The Boss Medicine of Quick Transmigration is Coming

Chapter 59 I really want to love this world (59)

A few days after the winter vacation started, Xi Fan's phone rang.

Looking at the city address displayed on the phone, the corner of Xi Fan's mouth curled up slightly, and he picked it up: "Hi, I'm Xi Fan."

After a pause, he said, "Hi, I'm Fang Zhan's mother, Shixia."

"Hi Aunt Shi, you called me to ask how to deal with Fang Zhan's affairs in the future?"

"Yes. Regarding his problem, we have consulted several famous psychiatrists, and the results obtained cannot be ignored. I hope we can send Xiao Zhan there for treatment as soon as possible. I want him to go there, but his father thinks that This effect is not good, and I also worry that sending him there will be more pressure on him. We are in a mess now, so I want to ask you, maybe you can give us some advice on what we should do for him That's good."

"Actually, for Fang Zhan's situation, going to the hospital system for treatment is the best choice. However, I can understand your thoughts that you don't want him to go. Then we can try not to go to the hospital now, and give him positive guidance from the outside world. , to stabilize his emotions. If we find no effect, we will consider sending him to the hospital."

"Then what should we do?"

"Give him freedom."

"His father and I have never stopped him from doing anything, even if he wanted to go to school in L city alone, we didn't stop him. Isn't this not free enough?"

"The freedom I'm talking about is psychological freedom, not just physical ones. I think you also communicated with your uncle after returning home. What's wrong with Fang Zhan during the 15 years of growing up in Fang Zhan?"

Facing Xi Fan's question, Shixia seemed very confused, and she said in a somewhat uncertain tone: "Yes, we have indeed communicated, but we still don't understand why praise can cause such serious psychological problems to Xiao Zhan. Those doctors Because I haven't seen Fang Zhan communicate with him, so I can't tell me why."

"In fact, praise is only one aspect. What makes him sick is the comparison. The comparison with your youngest son. I reminded you last time. Think about Fang Zhan and then think about your youngest son. Don't you understand? ?”

"That's what we didn't figure out. Even though he did so well, he was more obedient and more stable than Xiao Che. We almost never blamed Xiao Zhan. On the contrary, we always said that Xiao Che was not as good as Xiao Zhan. Why... "

"This is the problem." With a sigh, Xi Fan continued: "Your excessive expectations are a kind of harm to Fang Zhan. Isn't excellence something that can be obtained without effort? Which genius in the world can win ten Almighty, good personality and personality, gentle and never loses his temper, is this still a real person?
He wants to maintain your praise, constantly work hard towards this praise, and suppress his true nature for the sake of your polite, calm and reliable persona, isn't it sad?

Not only does he have to work hard to maintain his personality, but he also has to take on his younger brother's share of responsibilities. Isn't this a lot of pressure?
But your little one doesn't need that.He can be mischievous, he can do everything he likes to do, and after getting into trouble, he only gets a few reprimands from you, but most of them are pampering. Isn't this strong contrast a kind of harm?
Another point, I have to remind Auntie that Fang Zhan has already exploded with psychological problems, but your youngest son also needs attention.Not only is Fang Zhan a victim of comparison, Fang Che is also, and rebellion may be the signal that he is about to explode. "

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