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Chapter 121 The Secret of Love 3
Volume 4 Chapter 3 The Secret of Love [-]
to harm others is to murder oneself

To make a relationship work, focus on admiring the other person rather than complaining.When you focus on their strengths, you will discover more of them.

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Every emotion contains corresponding energy, and the onset of emotion will naturally be accompanied by the release of energy. This is an irrefutable truth.Every kind of thought will leave deep or shallow traces in people's lives from gestation to formation.Love and kindred affection are positive emotions, and they produce positive effects—they make the body healthy and vigorous, the face beautiful, the voice sweet, and the charm enhanced.

Give love and you will get love. When a person treats others with kindness and kindness, others will return the same feelings.But what are the consequences of hurting others?We may be able to find the answer from this ancient Greek myth.

In ancient Greek mythology, there was a great hero named Hercules.One day, when he was walking on a rough mountain road, he found something like a bag was obstructing his feet. Hercules stepped on it, but the bag swelled and doubled in size instead of being crushed. with.Hercules was furious and hit it with a wooden stick as thick as a bowl, and the bag swelled until it blocked the road.

At this moment, a saint walked out of the mountain and said to Hercules: "My friend, don't touch it, get away from it quickly! It's called a hate bag. If you don't violate it, it will become as small as before; if you violate it, it will be as small as before." It will swell up, block your way, and be hostile to you to the end!"

Negative emotions such as hatred or anger are more or less hidden in people's hearts. Once these human weaknesses are touched, they will expand rapidly.Compared with love, they bring abnormal, unnatural, harmful and unhelpful influences. If love is the lofty law of the universe, then hatred and injury are violent violations of this law.When you hurt others out of negative emotions, you often hurt yourself too.

If you try to hurt others, negative emotions such as anger, anger, and accusations will seriously affect your mood, and these inner destructive energies will also become eaters of your health, causing physical pain.People's emotions are contagious. It not only affects you alone, but also negatively implies other people around you, so that a vicious circle of mutual influence is formed, and you are the most firmly chained in it. , and one that is difficult to get rid of.

Kindness is the call of life to life, and malice is the bondage of death to death.The negativity of trying to hurt others can turn the world into a miserable hell, of which you yourself will be a victim.When the fire of hatred sprouts in a person's heart, the best way is to extinguish those flickering sparks with the oasis of human nature.

There is an old Persian saying: "Kindness can overcome irritability, friendship can overcome loneliness. Warm hands can lead an elephant by the hair. You have to face your enemies with kindness, because breaking peace is a sin." There is a saying in Buddhist scriptures : "If someone harms me because of ignorant hatred, I will use selfless love to save him." Hinduism also has similar teachings: "Meet evil with kindness, turn anger with love, love can overcome hatred, and hatred can only breed hatred. "The more malice a person inflicts on others, the greater the malice that will be reflected back on himself.

A wise person will never have the idea of ​​harming others, so naturally he will have no enemies.When you are hurt, you have two choices: one, repay the grievance with grievances, think about the situation in your mind countless times that the other person humiliated you, and then double the repayment, if you do this, you will demean yourself When they reach the same level as the other party, both of them will suffer for his faults; secondly, repay their grievances with kindness, and help them recognize and overcome their mistakes with kindness. In this way, both people can be freed from hatred.

Forgiving others and maintaining a state of harmony is not a waste of effort, and it will pay off sooner or later.The more tolerant and selfless you are, the greater the reward you will get; if you are mean and ungrateful, you will only get back a lifetime of pain and disease. Forgive those who have committed mistakes against you. Redeeming the other party can also prevent oneself from falling into the quagmire.

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