Lan Shao's cute and playful wife

Chapter 271 Love Someone (3)
Jiujiu looked around and saw that neither of them was talking, so he closed his eyes to catch up on sleep.

When he arrived at the dessert shop, Wei Beibei looked at the menu and ordered a lot of mango-flavored things. His machismo has not changed, and he rarely asks ladies what they like to eat, but helps them order by themselves.

This dessert shop can be regarded as the most fashionable decoration in the late 80s. It is located in the commercial center where every inch of land is expensive. It has floor-to-ceiling windows on the 2nd floor, a large abstract painting wallpaper on the wall, and many square lamps hanging above the head. And round lights, deep and shallow, very artistic atmosphere.

Jiujiu was in a good mood after eating the mouth-wateringly delicious dessert, Wei Beibei looked at her with a smile, while Zhou Zhou still had no expression on his face and was in a daze blankly.

"What's the matter with him?" Jiujiu asked Wei Beibei in a low voice. Based on her understanding of Zhou Zhou, Zhou Zhou definitely didn't have such a cold personality.

"He, he's broken in love." Wei Beibei didn't shy away from this topic, "I broke up with Chen Xinluan, and it's been like this for a long time, so I asked him to come to Hong Kong to play together."

"That's it." Jiujiu put the fragrant and delicious mango meat into his mouth, and felt that Zhou Zhou was very pitiful. Well, people who are broken in love are actually quite pitiful.

"Then did they really break up, or was it just a joke?" After thinking for a while, Jiujiu asked again.This breakup really has two meanings. One is that there is a cold war, and neither party coaxes each other, which is called a fake breakup.The second is to break up calmly, and there will be no intersection in the future, which is called a real breakup.

The reason why the two have to be distinguished is that the way of coaxing is different. If it is a fake breakup, generally speaking, she must be in pain. Try to persuade them to reconcile, because fake breakups are usually just quarrels, and maybe they will be reconciled tomorrow. , If you say a few words of no to the other party, when they reconcile, the person who says no will become a target of public criticism, and they are not people inside and out.

But a real breakup is different. A real breakup means that both parties have considered it clearly. To end this relationship that tortured each other and was tasteless and meaningless, usually this kind of breakup is to scold the other party for being so bad. There is no need to be sad. Encountered better, the forest is so big, there is no need to hang on a tree.

This is what Lan Zhongwen taught her. Girls are easy to be emotional. When they have conflicts with their boyfriends, they cry, make trouble, and hang themselves. Lan Zhongwen said that it is okay to coax, but it must be coaxed according to the problem, otherwise just coax Make friends instead of enemies.

Jiujiu remembered this deeply, it made so much sense that he had to accept it.

"You look at the boat, does it look like a joke?" His eyes are dull and his expression is empty. Does this sequelae of a breakup seem like a joke?
Jiujiu observed Zhou Zhou for a long time before he came to a conclusion, "It seems that we really broke up, it's so pitiful."

"He's poor, that's called self-inflicted." Wei Beibei despises, at least he has been in love, what about him?A super invincible and radiant handsome guy, who has never been in love, who is more hard-working?
"Do you still have humanity? Your good brother is broken in love, and you still say that about him."

"It's not because I look down on him, he's born with a poisonous tongue, there's nothing I can do about it." Wei Beibei lit a cigarette, and in the smoke, his face mocked himself, "Isn't it just a woman, if we break up, we'll break up, it's not the end of the world Now, why make it so melancholy, it's so contemptuous."

There is nothing wrong with what Wei Beibei said, but there are some things that cannot be controlled by oneself, and if things can be controlled, how can it be called a heartbeat?

If love can begin and end at will, what is the value of it?People in the world clearly know that love is a thing that harms nothing but benefits, but they are still willing to fall into it. This is the power of love, which cannot be understood or understood, but it teaches people to promise each other with life and death.

"You talk like that because you've never really been attracted to any girl, right? So you can't really feel their pain."

Wei Beibei was taken aback, and his smile was far-fetched, "You think I don't?"

"do you have?"

Wei Beibei pursed his lips and did not answer.

are not there?So what is Xiao Jiujiu who has liked you for so many years?He doesn't understand why people show such pain, but in his heart, even if he is in pain, he will suppress it. If you suppress some emotions and get used to its pain, the bitterness will become more and more painful. lighter.

And if you magnify that pain, you will feel that you can't accept it no matter what, it is very painful, and you must talk to the other party to resolve the pain in your heart.

But in fact, the more you delve deeper, the pain you get will double and accumulate. Instead of letting the other person humiliate your own intentions, it is better to hide it in your heart and know whether you are warm or cold.

Anyway, it's the same if he said it. Could it be that if he told her Xiao Jiujiu, she would break up with Lan Zhongwen and stay with him?
This was something he couldn't even imagine in his dreams. Since he knew he couldn't get it, why did he put on such a dejected look?Does this represent how affectionate he is?

No, he would rather put on a heartless look, maintain a proud character, and not pester her, don't bother her, even though he still pays attention to her, he will never put on a pitiful look to win her over sympathy.

What he wanted was all of her love, and he didn't win it by tricks and pity. How long could such a relationship last?When the relationship reaches a certain level, it will naturally not stick together every day. Even if a woman who gets it by tricks and pity is by her side, I will feel worried, sensitive, fearful, and afraid that she will reconcile with that man , Worry about gains and losses every day, live like a human being, and a ghost without a ghost.

He firmly believes that what is his is always his, and he can wait.If it is not his, he will forcefully stay, and he will leave in the end. You keep a person who does not belong to you, and you are ecstatic for a while, and then later, you have to spend your whole life to redeem yourself. Why bother?

Rather than living in the pain of loss for a lifetime, it is better to live in the regret of not getting it forever. Pain makes people negative and breeds hatred, while regret makes people nostalgic and faintly sad.

For Jiujiu's intention, he was rejected once, and he was not completely sure, so he would not speak again, and it would bother the other party and embarrass each other.

Beibei didn't speak, but the mango juice turned bitter when he drank it in his mouth. He closed his eyes and swallowed it, and lit a cigarette again.

Smoking can elevate people's emotions, and when things are painful and depressing, as long as one cigarette is needed, they can be suppressed.

(End of this chapter)