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Chapter 77 Communication quotient: understanding the communication philosophy of people coming and going 4
Life without friends is like life without the sun
Some things always go like this: If he is not your friend, he asks you to take a neutral position; if he is your friend, he asks you to take up arms and speak out.

——"Chapter 11 How should a monarch be respected"

A friend is like this, the closer you are to him, the more he wants you to be his help, his support.While this may sound scary because you have a sense of responsibility that you can't get rid of, the truth is that friends are the same for you, and you can get what you want from them, especially those friends who really want to help you.Don't refuse to make friends, let alone those who depend on us.

Pushkin once said: "Whether it is passionate verses, beautiful articles, or the joy of leisure, nothing can replace the incomparably intimate friendship." In this society, we cannot survive in isolation. Once something happens, help you There are only those sincere friends, because you have a place in their hearts, so they will open up a blue sky for you.

There was a Japanese who felt that the house he had lived in for decades was a bit old and wanted to renovate it. During the renovation process, he dismantled a tree wall.The walls of ordinary Japanese houses are wooden boards in the middle, and mud on both sides.When he demolished the wall, he found a tree tiger nailed to the board, which was still alive.The owner was surprised that the nail was left when the house was renovated 10 years ago, which means that the tree tiger has been in the wall for 10 years.The Japanese thought, how did it survive after being nailed and unable to move for the past 10 years?He became very interested in this matter.He wanted to know how the tree tiger managed to find food and survive, so he hid in a corner and observed quietly.

After a while, a tree tiger crawled up from the other end, with food in its mouth, and put it at the corner of the nailed tree tiger's mouth.The master was touched at once.Another tree tiger has been feeding it for 10 years in order to save it from being pinned down.One tree tiger has no complaints and no regrets, and has never stopped serving another tree tiger for 10 years, which is really touching.

Animals have such deep feelings, let alone humans.Whether in life, study, or work, friends are always of great help to us. If we open our hearts and make some good friends worthy of deep friendship, we will have inexhaustible wealth.

A man who saw God after death asked God what is the difference between heaven and hell.So God let the angel take him to visit heaven and hell.

When they arrived in heaven, a large dining table appeared in front of them, and the table was filled with sumptuous delicacies.The people eating around the table are all holding a spoon that is more than ten feet long.But what is puzzling is that these people are feeding each other to the people on the opposite side.It can be seen that everyone had a good time eating.Heaven is like this! He was very disappointed.

Then, the angel took him to visit hell.What appeared in front of him was the same table of delicacies, and he wondered: How is heaven the same as hell! The angel saw his doubts and said to him, "Don't worry, just keep reading."

After a while, it was time to eat, and a group of skinny people came to the table and took their seats.Everyone also held a spoon more than ten feet long in their hands.But because the spoon was too long, everyone couldn't get the food in the spoon to their own mouths. These people were all hungry and yelling, but none of them thought of helping each other.

Whether we can help each other, become friends with others or become strangers or even enemies, determines the difference between heaven and hell.

As the saying goes: A fence has three stakes, and a hero has three gangs.A good man needs a helper, and without the stakes there is no fence.Confucius educated his disciples with the saying, "If you study alone but have no friends, you will be ignorant and ignorant." France used the proverb "Having no friends in life is like living without the sun" to warn the world.Numerous facts tell us that friends are essential if we want to live a life of flavor, warmth and happiness. They will give us warmth, encouragement and help.

A person who has no friends is equivalent to losing half of his life. He will be extremely lonely, lonely, and even always live in failure and depression.Don't let yourself always go forward alone, in fact, we still have many opportunities to extend our hands to others.

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