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Chapter 83 On Confidant

[France] Moloya

There is great joy in being at the center of several different bosom friends talking about the same thing, and one can thus gain intersectional perspectives that illuminate a variety of different faces.

Sexual desire arises from the inadvertent touch of two people's skins, and intimacy arises from the inadvertent collision of two sensitive hearts; but the former is not enough to produce love, and the latter is not enough to produce intimate friendship.

There is nothing more agreeable in the world than to foresee, when a conversation is still very dry, the brewing of an inconspicuous but vigorous conversation.

An exhortation is always a confession.

The way to maintain friendship is to separate your friends' secrets. If all your friends' secrets are packed in the same cargo hold, just one emotional blow will ruin your life.

Heart-to-heart makes hate or love in the receiving party.Whether he bears it or not, he will find that he is or is not worthy of the trust of others.

The pleasure which comes from keeping the secrecy of others, makes it an easy virtue.

A good person will always talk about subjects that make you feel painful, and he needs to complete his yearbook.And collecting other people's privacy ends up with empty grids, like a dry stamp album.

The danger of revealing one's secrets is that it often creates its own adversaries, just as some pious women try to find their sins in order to repent, so some quiet and habitual submissives are always brought down by the complaints of bitter friends. drive yourself into despair.

Some women ask their girlfriends to keep their hearts a secret just to spread the word better.

The novelist is the only person in the world who can keep the secret of his heart without suffering, and his hidden secrets appear in the form of makeup.

The voice a man uses when he reads is not his own voice, but only the voice of the person he desires, the voice of this imaginary character when he thinks of this person.

There is great joy in being at the center of several different bosom friends talking about the same thing, and one can thus gain intersectional perspectives that illuminate a variety of different faces.One gets real satisfaction especially when one person's hidden bulge penetrates another's hollow to perfect the pattern.

Among women, they consciously feign same-sex camaraderie and a tone of trust that they do not immediately evoke in conversation with men.However, under this superficial friendliness, there is such a vigilant vigilance hidden, and how reasonable this vigilance is.

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The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few confidants with integrity in mind and heart, Einstein said so.Because a friend is another self.

In secluded places, a confidant can point out our shortcomings.In front of everyone, bosom friends know how to maintain our reputation.When we are depressed, they can take care of us in every possible way, and will tell the people around us to take care of us as well.If we feel alone, they will go out of their way to find time for us and give us new courage and strength.They care about us, but don't possess us; they care about us, but don't restrain us.

They may be close at hand, or they may be far away, but no matter when and where, we can always feel that they are by our side.How many of these confidants do you have in your life? What is there to be dissatisfied with in life?
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