If you don't do some things now, you will never do them in your life

Chapter 8 Planning a Book Club (1)
Planning a book club is much better than organizing a KTV party.

You can invite some friends and relatives who love to read, or send out invitations on online reading forums.

You can invite some friends who love to read to a gathering, and first talk about the operation of the book club.The topic of discussion at the first meeting was to let everyone talk about their views on the way of running a book club.What kind of reading club do you want?How often does the Reading Club gather?What are the topics you want to talk about?
The reading club belongs to everyone, so please brainstorm and clarify your goals, make a reading plan for the next meeting, and ask everyone to actively participate in the speech.

You can be loyal readers of an author, discussing his thoughts often together, and enlightening your life.If possible, the author can also be invited.

You can also stipulate that you read a certain book before holding a reading club, and then share your reading experience during the gathering.You benefit a lot when everyone tells you what you don't know or feel.

If you want to bring dissent to debate, let the most excited supporters and critics start first!You can smile and listen to their discussion quietly, noncommittal.

Then take a break, have some snacks, chat and laugh happily, and the reading club is not only for books, but also for friendship.

Book clubs allow those who haven't finished reading, or haven't read at all, to finish reading after the party.

Book club notes.

Read at least two books on the same topic.

Sometimes, a writer can affect a person's life.

Everyone has a preference for books on a certain topic.

However, people who can read will choose to read more than two books on the same topic.

If you enjoy reading books about working in geography, pick one of the most influential books, start reading it, and try to understand the author's point of view.After reading it, read another book written by another author to see if they have the same place, and you will read more of your own insights from their differences.

You can record these insights in the form of reading notes, or you can find a friend who is interested in geography to chat, listen to his thoughts, and see what are the similarities and differences between these and what you have seen.

No matter what kind of books you are interested in, remember to read a few more books, and don't listen to and believe in one side.Go for a walk with dad.

You will never forget Zhu Ziqing's "Back View". Whenever you think of your father, how do you feel?
A father's love is often silent and serious, and it was often impossible to express it in detail at the time. However, it will make you feel more and more flavorful in the days to come, and you will never forget it in your life.

There is a friend who did not understand her father's love for her since she was a child.In her eyes, her father was a man of few words. She never heard him say that he liked her and loved her, and she never heard him praise her.So she was afraid of him since she was a child.

When they grow up, girls get married.

Once, an aunt went to her house as a guest and happened to talk about her father.The girl said: "My dad is very fierce to me, I am so afraid of him, he must not like me."

The aunt smiled and said to her: "That's because you were young and didn't know your dad well. Your dad has high demands on you because he wants you to be successful. Do you know? Your dad cried when you got married."

"My dad is crying? How is it possible?" The girl didn't believe it.

The aunt said: "After your car left, your father hid there alone crying, his eyes were red."

This friend still doesn't understand why the always strong father cries.

When the daughter grows up, the father grows old.The father's sadness may lie in the passage of time and never return!The world is impermanent, no matter how strong a person is, he will grow old.

The so-called life, you can experience a lot and understand your parents after you have gone through it yourself.

Stay with your father at night, go for a walk with him, talk about the trivial things around you, talk about the past, let yourself be beside your father, hold his arm, act like a baby to him, and tell him some jokes you heard.

The wind at night will be very cool, don't forget to bring your father's coat.The park is not just a place for young people to talk about love. You can accompany your father to take a walk under the shade of willows, or take a walk downstairs in the community.

Don't ignore my father's gray hair, and his no longer strong body.What life left on him is not only the vicissitudes of life, but also the exhaustion in his heart.Take a walk with your father, and walk slowly.

When we grow up, we also start running around. We don’t have time to spend more time with our father, and we don’t even have time to think: Dad, do you feel lonely?
When you are at the lowest point in your life, go for a walk with your father and talk about the hardships of his half life, and you will be sure that what you have suffered is far from as bad as you imagined.Write a long letter to your future child.

Even if you are not married or have no children, you can face your imaginary children, recall the life path you have traveled, and solemnly write a growth letter for them...

Tell your child about your life journey, your achievements and feelings, and even the mistakes you have made, which will help him somewhat in his life.

Tell your child who your friends are, and when he is born or grows up, they may be friends too.

Tell your child what places you have been to, where they are on the earth, what kind of stories you have happened there, maybe in the future, he will set foot on the road you have walked again.

Tell your child what you are most afraid of.

Tell your children that in this colorful world, many people have their own hobbies and pursuits.It is not shameful to yearn for a romantic and comfortable life, and it is also right to be tempted by jewelry and handsome and affectionate opposite sex. You can use legitimate means, use your talent and hard work to get it.

Tell your children that as long as they are human, they have feelings, and the road to pursuing love is bumpy and ups and downs. Don't be greedy for the dangerous scenery, and don't let emotions slip away from the rational track-as long as you have faith in your heart, you will definitely find your own. A love that is as transparent and beautiful as the sun.Even if one day you find your favorite, you should also understand that all living things will change, this is the most natural and frequent state, please accept it calmly.

People's life journeys are very different. If you walk all the way like this, your children's future may not be the same.However, some truths and experiences remain unchanged through the ages. Please write such a growth letter to your children.Your daughter will save some detours because of your advice, and she will understand you better because of it.Learn to cook for love.

There used to be a male leader who was super capable and easy-going. Everyone loved to make jokes about him, saying that he was afraid of his wife and often washed and cooked at home.When everyone teases him, he will naturally say: "Actually, cooking is a kind of enjoyment!"

There was no affectation in his words, it was a natural expression of true feelings.

When a person is in true love, she will definitely learn to cook a few special dishes for the person she loves.When she watches the person she loves taste her dishes, she will definitely feel the taste of love in ordinary life.

Speaking of cooking, few people may be born with it.Cooking is also very tiring, but there are some people who do it because they like to cook.

Whether it is a man or a woman, he will not feel tired when he returns home after a hard day and can put on an apron to prepare a sumptuous dinner for his family.Because cooking for one's lover is a kind of beauty and a kind of happy giving.

Don't forget, "Long illness makes you a doctor, and long eating makes you a chef". One of the best ways to improve your cooking skills is to make unremitting efforts and taste all kinds of delicacies in the streets and alleys.

For single people who love to cook, cooking is also a kind of enjoyment. After get off work, in addition to entertainment, you can also enjoy the time of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in the kitchen alone. People who like to eat often also like to cook People who like to cook and eat must also like the bright kitchen, like the sound of the food being cooked... I like to watch the delicious food I made in my mouth, and the satisfactory recognition given by the taste... This kind of People who don't like the kitchen can't feel it.

Love yourself and cook for yourself.When you learn to cook well, your Mrright will come to you on a white horse smelling the fragrance.

Learn to cook a new dish.

Dig through your cookbook to see which dish looks good.Is there a recipe you've been wanting to try but haven't made yet?Recall, you recently ate at a friend's house or a restaurant, did you have any dishes that you wanted to cook yourself?Let's do it!Do not be afraid.

You can also be creative. If the menu introduces a soup that requires black fungus, but you believe that it will taste better when cooked with king eryngii, then now is the time to try it.Seven dishes your friends will love:
1. Salted egg yolk pumpkin:
Materials:

Half an old pumpkin, 5 salted egg yolks, and an appropriate amount of chopped green onion.

Production Method:

Peel and wash the old pumpkin, cut into 5mm thick slices.Cook the salted egg yolk in the microwave for about 1-2 minutes.Take it out and press it into sand.

Heat oil in a clean pan, add pumpkin slices and stir-fry for a while, add salted egg yolk and stir-fry evenly until the pumpkin is cooked through, sprinkle a little chopped green onion and serve.A burst of fresh fragrance hits the nostrils.

A super simple, super delicious and super nutritious dish.The sweetness of the old pumpkin and the saltiness of the salted egg yolk, without any other seasoning, are already delicious.

2. Baby food in soup:
Materials:

Two baby vegetables, 2 ham sausages, 1 preserved egg, and appropriate amount of shrimp.

Production Method:

Cut baby cabbage in half, shred ham sausage and set aside.

1. Fry the ham first;

2. Add baby vegetables and stir-fry;
3. Put preserved eggs, shrimp, salt, chicken broth;
4. When the water is boiled, you can see that the soup will turn milky white, just take it out of the pot.

3. Shrimp Steamed Egg:

Materials:

鲜基围虾350克水豆腐2盒，鸡蛋2只，葱1根，盐1/3汤匙。

Production Method:

1. Remove the outer skin of the tofu slices, put them on a plate, and cut into 1 cm thick slices.

2. Remove the head and tail of the green onion, wash and cut into chopped green onion.Peel off the heads and shells of the prawns, wash and cut into cubes, and sprinkle evenly on the tofu.

3. Break the eggs into a bowl, add 1/3 tablespoon of salt and 3 eggshells of water, beat evenly, and pour over the tofu and shrimp.

4. Boil the water in the pot, add tofu and shrimp, steam over high heat for 8 minutes, take it out and sprinkle with chopped green onion.

It is recommended to buy fresh Jiwei shrimp and peel them to make shrimps. Frozen shrimps will ooze water after being cooked, and the fishy smell is strong, which will affect the taste.In addition, the time of steaming eggs should be controlled properly, if it is too long, the shrimps will be old easily and the watery eggs will not be tender; if it is too short, the watery eggs will not solidify and the shrimps will not be cooked.

4. Honey Tomato Tofu:

Materials:

1 box of tofu, 150 grams of tomato, appropriate amount of honey.
Production Method:

1. Put sliced ​​tofu on a plate.

2. Wash the tomato and cut it into small pieces and put it on the tofu.

3. Finally pour the honey on the tofu tomato.

5. Three Cup Chicken:
Half a chicken, 5 mushrooms, 4-5 slices of ginger, 4-5 cloves of garlic, a little wine, soy sauce, black sesame oil, 2 tablespoons of oil.

Production Method:

1. Wash the chicken, chop off the chicken wings at the joints, cut the chicken body in half by the way, and then chop the two halves into small pieces.

2. Pat the ginger and garlic with the back of a knife, soak the mushrooms until soft and remove the stalks, then cut them in half.

3. Take a soup pot, add oil, sliced ​​ginger and garlic, and sauté for 3 minutes with strong power.

4. Add the rest of the ingredients and seasonings into the sautéed soup pot, cover, cook on high power for 8 minutes until it boils, remove the cover, and then bake on medium power for 22 minutes.

6. Cola chicken wings:

Materials:

4 complete chicken wings, a can of cola, ginger, green onion, aniseed, soy sauce, sugar.

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