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Chapter 54 Behavioral Habits: Excellent Evidence That Reveals Inner Secrets (3)
People who like red have a strong sense of professionalism, are full of confidence in themselves, are enthusiastic about people, and like to drive fast.

People who like black and white belong to the realm of high enthusiasm for work and the pursuit of perfection in everything.

People who like blue are calm and have strong analytical skills.

People who like yellow are optimistic, sociable and have many friends.

People who like green and silver are moderate, steady and strong in character.

3. Judging from the way of driving

There are many similarities between the way a person controls a car and the way a person controls himself.If a car is regarded as an extension of a person's body, then the way of driving is the mechanical embodiment of body language.A person's behavior behind the steering wheel reflects his mood and attitude every day.

People who drive at the prescribed speed, for whom driving is nothing more than getting them where they want to go, not a real joy or thrilling experience.They abide by the law, do their due diligence, never file income taxes, and usually drive at a steady, manageable speed.They have a moderate attitude in everything they do, and even if they are very sure, they will not take risks suddenly.They are reliable and not sloppy, and may be well suited to work in government agencies.

People who drive slower than the prescribed speed feel intimidated by being behind the wheel and feel incapable of controlling everything.They always avoid putting things in their own hands. As long as someone authorizes them, they immediately reduce their authority to the minimum.They are jealous of others constantly surpassing them, and their timid personality disappoints their family and friends.

Speeding people, will not be subject to anyone.They are aggressive and hate power.They don't allow others to set limits on them, and if anyone tries to do so, they find extreme and potentially dangerous ways to assert their independence.Their parents and teachers are likely to be very strict, and this is the only way they can vent their anger.

People who honk loudly, in real life, they like to scream, yell, and lose their temper; on the road, they honk their horns hard.They have poor resilience to setbacks and often feel threatened by others.They usually express their anxiety and uneasiness by a series of loud abuse, the degree of anger is completely incompatible with the reason that stimulates their anger.They are inefficient, incompetent, and appear to be in a hurry even when they are not going anywhere.

People who don't shift gears, hope everything is well arranged.They prefer to find their own way of life, and even though it is sometimes difficult to do so, they seldom ask others for advice.No one tells them where to go, it may often be that they tell others what to do.They are a practitioner, go by their instincts and like to take matters into their own hands.As soon as the green light comes on, rush forward first.Being one step ahead of others is their way of life, and they like the feeling of winning because they don't want to be branded as losers.They have learned to be active and competitive in order to be successful.Whenever there is a line, they are always the first on the line.Instead of looking forward, they look backward to see how far others are from them.

After the green light is on, the last person to start the car, because it is safe and secure, and there is no need to quarrel with others.No one will hurt them, they let others beat their heads to get first.They have learned that as long as they don't show their sharpness, they can't be rejected or hurt by others.They take this idea to other places as well, letting others go first so they don't have to compete with them.

People who don't learn to drive, not learning to drive puts them in a situation of dependence and helplessness.This increases their sense of inferiority because they are at the mercy of others.They are also accustomed to taking a backseat to the active ones in all areas of their lives.What others think of them drives their every move.

People who never have a driver's license are good at telling others what they should do, but the results are often far from what they said.Still, given enough prodding, they'll eventually get things done.They picture themselves as winners, but secretly fear that they will lose.Their rhetoric may be emphatic, but their actions are negative.Their delaying tactics have not only become a perfectly natural behavior, but have formed a pattern.

People who are used to taking the backseat feel threatened by the achievements of others, because they are afraid that when they want to contribute, they will not be trusted and accepted by others.They like others to rely on them and want to ask their opinion before they make a decision.They need to prove their importance again and again.

§§§Section [-] Observing each other's eating habits

From the perspective of eating habits, as long as people live in this world, they cannot live without food. It goes without saying that food is important to people.

We can observe a person's personality traits from what he likes to eat. Similarly, we can also observe his personality traits from the way a person eats.

Divide the food into several small pieces, and then eat slowly bit by bit. Such people are mostly traditional and conservative. Be nice and stay neutral.Due to the lack of adventurous spirit, people of this type do not achieve much in their careers.They are witty and tactful in many cases, have their own opinions, and will not easily accept other people's suggestions, but they will not be too obvious.

When eating, he is very procedural, and he always sits down and eats slowly after completing everything one by one.People of this type are usually quite meticulous in their thinking. They always spend a lot of time thinking about one thing, thinking clearly about all possible problems that may arise, and make appropriate decisions. Only after the countermeasures have been developed will we start to do it.Their bodies may not be very strong due to picky eaters, but their minds and wits are adequate.They are used to making preparations in advance, and they are afraid of something unexpected happening suddenly. If so, they will feel caught off guard and don't know what to do.

People who eat a small amount of food and put down their bowls and chopsticks after eating a little are mostly traditional and conservative.They are very careful and cautious in their every move, and they are always trying to get along with others.In order to avoid risks, they like to stick to the rules and complete things according to the old methods.This type of people is more than safe in doing things, but lacks drive, so they are not suitable for starting a business, but only suitable for keeping a business.

Gobble it up, gobble up the snow, eat three times, five times, two times, and finish the meal in one meal.Most of these people have relatively vigorous energy, their temperament is very frank and forthright, they treat others with sincerity and enthusiasm, they act decisively and decisively, and they have strong self-awareness.They have a strong competitive mentality and enterprising spirit, and they will never compromise or admit defeat to anyone easily, but always have to fight and fight with each other.

People who eat very slowly and always chew their food carefully pay much attention to the process in dealing with people. The difference between the process and the result is often that the process will bring them greater happiness and satisfaction.They are meticulous and rigorous in their work, and usually do not fight uncertain battles.They are picky and have strict requirements on others and themselves, sometimes to the point of harshness and cruelty.

I don’t know how to eat in moderation, and I must eat enough when I see what I like. Most of this type of people are more forthright and straightforward. They usually have good interpersonal relationships and have certain organizational skills. Many people are often united around.They don't understand and don't hide their emotions, and their emotions are often written on their faces, making it clear at a glance.

They never like to eat with others, but prefer to eat quietly by themselves. Most of these people are relatively withdrawn, and some are arrogant and narcissistic.They are relatively strong, and they are very stable in doing things. They have a certain sense of responsibility, can keep their words and deeds relatively consistent, and keep their words and deeds.Generally speaking, they can satisfy their superiors and relatives and friends a lot of the time.

§§§ Section [-] Understand each other from daily life habits

We can know what kind of person he is from certain habits he has in his daily life.

1. Collection habits
This is a person who pursues high-level enjoyment. He not only requires food and clothing, stability, family harmony, and career success, but also has a rich and fulfilling leisure life, so as to eliminate the fatigue after intense study and work, subtly increase knowledge, and gain Beautiful enjoyment.Generally speaking, collection is a very beneficial way to carefully organize and collect a certain type of items (or items of a certain topic) according to each person's hobbies, and to keep and store them properly for self-entertainment or for people to watch and study. cultural and recreational activities.The so-called "Things of a kind flock together, and people are divided into groups", people who like to collect hope that through the collection, preservation, appreciation, research, playful, and display of a certain type of interested objects, they can enrich leisure and cultural life, gain aesthetic experience, increase knowledge, Broaden horizons, strengthen emotional exchanges, and make friends.

2. Smoking habit
Smoking is a good tool to help us know people: those who are addicted to smoking are often weak-willed, or old-fashioned; those who regard smoke as an enemy are often jealous or stubborn; Those who are not many are more tolerant and easy-going, or sleek and ingenious.Smokers are more extroverted, while non-smokers (except those who quit smoking) are more introverted.Because extroverts are more social, and sociable people are more chatty.Just like toasting each other during a meal, if everyone swallows clouds and passes smoke to each other during a chat, the atmosphere will be harmonious and the conversation will be more interesting.On the contrary, if everyone does not smoke, you will feel like "sit dry" after a long conversation, which is rare to enjoy.Smokers are generous and generous, but they may also be sloppy and dissolute; non-smokers are more restrained and stingy, but they may also be rigorous and calm.

Smoke can also help us see the depth of relationships between people.Passing cigarettes in a polite manner means that the relationship is still shallow and "unfamiliar", or that there is a certain gap between the two; rushing to pass cigarettes to each other means that the two parties are equal in status, or regarded as equal, and both are willing to develop friendly relations ; Pass cigarettes casually, regardless of whether it is "reciprocity", which shows that the two parties have a deep relationship and have reached the level of "don't care about anything"; reach into the other party's pocket to take out cigarettes, and then distribute them to others, then They are "iron buddies" who are intimate and indistinguishable from each other.

3. Tea tasting habits
For ordinary people, drinking tea is just to quench their thirst, and it is just a physiological need.The literati can taste the cultural charm and aesthetic taste from tea, and they can taste thousands of tea poems and essays from tea.Lu Tong's "Seven Bowls of Tea Poem" is both vulgar and elegant. Five thousand volumes of writing. Four bowls of light sweating, the unevenness of life, all scattered to the pores. Five bowls of muscle and bone clearing, six bowls of Tongxianling. Seven bowls can't be eaten, but the two armpits feel the breeze." Seven bowls of tea, From physiology to psychology, from the heart to the world, we can taste it bit by bit through this wonderful tea.

§§§ Section [-] Observing each other by way of cooking
The FBI pointed out that what kind of attitude a person holds when preparing food often reveals how he feels about life.From the method and process of preparation, many inner things of a person can be revealed.

Some people think that cooking is an art, but also a kind of enjoyment. They are willing to do it themselves and prepare everything.People of this type have a strong sense of independence and never try to rely on others to achieve their own goals; at the same time, they lack sufficient trust in others.They have a strong sense of self and don't trust anyone easily.They are very satisfied with the sense of accomplishment after achieving success.They have strong self-confidence, and they are still optimistic even in difficult times.

Some people mostly use chopping and kneading methods when cooking.Such people are mostly practical people, they are very practical, and they can always face various problems in life with a very positive and sincere attitude.Their pace of life is quite fast, and their attitude towards life is quite positive. For the things that have been decided, they will devote themselves wholeheartedly and try their best to do things well.

Some people like to cook according to cooking books. Such people seem a little dull and like to follow certain rules. Without such guiding things, they will be at a loss. They are used to being led by others, and it is impossible for them to lead others.They are always pursuing all kinds of details excessively, precise and rigorous, and never easily give up anything they think is important.They don't have much self-confidence in themselves, and their adaptability is relatively poor.They are afraid of unexpected events, because then they will be at a loss.

Some people just cook according to their own feelings. Such people are more fickle and often act on impulse.They don't want to be restrained by others, they like to do whatever they want and do whatever they want.They rarely make promises to others because they know themselves too well to keep.Their hearts are still kind, and they don't want to hurt others, but in the end, many people will still be hurt, and they will feel sad about it, but they don't change anything about themselves, and maybe they can't change it.

Some people like to call foodies for advice on cooking.Such people are more tolerant and can humbly and seriously accept the opinions and suggestions put forward by others, but just accepting is not a complete acceptance. They have their own unique thinking and will fully consider the opinions and suggestions of others. But on this basis, the final decision is still your own.

Some people like barbecue. Such people are mostly extroverts. They are warm and generous to others, willing to make new friends, and full of compassion. , they are happy to introduce themselves to others to enhance understanding.

Some people like to do it while watching cooking shows on TV. Such people have a strong sense of autonomy and are unwilling to let others make decisions for themselves. They like to make everything simple and convenient, and they are easy to be satisfied. I am not picky in all aspects, but I still have a psychological tendency to pursue perfection in some things.Most of the time, they live a happier life and are good at enlightening themselves.

Some people like to use some small props when cooking. Such people are more curious. Once they like something, they will try their best to get it.Pursue high efficiency in doing things, have a strong sense of urgency, and make a lot of preparations just in case, but in fact, they are often unfounded.

There are also people who have never cooked by themselves. Such people lack the sense of adventure. For the sake of safety, they will choose to compromise.

(End of this chapter)