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Chapter 134 The Great Blessing From Heaven, You Receive It With Magnificence 1
Volume 2 Chapter 1 Great Blessing from the Heavens with a Magnificent Reception [-]
Dealing with envy and malice in others with generosity

The soul has its beautiful adornments, those liberty and boldness that add to the personality a kind of grace.Because this temperament requires people to have a broad mind, it is rare.With this kind of temperament, even if you are facing an enemy, you will praise him and face him with a tolerant heart.When the opportunity for vengeance arises, this type of person makes this temperament even more glamorous, and he not only forgoes vengeance, but takes advantage of it, converting an act of vengeance into an act of generosity.This is the secret of the way of controlling people.He doesn't pretend to be a winner, he never puts on airs, even if he wins by virtue of his real ability, he doesn't flaunt it.

——"The Book of Wisdom"

A philosopher once said that the pain of tolerance and tolerance can be exchanged for sweet results.It was said with sincerity and depth.Tolerance is painful, it means giving up the resentment in the heart, and swallowing all the insults and pains of the past.This philosopher can feel the contradictions and fluctuations in the heart of the tolerant, and he starts from the heart of the person and is very sincere.At the same time, he pointed out the inevitability of tolerance, because tolerance will eventually bring sweetness, while revenge on others will cause destruction to one's heart.

There was a Hollywood actress who lost her love, and her face became stiff and wrinkled due to resentment and revenge. She went to one of the most famous make-up artists for her beauty treatment.The makeup artist was well aware of her psychological state, and told her pertinently, "If you don't eliminate the resentment and hatred in your heart, I dare say that no beautician in the world can beautify your appearance."

When you are exhausted by pain, you might as well learn to forgive, forget about resentment, and dwell on painful memories is futile.Instead of cursing the darkness, it is better to light a candle in the darkness.Letting go of a grudge can allow you to say goodbye to the dark days of the past and to be positive again.

In life, we inevitably have misunderstandings and frictions with others.For example, some hurt their own face, some made themselves unable to step down, some embarrassed themselves in public, some had prejudices against themselves, and so on.If you don't pay attention, when we lightly move hatred, the hatred bag will grow quietly, and your heart will be burdened with revenge and cannot be free.

The British writer George Herbert said: "He who cannot tolerate breaks the bridge he himself must cross." The wisdom of this sentence is that tolerance benefits both the giver and the receiver.When true forgiveness occurs, there are no scars left, no hurt, no desire for revenge, only healing.Tolerance is a kind of healing power. It can not only heal the defects of the tolerated, but also excavate the greatness of the tolerated. As the American writer Hubbard said: "Tolerance and the unspeakable joy of being tolerated are A great pleasure that even the gods would envy."

Someone gave a very beautiful metaphor to tolerance. He said: "A violet is trampled flat by one foot, but it leaves its fragrance on that heel. This is tolerance."

Monty, a Chicago native, was a frequent critic of Lincoln's presidential campaign.After Lincoln was elected, a welcome party was held for Monte at the Grand Hotel.Lincoln saw Monty standing in the corner. Although Monty had insulted Lincoln loudly, Lincoln still said with grace, "You shouldn't be standing there. You should come and stand with me."

Everyone who attended the welcome party witnessed the glory that Lincoln bestowed on Monty, and because of this, Monty became Lincoln's most loyal and enthusiastic supporter.

Hatred is a destructive emotion that will only intensify conflicts and lead to catastrophe.A tolerant heart can easily dissolve hatred and turn a tense atmosphere into warmth.Being able to give tolerance to the enemy can already be called holy. Even a poor old Jewish woman can fully bear the word "great".

A wise person will not hate "enemies" to the bone.Everyone has a different point of view, and the things they consider are naturally different. Regardless of whether the idea is close to yours, the "starting point" of each point of view has its own reason for its existence.We should learn to be tolerant: regard ourselves as others, and feel the emotions of the other party from the perspective of the other party; treat others as ourselves, empathize with others and experience the feelings of others in person; treat others as others, we cannot force others to change, we can only understand Understand others; regard ourselves as ourselves, all our understanding and tolerance are not for others, but for ourselves. Putting ourselves in the shoes of others is actually tolerant of ourselves.

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