Psychological Suggestion: Awaken Your Best Self

Chapter 4 The Charm of Psychological Suggestion

Chapter [-] Do what you want
In our daily life, we often use "what we want" to bless others, but in fact, many times we ourselves do not believe that "what we want" can "come true".

A penniless beggar wants to become a billionaire, is it possible?A prisoner who just got out of prison wants to become the mayor of Paris, is it possible?A man who stutters naturally wants to be the best speaker, is it possible?

possible!Yes, possible!

Not only is it possible, but it must be possible!If the degree and cycle of "mind" are enough!
Note, I am not rambling!No exaggeration!Because it is true!
Because there is a law in this world called the law of attraction; because there is a law in the universe called the law of attraction.

What is the law of attraction?There are different opinions, different opinions, and different scholars have made different specific explanations, but in general, the essence is the same-"The money-conscious person always attracts money, and the poverty-conscious person always attracts poverty. Through your thoughts, words, and deeds, they will open the way to what you realize, whether rich or poor, will satisfy you just as you think your condition is."

Whether a person succeeds or fails, whether he is poor or rich, whether he is powerful or mediocre, whether he is dazzling or obscure, these are not determined by others, but by ourselves.What will happen in our life, what will happen, is not led by God, but attracted by ourselves.What attracts them is none other than the "mental image" in our mind, that is, what we think!

If we want to be successful, happy, healthy, and beautiful, then success, happiness, health, and beauty will follow and fill our lives.Correspondingly, if we want failure, depression, disease, and pain, then failure, depression, disease, and pain will also enter our world "as promised".And the bridge between "thinking" and "things come true" is the power of psychological suggestion!
"Resonate at the same frequency, attract like matter" This is the most essential feature of the law of attraction. When a certain idea arises in a person's mind, this idea will emit a specific wave frequency, and other "same matter will attract" The idea of ​​"frequency homogeneity" will be attracted, and under the promotion and guidance of the suggestive force, it will gradually turn into reality.

This may sound mysterious and esoteric, but it is actually very simple.

Many people have this experience: when they are in a bad mood, everyone is not pleasing to the eye, they are not interested in doing anything, and they feel irritable no matter what they do, as if the whole world is against them, as if the whole universe is against them. I am the most unlucky person, so the more I think about it, the more angry I become, and the mood becomes worse.And when you are in a good mood, even if you see someone you usually hate, you will find him pleasing to the eye, and even if you mess up a lot of things, you will feel that it is no big deal.

This is actually the law of attraction at work.Bad moods attract unpleasant things, and good moods attract all good things.

A philosopher said that thought determines reality, which makes sense.Everyone's life is actually what they "want". Everything that happens to us now, whether it is good or sad, whether it is lucky or unfortunate, is the reflection of our past thoughts in reality.We get what we most desire.What kind of person we most want to be, we will become what kind of person.

If we concentrate all our attention, silently imagine what we want most in our hearts, let "want most..." fill our souls, occupy our minds, and transform into the strongest desire, then this desire It will be transformed into reality naturally, which is exactly the so-called principle that all wishes come true.

Perhaps, many people will have doubts: Thought is thought, reality is reality, thought is invisible, how can it be transformed into reality?

it's actually really easy.No matter what kind of thought it is, as long as it is thought, it will have magnetism, and if it is magnetic, it will generate frequency, and this frequency will affect and penetrate into the subconscious unconsciously, and as we have said before, the subconscious is the The real "king" of the body, it controls the "supreme command" of life.

When a thought or a wish arises in our mind, this thought or wish will be naturally received by our subconscious mind. After receiving the "signal", the subconscious mind will direct our actions through the "signal". In this way, we will subconsciously do things that are conducive to the realization of our thoughts and wishes, and over time, our wishes will become reality.For example, if we want to become a billionaire, then in real life, we will subconsciously accumulate knowledge, find ways to make money, invest in stocks, start a business, and... do everything that is conducive to the realization of our wishes. Then at some point in the future, we will find that we have become billionaires.Things are so simple.

Perhaps, you will say, if you can succeed, no one wants to face failure; if you can be happy, no one wants to suffer misfortune; if you can live a rich life, who is willing to struggle in poverty?But in reality, failure, misfortune and poverty are the most.Don't they think about success, about happiness, about abundance?

No, they thought about it!
Now that I've thought about it, why didn't my wish come true?Does this mean that the thoughts, subconsciousness, suggestion, and wishes we just expounded are all nonsense, self-imagining, taking for granted, individual imagination, and no universality?
No!no! "Thinking" can indeed "make things happen", but the premise is that what we "think" is what we really want, and our "thinking" is continuous and long-term, not a whim!

Young Johnson is a chef, his cooking skills can only be said to be ordinary, his salary is not high, and he is not good-looking. "My life is a tragedy" is his mantra.

On this day, the famous success master Mark came to the city where Johnson was located to give a lecture tour, and Johnson went to listen to the speech with great interest.The master said: "Success comes from positive self-suggestion." Johnson remembered this sentence, and when he went home after listening to the speech, he told himself: "I want to be a successful person! I want to change my life!" That night, he made a future life plan for himself: buy a villa at the age of 30, buy a Rolls-Royce at the age of 40, and become the richest person in the world at the age of 50.

The next day, Johnson went to work full of ambition, and when he went out, he did not forget to tell himself: "I want to be a successful person."

On the third day, Johnson hesitated, can I succeed?
On the fourth day, Johnson looked at his life planner and suddenly felt very funny.

On the fifth day, Johnson said that "the masters are liars".

On the sixth day, Johnson said "my life has been a tragedy".

Years later, a beggar on the streets of London murmured: "My life is a tragedy!"

Is the master a liar?of course not!Success did come from positive hints, and what I thought could really come true. The reason why Johnson failed was rooted in one thing, that is, he didn't persevere.The so-called positive thinking, the so-called success, wealth, villas, and Rolls-Royce are just his whim.This whim does emit frequency, but before the subconscious mind receives the frequency, it loses it by itself.If so, where do you start when you want to come true?

"What do I want to do" and "What do I want to do", everyone talks about it every day, but after talking about it, how many people really remember it?Wouldn't it be ridiculous to have an unremembered "I think..." wish come true?So, don't complain, don't doubt this or that, when you complain and doubt, you might as well ask yourself first, do you know what your heart really wants.Recognize your own heart and understand the real "thoughts", and "things will come true" will naturally come true!
From now on, use your "heart" to draw a blueprint for your life, use your "heart" to imagine the beauty of life after the goal is achieved, use your "heart" to substitute for success, use your "heart" to control the future, and use your "heart" to control the future. To stimulate the potential, use the "heart" to feel everything... Be yourself who can achieve what you want!
Section [-] Beware of the shadows implied

Autosuggestion is a knife that can cut others as well as oneself.A knife is a sharp weapon, and it is also a "dead" weapon. It does not distinguish between good and evil, and does not distinguish between right and wrong. Good and evil, right and wrong, are always defined by people—the person who holds the knife!

Many times, people are ignorant, do not know the existence of self-suggestion, do not know that they are "swinging a knife" all the time, this is really a very dangerous thing.

If the "knife" just hits the "enemy" - we use the power of psychological suggestion correctly and reap positive results, that is naturally good; but if we "cut the wrong way" and use the "knife" to hurt If we destroy ourselves and lead ourselves into a dark abyss with psychological hints, then there is no doubt that this will be a sad disaster, and the makers of the disaster are ourselves.

Now I want to tell the story of my friend Fred.

It was a midsummer night. Fred, who was on a business trip to India, was wandering the streets of New Delhi. On a long street, he met a well-known local fortune-teller.Out of curiosity, Fred went over and asked the fortune-teller to do a fortune-telling for himself.As a result, the fortune teller told him that he had a very serious heart attack, which was beyond treatment and would die within half a month.

After hearing what the fortune teller said, Fred was shocked. He hurriedly ended his official duties and returned home to "recover from his illness".He called all his relatives and friends to bid them farewell.I was also one of the people who was "farewelled".I advised him many times, asking him not to believe the fortune-teller's lies, telling him that it was just nonsense and not true.But Fred believed in the fortune teller's prophecy, and he thought I was just comforting him.Originally mature and capable, he became in a trance, his eyes full of fear.He knew that he could not fight against fate, he was waiting for the "destined" death, but he was afraid of death, so he became more and more anxious and haggard, his whole body was like a tree that had lost its life, completely withered.Two weeks later, Fred died, literally of a heart attack.The fortune teller's prophecy has come true!
Could it be that somewhere in the world, there is really a magical force that we can't see or touch that controls our life trajectory?Could it be that prophets really exist in this world?No!Of course the prophet is illusory, and the fortune teller is indeed a liar, without any magical power beyond imagination, Fred's death is entirely because of himself!right!It was none other than himself who killed him!
Let's sort out this bizarre murder case: Fred, who was wandering around, met the fortune-teller, and he became curious about the fortune-teller, and the fortune-teller was very famous in the local area, and many people believed her, so when the fortune-teller When the teacher made the "death prophecy", Fred didn't resist, and easily chose to believe it, and conveyed this "death prophecy" to his subconscious mind.

The subconscious mind does not judge itself, it is an executor, and it will respond to whatever information it receives.After receiving the "death prophecy", the subconscious "believed it" and made a series of negative reactions.Afterwards, because of the fear of death, Fred wrote his will, bid farewell to his friends, and sadly prepared for his funeral. All these behavioral messages were fed back to the subconscious mind by the brain, so the subconscious mind responded to "half a month" Death from a heart attack" became "convinced" and used to direct the brain and body, and the result was self-evident, the death prophecy was fulfilled, and Fred died.

Why?Don't you understand?Because Fred believed that he would die within half a month, and subconsciously accepted the way of his death and the "reality" of death.

Perhaps, this sounds unbelievable, but it is indeed a fact, and it is a real misfortune that happened to me.And the shadow of suggestion is the root of this misfortune.Fred is implied to be kidnapped and completely devoured.This is undoubtedly a tragedy, and a completely avoidable tragedy!

If Fred had taken the fortune-teller's words as a joke and nonsense back then, and didn't take them to heart, let alone believe them, then the shadow of the hint would never have affected him, and the so-called death prophecy would have been impossible. won't happen.We must know that all the people or things in the outside world have no influence on our lives. If the outside things have influenced you, then there is only one possibility, that is, you yourself agree with the influence!Just like Fred, if he didn't believe in the fortune teller, the fortune teller couldn't do him any harm, but he chose to believe, and he changed the fortune teller's "prophecy" into his own prophecy, so tragedy happened .

In fact, the subconscious mind is like a precise machine. It will make what kind of actions the operator inputs. As for whether the instructions themselves are right or wrong, it will not distinguish, even if the instructions we input are Self-destruct, it will also obey.Therefore, if the "instructions" we convey to the subconscious mind are wrong, and the hints we convey to ourselves are negative, what we reap must be wrong and negative results.

Every person's consciousness will produce various habitual thoughts when it is running on its own. These thoughts are like carving knives, leaving deep scratches on the wooden board of the subconscious.If these thoughts are positive, upward, and beneficial, then the subconscious mind will carve out a beautiful, magnificent, and successful picture.On the contrary, if these thoughts are negative, decadent, and gloomy, then what remains in the subconscious mind can only be a messy wooden board.

In fact, all kinds of things in life, everything in life, wealth, health, happiness, and happiness are all closely related to suggestive power.Positive hints are like the sun, bringing us brightness and beauty, while negative hints are like shadows under the sun, making people depressed and miserable.But whether it's sun or shade, sunny or cloudy, it's really our own choice.Heaven and hell are just a thought, and this thought comes from ourselves!

The third section stimulates your powerful aura

What is the aura?
Aura is a quality of life, a state of mind and body expressed through body, language, and actions.

Everyone has their own aura.

This kind of aura may be grand, or humble, or strong, or weak, or bright, or dim, but no matter what, it exists.

In daily life, we are often influenced by others, we can't help but obey other people's orders, and we can't help admiring or agreeing with a certain person. This is actually the effect of the aura.The reason why we choose to obey, worship, and be influenced is that our aura is weaker than others.

Once, someone asked me such a question: "Mr. Coué, why are there so many people who worship you? Can you do magic?" I didn't answer.Later, many people asked me similar questions, and I didn't know how to answer them.The world's languages ​​are rich and complex, but most of the time the language is actually pale, and many things and things cannot be expressed in words at all.However, after being repeatedly asked countless times, I think I should and must give an explanation. After thinking for a long time, I gave my own answer, that is—aura.

Aura is not a single concept, in my opinion, it should be all-encompassing.Magic, affinity, attractiveness, influence, temperament, oppression, etc. can all be classified into the category of aura.The aura is not so much an external manifestation of strength, but rather an internal spiritual imprint, a unique spiritual business card.

Some people, even if they don't say a word or do any action, can still stand out from the crowd and attract everyone's attention and become the center of the circle; some people, even if they give speeches eloquently and dance continuously, the people around them Still treating him as transparent, as if he didn't exist at all.This kind of situation is not uncommon in our life and work. There is actually only one reason for this, and that is the aura!Even if a person with a strong aura doesn't show it deliberately, they are still radiant. A person with a weak aura, no matter how much he shows, is just a clown, which only adds to the jokes.

Perhaps, this statement is a bit biased, but it is true.Aura is something that cannot be seen or touched, nor can it be described and measured with precise numbers and data like physics and chemistry. However, a strong aura produces charm, and a strong aura can give people a positive feeling. , Beneficial, and strong influence, there is no doubt about it.

There is no successful person who does not have a strong aura, and a strong aura is one of the necessary conditions for a successful person.

There is a great man in French history who once influenced the whole of France, the whole of Europe, and even the whole world.His name is Napoleon Bonaparte.

His Majesty, the Emperor of the French Empire, led his iron cavalry across Europe, letting the whole world know the ancient country of France. Even if he was finally defeated in Waterloo, no one could ignore and obliterate the glory and achievements of his life. And the strongest weapon he used to conquer France and Europe was his cavalry and his aura!
Napoleon always believed that he was the darling of God, and that the goddess of fate would take care of him forever. Therefore, although some of his own conditions (such as height) were not satisfactory, he never felt inferior.He is confident, and his heart is strong. This confidence and strength have penetrated into his life and soul, turning into a shocking force.This kind of power comes from instinct, originates from the subconscious, without any trace of carving, but it is unimaginably powerful, powerful enough to deeply affect all people and things around.

Yes, that's right, this power is the aura!Napoleon's success is a manifestation of his aura to the extreme.

Where there is life, there will be aura.There are many types of auras, some are masculine, some are soft, some are gentle and drizzle, some are majestic, some are majestic, some are strong and sharp... But all auras are essentially a magnetic field, a wave frequency, This wave frequency may be a long wave or a short wave, but no matter what kind of wave it is, it will spread, vibrate, act on others and produce corresponding reactions.The more powerful and intense the wave frequency, the greater and stronger the impact on others.

Leaders who are not angry and assertive in the officialdom, giants in the shopping malls, elites who are comfortable in the workplace, etc., are all people with a strong aura.They are recognized by colleagues, appreciated by friends, loved by subordinates, and envied by others, not because of other things, but because of their strong inner beliefs.

If a person always firmly believes that "I can do it, I can do it, and I will succeed", then this belief will form a beneficial and powerful suggestion, making self-confidence, strength, courage, success, etc. all of the same frequency and quality. Things are attracted, which creates success, gives birth to charm, and creates a powerful aura invisibly.In other words, what kind of hints you give yourself will form what kind of aura.The aura is usually dormant, and inner beliefs and hints are the necessary conditions to wake it up.

If a person's heart is not strong enough, and his heart is always filled with negative hints such as "I'm stupid", "I can't do anything well", "I can't do it", then even if his aura is aroused, his aura will It is also doomed to be weak and bleak.On the contrary, if a person has a very strong heart and always gives positive and beneficial hints to himself, then these hints will generate positive frequencies, attract countless positive and beneficial forces, form a powerful and radiant aura, and make people successful .

Therefore, to stimulate a strong aura, it is very important to use the power of suggestion from a positive perspective.

Going around, it seems to be back to the original point. Since the aura is so important and magical, how to stimulate the powerful aura?
you do not know?The answer is actually what I told you a long time ago:

Remember, positive and beneficial hints, strong and long-lasting inner beliefs are the source of a strong aura!

To be honest, how many people don't want to be envied and looked up to, and how many people don't want to have a strong aura?But the aura is very mysterious. Many people cannot awaken their aura throughout their lives, and it is even more difficult to arouse a strong aura.However, there is an old saying in Eastern China, "Where there is a will, there is a way."Believe me, as long as the seeds of a strong psychological suggestion have been sown, a strong aura will take root one day, and this time will not be long.

Section [-] Psychological suggestion and hypnosis
Since the birth of hypnotism, the academic circles have never stopped arguing about it.Some people think that hypnosis is a kind of semi-sleep, half-sleeping, half-awake mental state; some people think that hypnosis is a kind of technology, which is to use various technical means to improve the state of mind through the external environment and external environment. A method by which factors exert influence on the human subconscious mind.Some people think... But no matter how fierce the debate is and how different cognitions are, there is one thing that is generally accepted, that is—psychological suggestion is an indispensable help for hypnosis!Without the participation of psychological suggestion, hypnosis cannot be completed, let alone successful!

It is well known that when a person is engrossed in something, he subconsciously ignores his surroundings.For example, when watching a movie, especially when watching a very classic movie, we will be "brought into" the scene in the movie unconsciously, and feel sad or happy as the protagonist's situation changes. , inadvertently ignored the companions around him and the surrounding environment.In fact, this is a simple, mild hypnotic state.The reason why we are hypnotized is precisely because our brains receive some kind of suggestion conveyed in the movie, and then are influenced by this suggestion, for example, we will cry along with the main corner.

Generally speaking, the implementation of hypnotism must be based on suggestion. If the hypnotized person refuses to accept the suggestion from the hypnotist, then hypnotism is impossible to succeed.This is why strong-willed, independent adults, the elderly and men are more resistant to hypnosis than women and children.

Perhaps, in the eyes of many people, hypnosis is a very simple thing, that is, a person dangling a clock to make a fool of himself, but in fact, hypnosis is a very complicated job, and not all hypnotists can do it .First of all, hypnosis is two-way, and it requires the cooperation of the patient. Therefore, the first step of hypnosis is to let the patient understand the meaning, function, nature and method of hypnosis, cooperate with hypnosis, such as adjusting breathing, relaxing, staring at a certain Things (mostly shaking pocket watches) to watch and so on.Secondly, the strength of anti-hypnosis is different for each person. The hypnotist must understand this before performing hypnosis, so as to make corresponding adjustments to hypnosis methods.Furthermore, self-protection is the instinct of human beings. During the hypnosis process, many people will subconsciously resist. At this time, the hypnotist needs to induce patiently and meticulously, and constantly hint to the patient. Therefore, impatient hypnotists cannot do this A technical activity.

In addition, many complicated things have different types of structure, level, and degree. For example, there are large planets and small planets in a galaxy, and there are also injuries, minor injuries and serious injuries.Similarly, the same hypnosis can be divided into three categories according to the degree of hypnosis, namely deep hypnosis, moderate hypnosis and light hypnosis.In light hypnosis state, the hypnotized person can act at will, the sleepiness is not strong, and can remember all the things during the hypnosis process after waking up; Remember part of the situation during the hypnosis process; while in the deep hypnosis state, the hypnotized person is very sleepy and cannot act at will. After waking up, he does not remember anything under the hypnosis state at all.In this state, the hypnotized person is completely under the control of the hypnotist. If the hypnotist has malicious intentions, it will be a very dangerous thing for the patient.

Of course, there are very few evil hypnotists after all, and there are not many cases where hypnotism is used for crimes. Generally speaking, the benefits of hypnotism in daily life still outweigh the disadvantages.

Anna is a student of a famous music academy in the UK. She has a somewhat introverted personality. Although her professional grades are very good, she will be nervous and uneasy every time she takes an exam or performs on stage, which leads to abnormal performance.Anna was very distressed, so she asked the hypnotist Rudolph for help.

Master Rudolph hypnotized Anna, and he told her: "You are the greatest musical genius in the world, and your performance can conquer all audiences." After accepting the hypnosis, Anna believed Rudolph's suggestion, and she became confident No matter what the situation was, she no longer felt insecure, her gifts and talents were fully displayed and exploited, and many years later, she became one of the most famous musicians in Britain.

Anna was still the same Anna. Hypnosis only changed some thoughts in her subconscious mind. However, it was precisely this seemingly insignificant change that reversed the trajectory of a person's life.I have to say, this is pretty amazing.

Of course, the magic of hypnosis is more than that!
Studies have shown that under hypnosis, the human body will secrete a very strange substance, which can not only relieve pain, but also speed up wound healing. Compared with artificial anesthetics, this substance called endocaffein Natural anesthetics are undoubtedly more effective and less expensive.And in terms of avoiding cognitive conflict, hypnosis is also very effective.For example, if you write the word "red" in blue ink, and then ask the same person what color the ink is, in the unhypnotized state, the respondent will hesitate or even give an answer. Will answer wrong, but can give the correct answer without hesitation under hypnosis.

Having said so much, there is actually only one meaning to express, that is, hypnotism is also a method of psychological suggestion. The basis of hypnotism is psychological suggestion, but there is a considerable difference between the two.Psychological suggestion can be carried out anytime, anywhere, without danger, and can achieve the effect of hypnosis; while hypnotism not only requires professional doctors, a specific environment, but also costs a lot of money, and the therapeutic effect may not be satisfactory and there will be some quite dangerous.Comparing the two, whether to choose hypnosis, which is expensive and extremely restrictive, or psychological suggestion with high quality, low price and minimal risk, I believe you will make a wise choice.

(End of this chapter)