Lan Shao's cute and playful wife

Chapter 363 Returning to the Xiao Family (2)
"En." Jiujiu nodded heavily.

"You must take good care of yourself. Just do what you can. When it's time to retreat, don't hesitate. Remember, if you get hurt, I will be worried." His voice was hoarse, full of worry.

"Okay." Jiujiu said so, and kissed him on the cheek.

Lan Zhongwen's smile was lazy and faint, and he didn't know what he was thinking.

The moment before departure.

There is a factor of reluctance in the air.

Uncle Lu placed the shiny tableware in front of Jiujiu, and served Jiujiu's favorite hot and sour fish, glutinous rice chicken wings, Kung Pao chicken, mapo tofu, and candied sweet potatoes.

Lan Zhongwen made some hot and sour meat for Jiujiu, as if he was afraid that she would be hungry when she went to Xiao's house. His chopsticks never stopped, and he went back and forth on the plate, picking all kinds of meat into Jiujiu's plate.

Jiujiu buried his head in the white porcelain bowl, eating with relish, "This fish is really delicious, hot and sour, I like it."

Lan Zhongwen couldn't help laughing, "You like hot and sour food instead of fish?"

"Yes, I like to eat Sichuan cuisine, orchids. I can ask Uncle Lu to cook more spicy dishes in the future. Cold dishes are also delicious. I want to eat very spicy and very spicy lotus root and beef veal, as well as frogs. Frogs are really super good The food is spicy and numb, which makes people have endless aftertaste."

Jiujiu looked fascinated.

Unexpectedly, Lan Zhongwen spoke lightly, interrupting her beautiful fantasy.

"Frog chicken has so many bacteria, what's delicious, be careful of parasites in your stomach, and you can't eat such spicy food, it hurts your stomach, today is because you are going back to Xiao's house, so I asked Uncle Lu to make a special meal Spicy, usually, I still eat Cantonese cuisine, like steamed seafood, it’s delicious, isn’t it? It’s also nutritious, and it’s good for your health.”

After all, if you are Chinese, it is better to maintain Chinese customs in terms of food and clothing. The southern area is always humid and hot, and often eating spicy food can easily cause anger and upset the stomach.

And often big fish and meat die quickly. Even if you think French, Japanese, and Thai food are delicious, you can't eat them often. They are all meat, which can easily cause constipation.

Eat less to feel delicious. If you eat it every day, you will feel that porridge and pickles are delicious.

"Anything that is nutritious is unpalatable." Jiujiu said firmly, the delicious food in memory is all junk food, and all the unpalatable ones are good for the body.

It's an unacceptable reality.

These days, I can't even eat spicy food.

Jiujiu looked at Lan Zhongwen resentfully, since he came back to him, he has become so strict again, he almost treats himself like a daughter, no matter what he wants to do, he must first get his consent.

Sometimes I feel very warm, but sometimes I feel uncomfortable. Although I know that he is doing it for my own good, the feeling of not being able to do whatever I want is really suffocating. Just like those children, they can only eat something they like during the holidays.

It's been really... so pitiful.

"It's not that those things are not delicious, but that you are used to the salty and spicy taste, so you feel that Cantonese food is bland and tasteless, and you eat the umami as fishy. If you quit salty and spicy food, you will be able to eat it after a long time. The real taste of the food."

The reason why the food gap between the north and the south is so large is because the north is cold.

People who eat spicy food from a young age will become more and more fond of spicy food. Over time, they will lose the true taste of the food. No matter whether it is sweet, sour, bitter or salty, it will be hidden under the spicy taste, and it will become neither spicy nor pleasant.

People in the south have a light diet since childhood, and take the original taste of food as the soul of food. Some people even eat the most primitive fresh and sweet taste of food without seasoning.

But if you want to say who really understands the essence of food, you can’t make a selection. It’s just related to diet. The climate in the north is cold, and eating spicy food can warm up your body and improve your mood. .

Born in the south, Jiujiu should follow the climate and laws of the south, so as to keep young and healthy.

Ninety-nine did not answer, buried in eating hot and sour fish.

In fact, what Lan Zhongwen said is very reasonable, but quitting is not something that can be done overnight. Usually, people need at least a week of adaptation period to change a habit. After this adaptation period, you will be more than half successful. , if this cycle cannot pass, then it is a failure.

She sighed.

Maybe because of Lan Zhongwen's influence, she dares to agree only if she can do it now. Although she doesn't say anything, Lan Zhongwen wants her to change, and she will secretly make up her mind to try to change.

Think of it as working hard for each other's future. When two people are together, they don't blindly accommodate each other. If they feel that they love each other, they must endure each other. After such a long time, the resentment in their hearts will accumulate and deepen, making them gradually unable to see each other clearly. Advantages, and I can't find my own problems.

Maybe you often complain that you are always nice to the other party, tolerate him, and love him, but the other party has never done anything for you, and even hates you more and more, and alienates you.

At this time, there must be something wrong with you, otherwise it is impossible for the other party to only see your shortcomings and completely ignore your love. It is very likely that the other party has been patient with you in the early days and did not tell you. Small conflicts piled up like a mountain, making his love for you less and less, and finally came a day when he decided not to bear it anymore, so he broke up.

You still can't figure out why he left you.

But in fact, long before your conflict existed, it was because no one brought it up and resolved it, which made the conflict rot in your heart. If you didn’t mention it, it made your heart feel uncomfortable. If you mentioned it, it made both of you quarrel and feel uncomfortable.

To be honest, everyone has a selfish heart. If you do a selfish behavior, you can forgive yourself immediately and find an excuse for yourself, so you can forgive yourself easily.

And if others do selfish behavior, you feel unforgivable. The other party must treat you better than you treat him, you think selfishly.

But what if the other party thinks the same way?

Both of them selfishly want each other to love themselves more, which is not wrong in itself, what is wrong is that it deceives the heart of loving each other in the first place, thinking that loving more means being surrendered by the other party, doing a lot of harm to the other party but not dying The thing that was admitted was finally missed by the other party because of selfishness.

(End of this chapter)