Lan Shao's cute and playful wife

Chapter 468 Love (2)
"Correct."

The audience cheered: "So affectionate..."

"I heard that you have been separated for 6 years, Mr. Lan, you participated in a talk show a few months ago. On the show, you told the audience that the girl you hate has short hair, big eyes, wears May Fourth uniforms, and wears silver bracelets. Mr. Lan, the type you dislike is exactly Mrs. Lan's dress today, may I ask if your dislike back then alluded to Mrs. Lan?"

Lan Zhongwen didn't answer, and the smile on the corner of his mouth slowly disappeared.

Li Wan thought he was upset, and hurriedly wanted to say a few words to make amends. At the critical moment, Jiujiu took the microphone from Lan Zhongwen's hand, "I think I can answer this question."

Li Wan's microphone came to her lips and she put it down again. The girl with glasses seemed to understand the matter between Lan Zhongwen and Jiujiu very well, and she kept asking: "Mrs. Lan, why did Mr. Lan say he hates girls like you on the talk show? Isn't it because you did something to hurt Mr. Lan that Mr. Lan hates you?"

"Yes." Jiujiu nodded and admitted, her voice sonorous, "At the beginning I left him without saying a word. When he was in the most difficult time, I went abroad and I hurt him. While Mr. Lan hated me, he put I remember it so deeply, whether it is my preferences, hobbies, or even what I wear, he wrote down everything. He hates a girl with short hair, big eyes, wearing May Fourth clothes, and silver bracelets. Do you believe me? ?"

Jiujiu asked back.

There was silence at the scene, and after a while, there was thunderous applause.

"The relationship between Lan Xian and Lan Tai is so deep and touching." Li Wanyi was thoughtful, as if he was intoxicated in the relationship between her and him, and hadn't recovered for a long time.

"My husband is to me." Jiujiu was silent for a moment, lowered her head, and then took a deep breath, as if with the most sincere feelings, she raised her head, her face was surprisingly gentle, "He is to me , is the person who changed my life. If I hadn’t met him, I might not be complete today. If I didn’t know him, I wouldn’t be able to understand the true meaning of love. Contradictions, never separated, but after you have gone through all this, you still love this person and want to live and die with him. You will feel that even if falling in love is torture, I still have to love this person, because once you lose it, you will mean yourself. heart is dead."

The scene was quiet, everyone was listening to Jiujiu's perception of love.

"I believe it's not just me, my husband is the same as me." Jiujiu looked at the camera firmly, "I hurt my husband. When I was young, my husband was a genius in everyone's eyes. He knew everything, just The type who welcomes him wherever he goes, men, women and children, but I don't have that kind of luck. I am extreme, mischievous, and playful. In short, I am not a smart child, even rebellious and fragile. .”

"Because my husband dotes on me, I know that no matter what, he will never leave me. He has given me a strong sense of security. Speaking of which, you must be curious about what a sense of security is?"

Jiujiu looked at the audience. In the bright auditorium, everyone looked at her blankly. She quietly waited for the audience's answer. Since she was a child, it was Lan Zhongwen who reasoned with her. She hoped that today Share the experience you have accumulated over the years with everyone.

"Does the sense of security mean that Mr. Lan is strong and can protect you?" someone asked.

"That's okay, but what we're talking about now is not about superficial topics, but a feeling from the heart." Jiujiu replied.

"Is it true that Mr. Lan is very rich, with him, he will not go hungry or cold, have a luxurious house and a luxury car, and enjoy all the good things?" Someone asked again.

Jiujiu thought for a while, "It's okay, I don't admit it, two people are together, the basis is economics, life is too cumbersome, once you are entangled in daily necessities, so much love will be lost."

Thinking of those days in France, how could she be in the mood to talk about love when she was poor?Whether one can afford to pay the rent every month is a problem. If a person cannot be financially independent, no matter how selfless, how strong, and how steadfast the person loves in his heart, he will not be able to withstand the devastation of reality.

American psychologist Maslow divided human needs into five levels:

The first level is physiological needs.

The second level is the need for security.

The third level is the need for communication.

The fourth level is the need for respect.

The fifth level is the need for self-actualization.

In other words, human beings must first fill their stomachs before they can consider the issue of safety, and only after they are safe, will they want to find love and have a family. After having a family and love, they will start to pursue respect, and finally, when everything is satisfied. Only then will we begin to pursue ideals and realize self-worth.

This statement is reflected in reality, that is, if food and clothing are not taken care of, everything else is empty talk. If two people are together with only love and no food and clothing, then the love between them is also too fragile to withstand any damage.

"So, Mrs. Lan, what do you think the sense of security is?"

"A sense of security is a feeling that a person gives you. If this person always keeps what he says, and understands all your preferences, is very caring for you, and is patient. As soon as you contact him, he will reply you immediately, no matter Whatever you want to do, he is always the first person to accompany you, you are sad, he comforts you, you are proud, he reprimands you."

Jiujiu paused for a moment, "If someone can do this, then this person will definitely give you a sense of security. My husband not only has good grades, but also has an outstanding character. He never gets close to other girls. Whatever I ask, he basically agrees to."

"Because of this, I always disregarded my husband's feelings and squandered his love for me. At that time, I always felt that it was not enough, and I wanted to tease him when I had nothing to do. He was unhappy, and I wanted him to make me happy. In this way, he swayed his tenderness endlessly until..."

She suddenly fell silent, and the audience looked at her nervously, even Lan Zhongwen and Li Wan were a little confused.

"Until we separated, I lived in France by myself for six years." Her voice suddenly took on a heavy cry, "Many times I always feel that he is still by my side, sometimes I go to the convenience store to buy drinks, Because of my forgetful personality, I often forget to bring money. At that time, I stretched out my hand to the air next to me and said, Lan Huaer, give me the money, and I’m going to buy drinks. Do you know? People on the road always think I’m a lunatic, but They don't know, I miss those days with Mr. Lan like crazy."

(End of this chapter)