not satisfied with your life. If your current life is not what you want, then find a way to change it and work hard to get the life you want. If life is unchangeable, then change your mentality. Children, remember Take my word for it."

Melinda did remember the old lady's words. Since then, she has never complained about life or her parents. She faces life positively. She yearns for all the good things in life. She works hard and struggles. Then, she firmly believed that she could change her life, so she succeeded, and she got the love and happiness she wanted.

The subconscious energy is like a river, it will flow in whatever channel you dig out; it will flow wherever you guide it to flow.As the law of attraction says, positive energy attracts positive energy, negative energy attracts negative energy, positive thoughts attract positive things, and negative thoughts attract negative things.

Don't underestimate any word you say, don't ignore any thought that arises in your mind, because it is a suggestion to the subconscious mind.Whether the energy aroused by the suggestion is positive or negative, and whether the result brought about by the suggestion is good or bad, all depends on you.So, from now on, let go of those negative, negative, incorrect thoughts, words, actions and emotions.Don't let bad people into your life, don't let bad things affect your mood, focus all your attention on the things you want, or the same sentence, "want" is the last word .

Also, don't say those sentences that will cause misunderstanding. If you don't want to be late, you can tell yourself-"I will definitely be on time"; if you don't want to forget, just tell yourself-"I will definitely remember!"; If you don't want to get angry, just tell yourself - "I have a good temper", if you don't want to talk, just tell yourself - "Keep silent".

Positive psychological hints can stimulate the purest positive energy, and the purest positive energy can create a different and beautiful life for you.And the bargaining chip used to exchange for a better life is nothing but a shift of your attention, a change in your way of thinking and language habits.

Think about it, changing the way of speaking, changing the focus, changing the way of thinking is equivalent to changing the life.What reason do you have to miss such a good thing?
Section [-] Grasp the initiative, life has no limits

A friend asked me: How many steps are there in total to transform the suggestion into reality?
I answered: There are three steps in total.The first step is to convey the suggestion to the subconscious; the second step is to accept or reject the suggestion by the subconscious; the third step is to transform the suggestion into reality or the subconscious discards the suggestion.

The steps are simple and the key points are obvious, as I mentioned above.Yes, whether the subconscious mind receives the suggestion is the key to whether the suggestion can be transformed into reality.So how can the subconscious mind receive hints?It's simple, let the emotions generated by the suggestion play the favor of the subconscious mind.

But obviously, you can't understand my explanation because it's too general, so well, I'll put it another way.

If a thief broke into your house, stole your gold ring, and you came back when he was about to leave, and you caught him, what would you do?Beat him up?Turn him over to the Public Security Bureau?Scold him for half an hour?Anyway, no matter what your choice is, you sure won't let him go lightly, right?
But what if the thief is your own brother?Would you still swear to send him to jail?Will you still insist on not forgiving?No need to think about it, I know that you must be trying every means to excuse him in your heart and let yourself forgive him; you must be telling yourself: He may have encountered some difficulties.He is in urgent need of money, but he is too embarrassed to tell me. I am usually too strict with him.He's my brother, and what's mine is his. It's not right for him to take my gold ring, but it's not stealing.

Let's see, what does your performance mean?Yes, four words, closeness is different!

Don't deny it, it's normal. From the moment we are born, each of us lives in a relatively fixed circle. For those in our circle, such as relatives and lovers, we will naturally love, trust, and favor , just as they love, trust and favor us too.On the contrary, for a stranger, we will instinctively be vigilant, guarded, alienated, distrustful, and unwilling to forgive easily. After all, a stranger is a stranger, and a stranger is not important in your heart, dispensable , no status.

The same goes for our subconscious mind.It also takes different attitudes towards different hints.For the subconscious mind, self-suggestion is its relative, lover, and younger brother. Therefore, even if self-suggestion does something that makes it angry, the subconscious mind will choose to forgive.Therefore, once the self-suggestion has any requirements, the subconscious will take the initiative to fulfill it willingly.On the contrary, other people's hints are strangers to the subconscious mind. What impact can the stranger's words have on the subconscious mind?I don't know, maybe this guy is not a good person, so it's better to stay away from him, so we must be vigilant. As for the wishes of strangers, what does it matter to me?

Well, having said so much, I just want you to understand that all psychological hints must be transformed into self-suggestions to be effective. Without your own nod of approval, no external hints can have any influence on you.It's like, a person says to you: "You will die tomorrow", if you treat that person as a lunatic, treat what he said as crazy, and don't believe it, then his words will have no effect on you at all.But if you believe that person, then sorry, you will die tomorrow.It is not others but yourself who kills you, because without your approval, all hints and thoughts cannot function through the subconscious mind.

In other words, in fact, the initiative in life has always been in our own hands, and the switch of fate has always been controlled by ourselves.The reason why we fail, are depressed, wasted, and mediocre is not because of the injustice of God, but because we have given up the initiative, and we have given up on ourselves.

What we do most often is not to fight for our dreams, not to work hard for our goals, but to bind ourselves.We don't have a ruler, we don't have a pole, we haven't even done any tests, but we have set ourselves a life height.This height has become a hurdle in our hearts, and it has become the biggest obstacle that hinders our progress, because we have already believed that we can only jump so high, we have believed that we cannot be successful, healthy, and impossible... We gave ourselves There are too many impossibilities, and these impossibilities gradually lower the height of our low life. In this way, we will become more inferior, more depressed, and more negative, and we will lament: I still overestimated myself .

In fact, however, you are not overestimating yourself, but seriously underestimating yourself.It's as if you tie up your legs first, make sure you can only run so far, and then test how far you can run.You have given yourself an answer, you have set an end point for yourself, so why bother with testing?Your grades are doomed before the test, and you will never exceed the end point you set, won't you?

Remember, a famous psychology master once said that as much as your expectations are, your achievements will be as great. If you want to be a captain, you can't be a teacher; if you want to be a teacher, you can't be a general; You can't be a marshal if you want to be a general.Because you have set yourself the best and highest result before the result comes.In other words, you have voluntarily given up the possibility of breaking through yourself and controlling your destiny.

Napoleon Bonaparte said that "a soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier", and I would say that a general who only wants to be a general is not a good general either.

Why dare not think, dare not do, why should self-limit?

Because of fear!

You fear failure, you fear not being perfect, you fear not being recognized.You are afraid of being ridiculed and questioned because you can't do something well; you are afraid of hitting yourself; you are afraid of admitting that your abilities are limited.Therefore, you would rather lower your requirements, you would rather not do it, because in this way you can still make excuses for your failure to be successful and imperfect-"I didn't do it, if I did, I would definitely do it well", but such a What does covering up do other than accentuate your lack of self-confidence?You live carefully, you are afraid of any mistakes in your work, you bind yourself in an inescapable cage, is it just to continue your mediocre life?

Jeff Paul is a visa financial planner with an easy job and a decent life. He is also a small celebrity in the place where he lives. Many people envy him, but he is very distressed because he cannot get out of his current life. To get any happiness, he feels that he is bound, his life is dominated by others, and he feels that he should not only reach such heights.So, under the puzzled eyes of many people, he resigned resolutely, and he wanted to control the initiative in his life.

After resigning, after careful consideration, he chose to engage in the mail order business. Books, radio, recordings, and brochures became its main means of publicity. He never considered buying a truck for himself, because the express company would pay for it He does it for him.At the beginning, his business was bleak, but he firmly believed that he could succeed, and he constantly improved his way of doing business. Finally, he raised the height of his life, and his mail order business got the widest recognition. The book "How to Make Big Money Effortlessly Sitting at the Dinner Table" provided him with a handsome income, and his sales experience became legendary.

Who is born a legend?Who is born to be successful?

Everyone's potential is unlimited, everyone can create a legend, and everyone can reach a height that others can't reach, as long as you don't limit yourself to a height.

If God tells you that you will definitely be a mayor in the future, you will not be satisfied with being a mayor, but you will hope that you can become a president.That's how people are, the unknown can bring fear, because of the unknown, because they don't know where their limits are, they will easily give up and give up the initiative in life easily.

Jeff Paul believes that his success comes from psychological suggestion.Indeed, he never recognized his height, he always thought he could go further and stand higher.He broke the seemingly unbreakable shackles of life, gave himself the most positive psychological hints, and his subconscious mind also responded to his positive hints, so he succeeded.

What could be better understood than this?A seed, even if it grows in a crevice of rock, will try to break out of the ground as long as it has a chance, looking for the rain and dew of life; a sunflower, even if it grows with its back facing the sun, it will overcome all difficulties and live forever. Chasing the sun.Similarly, when pure, positive, and correct thoughts follow the guidance of the heart and continue to point to a strong and positive goal, no difficulties or problems can become its obstacles, and it will definitely awaken and grow. A powerful force that transforms ideas into reality.

So, don't hesitate anymore, firmly grasp the initiative in life, this is your natural right.What?You don't know how to grasp it?Then, follow me:

I can do it!I will do it!

I believe in myself!I love myself!

I will definitely succeed!I will be happy!I will be happy!I will be healthy!

Read it several times, read it every day, and don't forget to take action while reading it!As long as you do this, even the goddess of fate cannot take the initiative away from you.

Section [-] The power of role models is great
I once heard such a story:
The bookseller Bonet's book was unsalable. He racked his brains and came up with a solution: send a book to the President, and then repeatedly ask him for his opinion on the book.The president was annoyed by the question, so he said casually: "This book is good!" The clever Bonnet immediately advertised: a book that the president thinks is very good is on sale.As you can imagine, his books sold out quickly.

Three months later, Bonet's book was unsalable again. He repeated the same trick and sent another book to the President, and then asked the President what he thought of the book. The President was not fooled this time, and he said sullenly: " This book is terrible!" So Bonnet put out another ad: A book that the president thought was terrible was on sale.Out of curiosity, the citizens once again snapped up the books.

After half a year, Bonnet's book was unsalable again, so he sent the book to the president again. This time the president didn't say anything, but Bonnet still made a suitable advertisement: a book that made the president unable to draw conclusions. The book is on sale, so hurry up if you want to buy it.In this way, Bonnet's book was sold out again.

Why is Bonet's sales so successful?Obviously, he took advantage of the president, the influence of the president, and the influence of celebrities, or in other words, he took advantage of the power of role models!

Regardless of whether Bonnet’s approach is right or wrong, and regardless of whether citizens’ purchases are blind, and regardless of the meaning behind such promotions, from the perspective of a psychologist, I have to admit that Bonnet I have a good understanding of the power of role models, and I also have a deep understanding of the implications of role models.He is perfectly qualified for the position of a suggestive psychologist.

Well, back to the topic, let’s talk about the power of role models.

Everyone has one or more role models in their life.We always have a sincere respect and admiration for role models.We are willing to imitate them, to learn from their shining points, to imitate their strengths, and to replicate their success.This kind of "willingness" is the perfect booster for hints. In other words, the existence of role models is the most positive and positive hint, and the effect it can have is absolutely beyond our imagination. .

Think about it, why are people willing to frantically snap up a book that has no impression at all because of a word from the president?It's very simple, because a president who can win the popular election, a president who can stand at the top, is himself the most typical successful person and a role model in many people's minds.Learning from role models, imitating role models, and moving closer to the role models influence people's actions, so people snap up products, even if this kind of panic buying is not rational, even though such behavior may not be beneficial to their own development.But in any case, it always proves one thing, that is, examples do have a powerful suggestive power, and this suggestive power is infinite.

I still remember that there is a very old residential area in the suburbs of Paris. People living there are used to dumping garbage on an open space at the entrance of the alley.Later, the residential area was rebuilt, and the former open space was turned into a lawn, and garbage bins were placed on the lawn, but people still used to throw garbage on the open space, and there were very few people who were willing to take a few extra steps to throw garbage into the trash can.If one person throws garbage on the lawn, there will be another one. As a result, the lawn after renovation is still full of garbage and smells bad.

The environmental sanitation department has written many supervisory slogans on the nearby walls, such as please take a few steps forward to take out the garbage!Littering is prohibited!Anyone who dumps garbage will be fined 100 yuan!The wording was more severe each time, but it didn't have the slightest effect.It was not until half a year later that an old man over [-] years old and sitting in a wheelchair moved into the community, and the situation was reversed.

Why?Because this disabled old man struggles up and down the stairs in a wheelchair every day, walks more than 300 meters, and pours the garbage into the garbage bin accurately.The behavior of the old man made other people in the community feel ashamed. Unknowingly, they began to imitate the old man.

A very small matter, a very ordinary old man, a very simple action, but the power reflected in it made me sigh.

This is the power of suggestion, the power of example, and the power of example suggestion!
A person, a story, or a sentence, seemingly ordinary and simple, can ignite the passion and dreams in many people's hearts, awaken the kindness and sincerity in many people's hearts, change the fate of many people, and reshape their lives. This is an example the great force!

Due to professional reasons, I have been in and out of the study or office of many successful people. They may be government officials, entrepreneurs, technical elites, or bankers. Their offices and study rooms are also decorated in different styles. Or elegant, or simple, or concise, or solemn, or romantic, or fashionable, but their study offices have several things in common, that is, they all have some portraits, such as portraits of famous financiers and outstanding politicians; All have one or several slogans, such as "I succeed because I aim to succeed" and "Only after experiencing hell-like torture can I have the power to conquer heaven."

Woolworth is the famous father of success studies, and Napoleon Hill is a world-class master of success studies. The former's office and the latter's study are said to have the same style and layout.Is this just a coincidence?

Of course not!In fact, we can see similar furnishings in our daily life, especially in the study of your boss, your leader, and some successful people.

why?Do these furnishings have any magical effect and power?
The furnishings are of course ordinary furnishings, but they are not ordinary, because they exude the power of suggestion all the time!
Think about it, when you hang a portrait of a role model in your room, do you automatically give yourself a hint: I can be as successful as my role model.I can be as great as him, as brave, as wise, as... look up, look into the eyes of the portrait, do you feel that you are communicating with a role model, do you feel that you are inspired, do you feel that you have become more Confident?Believe me, you are changing, and for the better, but sometimes you don't see it.But being unaware doesn't mean it doesn't exist, and you can't deny the greatness of the power implied by the example.It's like you can't see the air, but you can't deny the existence of the air, and deny that you can't live without the air.

Of course, it doesn’t matter if you don’t understand, the suggestion doesn’t give up its function just because you don’t understand, it will still subtly change you.

What?You say there aren't any famous or great people you can use as a role model?Well, that's okay, no one has stipulated that the role model must be a celebrity.In fact, due to the constraints of age, experience, living environment, knowledge, experience and other conditions, we are indeed not easy to accept a "out of reach" celebrity, but are more willing to use better people around us as role models.

For example, you have a friend who is very down-to-earth and calm in doing things. As long as you entrust him with everything, he will do it very well, think carefully, and there will be no major mistakes, but you are just the opposite. Do things carelessly and carelessly, so that you can take him as your example and learn from him. Over time, you will also become calm, down-to-earth, and meticulous. This change is very obvious, and you can clearly feel it yourself.You have changed, and you are praised more, so you will naturally be grateful to your friends. You will praise him and praise him, and your praise and praise are just a positive hint to him, because he has received such hints that he will become even better.You promote each other and make progress together, which is really a good result, isn't it?
The fourth quarter uses "deception" in exchange for success

What do you think is the secret to success?strong?effort?wisdom?

How do you think success can be achieved?struggle?dedication?accumulation?
There are many answers to you, but I can guarantee that there will never be these two words - cheating!
Can success be cheated?This question seems ridiculous, but in fact, success can indeed be exchanged for "cheat".As long as your deception is good enough, as long as you successfully deceive yourself and your subconscious mind.Don't forget, your subconscious mind has a very amazing ability to make fakes come true!

Two people are doing the same thing at the same time, one of them is always worried that he will fail, while the other firmly believes that he will succeed, what will the result be?Although no matter whether it is failure or success, it is actually just a hypothesis, because things have not been done yet, and the result has not yet happened, but the negative hints of "will fail" and the positive hints of "will succeed" have already given this situation in advance. The game is judged, isn't it?You know, the power of suggestion can never be ignored, it is so powerful and irresistible.

On July 1798, 7, the eve of the naval battle of Abukir Bay, Major General Horatio Wilson explained the detailed battle plan to his deputy again.The deputy was very excited: "General, if we can win this battle, the world will remember us." General Wilson told him firmly: "If there is no if, we will definitely win. This is certain. The only uncertainty is That is, which of us will come back from the field alive to tell the people of our victories."

After all the deputies left, General Wilson murmured to himself: "At this time tomorrow, I will either have obtained the title of nobility, or I will have been buried in the graveyard of Westminster Abbey. There are only two results. But I think both results are good." At this moment, the general's eyes were sharp, and his eyes were extraordinarily bright, because his heart was filled with a belief, a belief that success was inevitable.

Every successful person has a kind of temperament, which is irreplaceable but can be cultivated.As long as we "deceive" ourselves, we will "deceive" ourselves without hesitation, and we tell ourselves: I have succeeded, I am a successful person!Then, we will change unknowingly, move closer to real success unknowingly, and unknowingly possess the temperament and demeanor of a successful person.When this kind of temperament is formed, all the low self-esteem and all the haze in our hearts will dissipate. We believe in our "achievements" and recognize our "success", so we will eventually reap success.

Don't doubt the power of hints, let alone the richness of imagination. Everyone has a seed of success hidden in their body. The best way is to "deceive", this kind of deception is also well-intentioned, respectable, and should be recognized and respected.

Try it, as long as you use the brush of imagination to paint a clear and vivid picture of your ideal in your mind, as long as you paint yourself a picture of success and convince your subconscious mind to believe it, then open a bottle of champagne, for Celebrate yourself, because your subconscious mind will translate the image into reality for you, because you have been face to face with success.

What?you do not believe?Well, think about the days when you were afraid, why were you afraid?Is it because you've always pictured a scary picture in your mind?Do you allow yourself to create horrific scenarios?Is it that you prefer to believe in a bad outcome?Have you already sentenced yourself to a "death sentence" in advance?
yes!right?That being the case, what do you have to complain about?What can you doubt?Your situation is entirely your own making!You think you're telling the truth to yourself, but in fact, you're just telling yourself a bigger, more vicious lie!You think you have not deceived yourself, but in fact, you have deceived yourself even more thoroughly and more miserably!

Your eyes are blind largely because you want them to be invisible; your mood is bad because you don’t want it to be good; a wizard’s curse makes you ill because you believe in it yourself.you are sick?Are you unhealthy?you failed?Are you discouraged?Who can blame?You are so "honest" and "honestly" clinging to an unpleasant "truth", and you are willing to pay your whole life for your "honesty", then no matter how magical the potential inspired by the suggestion is, it is impossible to Reshape your life!
What did you say?Do you want to change your way of life?What did you say?Do you want to reshape your life?Louder!Oh I hear you, you want to be successful, you want to embrace all that is good!
So, what are you waiting for?Go change now!Change your thinking, change your psychology, change your attitude, change your imagination!

right! "Cheat" yourself!Imagine that you have entered the school of your dreams, you have got the most ideal job, you have caught up with the girl you like the most, you have achieved unimaginable success..."Cheat" your heart, "Cheat" Your subconscious mind: "This is me, the real me, the future me, I will succeed, I will have all the good things!" Let your imagination fly, let your thoughts go, don't restrict them, whether it is or not Assumption, deception or not, take it as an undeniable fact, and let it leave a positive, positive, deep imprint on your subconscious mind.Believe me, one day, something "falsified into reality" will happen to you. At that time, the trace in your subconscious will be completely activated, bursting out incredible potential, leading you to success, happiness, and beauty , to the world you want.

(End of this chapter)