Reborn 80s

Chapter 689
As a result, the second brother and sister Yang Xue almost gave up their plans to get married. The general problems would definitely not have such serious consequences.

"The thing is like this. When we were talking about our future life, I said that I am not young anymore. Yang Xue is the same age as me, and she is not a little girl anymore. I want to have a child earlier. But Yang Xue seems to have some concerns, saying that she needs to think about it, and she may not plan to have children for the time being. The matter of Yuan Stupid is over, and she probably won’t bring it up again, and I’m also to blame. Say something more."

"What did you say?" A few words can make things develop to the present state. Lin Qiu really couldn't think of what his second brother said.

"I just said that I hope she can stay at home after she has a child and stop going out to work. She can take care of the child at home. I can take care of things outside, so she doesn't have to worry about it."

Lin Qiu was also stunned when he heard this question. His second brother is not a man with chauvinism, how could he bring up such a thing.If the other party told him such things when he was married, Lin Qiu would also be very angry.

"Second brother, I didn't say you. How could you say such a thing? What is the reaction of sister Yang Xue? She should be very angry." Lin Qiu thought about what he would look like when he heard such a thing You can almost think of Yang Xue's reaction at that time. This kind of thing is really too ridiculous for them. Thinking that it is not the old society before, why would anyone have such an idea?I think women should stay at home and take care of their children.

"Her reaction at the time was still very violent. She told me very seriously that she likes her career very much now, and she will never give up her career. Let me stop thinking about this kind of thing. If I continue to propose If something like this happens, she will reconsider the relationship between the two of us."

After a pause for a while, Lin Youfu continued: "I just think that her current job is also very hard. It's not that I don't have the ability. I can take good care of Yang Xue. Then simply let Yang Xue stay at home. Is it all right? Why do you have to work so hard? So because of this matter, we have been arguing for a long time, and it has not been eased until now, and we have not contacted for a long time."

Lin Qiu's current expression is already very serious. This matter is indeed his second brother's fault, and has nothing to do with Sister Yang Xue.

"Second brother, although I am your younger sister, I have to apologize to Sister Yang Xue for this matter. Usually, you are a person who listens to the new era. Why do you have such thoughts in your heart? Why do you get married? After the death, women should stay at home to take care of the children, which is simply unfair."

Lin Qiu said that he also became a little excited, and the current society is still somewhat conservative.So some people still have the idea that women should stay at home to take care of their children and men have to work. Every time they encounter this kind of thing, Lin Qiu almost scoffs at it.

Originally, according to the situation in my home, my parents' thinking was relatively avant-garde.Lin Qiu felt that this kind of thing definitely didn't happen in his own home, but now the second brother's idea obviously broke Lin Qiu's idea a bit. Did he also have such an idea in his own home?
"That's not what I mean, what I mean is that I am strong enough now, and I can take care of our family well. Why does Yang Xue have to work so hard outside? Look at the elder brother's house, isn't the elder sister-in-law just at home now? Are you taking care of your children wholeheartedly? Life is also very happy, and I don’t think there is anything wrong with it.”

Didn't Lin Youfu think that women should take care of their children and family affairs at home, but he just felt that his own ability was enough now, so wouldn't it be a very normal thing for his wife not to work so hard?
"That's not the second brother who said that. People don't necessarily think so of what you think is good. First of all, Sister Yang Xue likes this job very much. From every time I have contact with Zhou Fang, I can see that Sister Yang Xue is not good. Will be willing to give up this job. Second brother, think about it, if Sister Yang Xue’s salary is higher than yours now, she also thinks the same as you, and hopes that you can give up your job after marriage, what would you think? "

Lin Qiu directly expressed his thoughts. The second brother's starting point was indeed good. He wanted Yang Xue not to work so hard, but this was obviously not what Yang Xue needed, and this created a conflict.

"It's different. I'm a man, and I have an obligation to take care of the people in my family." Hearing Lin Qiu's words, Lin Youfu replied almost without thinking.

"So, you still have this idea. Assuming you are a woman, how would you feel if you were asked to give up your job now? Second brother, I am not a person who likes to bring up the past but I don’t know if it’s because you’ve been sitting in this position for too long. You’re not the person who thinks about other people like you used to. It’s the same in the last movie, and it’s the same in the current one. You I have always considered things from your own point of view, and have never considered other people’s points of view.”

Lin Qiu knew that his words might be a bit heavy, but the truth is indeed like this.My second brother has really gone too far during this time, and I don't think that Sister Yang Xue will be so angry.

"If someone asked you to give up everything you have now for your own good, and promised to give you a better life than now, I want to know, what would you do, second brother?" Seeing Lin Youfu thinking about what he just said, Lin Qiu asked again, the current state of the second brother will not only hurt the people around him, but also have some impact on future business.

Lin Youfu didn't speak for a long time, Lin Qiu's words seemed to wake him up.Yes, what you think is good is different for others.

(End of this chapter)