Datang Imperial Physician

Chapter 390 Sizi is Different
Cui Mama didn't dodge, she returned the salute solemnly, and said sternly: "I would like to hear Master Wei's advice, please just say it, the truth will only become clearer and clearer."

The posture is very good.Wei Jia silently showed a smile, his white teeth were so big that they pierced the eyes, the smile was kind and brilliant, even the most picky person, seeing such a smile, couldn't hold back his face Come.

Nanny Cui was obviously ready to be blamed by Wei Chi, but she was startled by such a smile suddenly, and couldn't help taking a step back, her face full of bewilderment.Wei Jia smiled badly in his heart, met the disapproving eyes of Empress Changsun, corrected his face, and stopped playing tricks on Nanny Cui.

Wei Chi said sternly: "First of all, I would like to ask Madam Cui a question, and by the way, I would also like to invite the Empress to listen to it."

Empress Changsun smiled slightly and said, "Please tell me, Ziyue."

Even Empress Changsun was so polite to Wei Jia, so Mother Cui was naturally polite, not to mention that she was a teacher of etiquette, so she paid attention to this aspect, and said to Wei Jia: "Master Wei, please tell me, as long as the concubine is able to do it , You must know that you can say everything, and you can say everything.”

Wei Chi smiled and said, "It's not that serious, it's just a very simple question. I want to ask my mother and Mr. Cui, what kind of person do you want to teach Princess Sizi to be?"

"This one……"

Empress Changsun obviously understood Wei Jia's meaning and fell into deep thought.Cui Nanny said proudly: "Your Majesty, Mr. Wei, the direction of my efforts is to teach the princess to be a good woman who is educated, reasonable, gentle, dignified, intelligent and virtuous. In the future, everyone will admire the princess's demeanor and serve her The demeanor is overwhelmed."

Wei Zhi resisted the urge to roll his eyes, and grinned, unable to even show the most basic smile, just lazily, but very sharply said: "Then after you teach it, you will be like Mr. Cui. ?”

"you……!"

Nanny Cui's face turned red, then yellow, then white, then blue, like a traffic light, no, it has one more color than the traffic light.Empress Changsun stopped for a moment: "Ziyue, Mr. Cui is the etiquette instructor of the Cui family, a famous family, so don't be rude to her."

"Yes, empress, then Weichen can change the word."

Wei Chi responded obediently, even the empress Changsun pleaded for mercy, and he didn't want to bully others too much.Wei Jia said loudly: "Madam, Mr. Cui, I think that teaching children must pay attention to methods and methods. First of all, we must be clear about what kind of person we want to teach children. It is a person who only knows how to follow the rules in every word and deed. Rigid, stupid, even laughing uncomfortably respondent, but also a beautiful, intelligent, self-confident person who can survive in the world well even if he is alone. Mr. Cui is well-informed and knowledgeable. There is a saying that is often said, even the salt we eat is more than the rice we eat, and a junior like me can’t catch up or compare. Has Mr. Cui ever seen cats raising their cubs?”

Mother Cui said: "I have seen it before, what does this have to do with Master Wei's topic?"

Wei Chi said: "I remember when I was a child, there lived a pregnant female cat not far from home. She worked hard every day to find food and avoided being bullied by other cats, and finally gave birth to a litter of kittens. Then it was hard work to raise the kittens. When the kittens opened their eyes and learned to walk and crawl, the mother cats led the kittens to play together after they came back from predation every day. Later, the kittens grew up and should be On the day of independence, however, the kittens were reluctant to leave the mother cat, whining and begging, just wanting the mother not to leave, but the mother cat still drove every kitten away without hesitation, letting them To survive independently. This world is very big, not every kitten can live safely all the time, some may starve to death, and some will die in the battle with other wild cats, but the mother cat is still steadfast To drive the kittens away and let them go on their own, because that's what survival is."

Empress Changsun was silent when she heard this, she lowered her head, held the teacup but didn't drink it, obviously lost in thought.Cui Nanny said: "Forgive me for being stupid, I don't understand the meaning of Lord Wei's story!"

Wei Chi said: "My meaning is very simple. I want to discuss with Mr. Cui about children's education, and what kind of education do you want to teach your children. I am also a father, and I don't ask my children to do anything. I only hope that when he grows up, he will know how to love the young, respect the elders, sympathize with the weak, respect the strong, be confident, self-respecting, and self-improving. Even without parents, he will not rely on them. There is also the courage and ability to survive independently, and the ability to live a happy life. In Mr. Cui's imagination, is such a person a vulgar, invisible, unspeakable person? Can Mr. Cui say so Aren’t people who are elegant, confident, and courteous?”

Cui Nanny calmly said: "No, in my eyes, such a person is a well-educated person, and this is what I want to achieve. Princess Jinyang will definitely become such a person in the future."

Said very confidently.Wei Jia looked at her and smiled, and asked back: "Then Mr. Cui is such a person now? Are you happy? Are you at ease?"

Obviously she asked very calmly, but Madam Cui seemed to be being forced to ask, she suddenly choked on her saliva, coughed violently, and her face was blood red from coughing.Sizi and Li Zhi on the side have been obediently listening to the debate between Wei Jia and Nanny Cui. Sizi seems to be intelligible, but Li Zhi, who is as big as a kid, nodded and looked at him with admiration. Wei Chi.

Seeing that Nanny Cui was choking, the little boy hurried over and asked with concern: "Mammy Cui, don't worry, Master Wei didn't bully you, he just spoke loudly, Master Wei is a good person, very good, very good the kind!"

Very innocent and lovely words and tone, but also considerate gestures, and even asked the maid next to him to help Cui Mama calm down and pour water for her.Wei Chi watched from the side with a smile, obviously very satisfied. This is everyone's favorite little Si, that gentle and considerate little idiot who is willing to wrong himself for others.

Wei Zhi smiled and apologized: "Mr. Cui, it's Ziyue's fault. Ziyue pushed too fast. Please forgive me."

Nanny Cui shook her head, and with the help of the maid, she finally stopped coughing, but her face was still red, she looked at Xiao Si with complicated eyes, and said, "Thank you, princess, for your concern."

"You're welcome, Master Wei once taught me that when others are sad, we can't be sad together, but we can try our best not to make others sad, and give help at the right time."

Xiao Sizi smiled sweetly, and the tears on her face that had been crying coquettishly to Wei Jia just now hadn't wiped off. She looked extremely cute and pitiful.Nanny Cui had a complicated expression, she seemed to be stunned, and didn't know what to say for a while.

Seeing this, Wei Zhi continued: "Mr. Cui, Shu Ziyue is taking the liberty to say something, but I really want to say it."

Cui Nanny saluted solemnly: "Master Wei, please speak directly."

Wei Chi nodded, and said: "When I was a child in school, it was normal for my husband to slap my palms for mistakes. I have experienced it. King Jin, Princess Jinyang, Nanny Cui, and even the Empress. Have you experienced it?"

Everyone nodded, Li Zhi seemed to think of those strict masters in the palace, and subconsciously hid his little hands.Wei Jia couldn't help laughing, and said with a smile: "Since everyone has experienced it, I must have some impressions of what it was like at that time, right? Think about our thoughts and feelings at that time, and consider how the children feel now. , everyone has experienced that time, think twice before acting."

As soon as Wei Chi finished speaking, Cui Mama fell into contemplation with a dull face, and the eldest grandson Empress was also taken aback for a moment, and then suddenly realized that she glanced at Wei Chi, and said to Wei Chi: "Zi Yue's words are reasonable. Today, my palace Learned again."

Wei Chi hurriedly returned the courtesy and said: "Your Majesty is too well-known. I just like to think wildly and think too much. To tell you the truth, I was once slapped by my husband when I was young. Every time I swear, if I grow up in the future , Never beat a child unless you have to. It feels too uncomfortable, not only physically, but also spiritually. When I was young, a very naughty child was beaten quite a lot. Doubting whether I am born stupid than others, born much worse than others, whether I am worthless, have no merits to make me proud, and have always had low self-esteem, my life almost ended because of this. It’s okay , Later I met a good gentleman, she praised me for the first time in front of all the students, she praised me to my parents, said that I did a good job, affirmed me, encouraged me, and then I slowly established Build up your confidence and understand that I can be such an excellent person, and I can also be affirmed and praised by adults, I am also very good! Haha"

Thinking of the sad past in his childhood, Wei Chi couldn't help but giggled and sighed.Cui Mama lost her mind and said: "The concubine was treated severely for the sake of the princess, not..."

Wei Jia said with a smile: "Sir, there is no need to explain. We all understand that Mr. is out of good intentions and a responsible attitude towards his own duties. We all understand. It's just that not every child is suitable for this method. The temperament of Princess Jinyang, sir, has been teaching for many days, haven't you noticed? She is a child who will earnestly carry out her promises, a child who is so serious that she would rather wrong herself than strive to fulfill the expectations of adults. For such a child, we Should we pay attention to the method? Is there something that needs to be considered if we blindly adopt a model?"

Nanny Cui fell into deep thought again, a little out of sorts and unable to answer.On the contrary, Empress Changsun looked at Wei Chi with emotion, and said with a smile, "Ziyue said well, I have been taught, and I have benefited a lot today, thank you Ziyue."

Wei Chi hurriedly said: "Your Majesty is right, Si...ah, no..."

Empress Changsun laughed and said, "Ziyue doesn't need to be formal, just call Sizi by her baby name. You are also Sizi's elder."

"Yes, Madam Xie." Wei Jia continued: "Princess Jinyang and the servants are very close, it can be said that she has watched her grow up since she was a child, I hope she can grow up healthy and happy, and don't have any bad things Happened. The princess has a temper, so it is easy to wrong myself, I am afraid that she will not know how to relieve it when she is young, and her liver qi will be stagnated in her chest, which is not good for her health, haha, so I just said a few more words, and please forgive me."

Empress Changsun said: "No, what Ziyue said is exactly what I was worried about. This child is too much like me, so I can't teach her, so I have to ask other gentlemen to teach her. Now it seems that it is Ziyue The most suitable."

Wei Chi laughed and said: "Mother, you are wrong, I am not suitable for you, I am too poor in knowledge, let's be a playmate, whose child didn't play all the way here, it is the nature of children to like to play and love to play , then why don't we make the best use of the situation and let the children learn some things they should learn at this age while having fun. Madam, in fact, there are many truths. I want to understand. Rules and etiquette need to be learned, but different people should adopt different methods? Hitting will only increase the fear of children, and it will not have a good effect. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude has always been supporters of this view."

Empress Changsun nodded frequently when she heard it, and glanced at the embroidery pictures that Wei Zhi had drawn for Si Zi, and said, "Zi Yue's method of learning embroidery art in this way is not unsophisticated, it is very innovative."

Being praised, Wei Chi smirked and said: "Children like cute things more, and some small animals and the like can arouse children's interest the most. Anyway, they want to learn embroidery skills. They are all embroidery. Let's find a child to impress." Interested teaching, when she gets older, the things she is interested in will naturally change slowly. Girls, in the future, they will always like flowers and the like. At that time, she will be happy to embroider without being urged by her husband. , why do we need to force the child? Embroidering such a complicated thing at the beginning of learning is a blow to self-esteem, be careful of blowing too much, leaving a psychological shadow and affecting the child's future, right? "

Empress Changsun nodded, but still asked: "What is a psychological shadow?"

Wei Jia explained, and after the Empress Changsun understood it, she pondered for a while, and murmured in a low voice: "Now it seems that my experience when I was young is the main reason for my current personality and has affected my temperament. I also hope that my son will be happy and be a cheerful child in the future, not like me."

Wei Chi didn't know how to answer these words, he only knew how to giggle.Empress Changsun realized she had made a slip of the tongue after she finished speaking, she smiled, said no more, and changed the subject.

(End of this chapter)