The world's greatest get rich bible

Chapter 147 Take Your Mistakes into Your Own Hands 1
Volume 5 Chapter 1 Take Mistakes into Your Own Hands [-]
Complaining is the most worthless language in the world
Loss of reputation is usually due to recurring complaints.People who often complain will not only not become the object of sympathy, but will become the object of ridicule and contempt by others.In some cases, those who listen to our complaints may even emulate the people we complain about.Complaining about past shame brings future shame.I originally wanted to get help and comfort from others, but it can only make the listener feel contemptuous of you.Complimenting other people's favors to you is the best strategy, and it can help you win more favors.When you tell others how favors have been done to you by those who were not there, you are asking the listener to do the same to you, and you will be doubled.A wise man never mentions the insults he has suffered to others, but only publicizes the help others have given him.Doing so can reduce hostility and increase the number of friends.

——"The Book of Wisdom"

There is such a scene in the movie "I Love Lucy": Ricky?When Ricardo comes home from get off work every day, the first thing he says when he walks into the house is: "Hi, Lucy, I'm back." We often greet our family members like this: "Hi, honey, I'm back." "Hi , Mom, I'm back"... However, there is often a sentence added after this: "But my head (back, stomach, leg) hurts so much."

Complaining has become a way of life for most of us. We hope to get others' attention, let others accept our point of view, or open up a conversation.We are always complaining, but we often think that we are a positive, optimistic, and excellent person.In fact, when we start to express our dissatisfaction, vent our pain, and express doubts about ourselves, we have already started to complain. Lead yourself to great opportunities.

Everyone has a commonality, that is, they want to attract others' attention and recognition, and they will try their best to attract others' attention.Excellent people have already obtained satisfaction from their achievements, so they will no longer find any reasons and excuses for themselves, and their actions have already attracted people's attention.

In contrast, those mediocre people also have a desire for attention, but they don't have the capital to show off to others, and they don't have the halo that can attract others' attention, so they choose this way of complaining, trying to get benefits from it, telling The reason why others did not achieve results is because there are so many uncontrollable factors; it is not that he does not work hard, but that the real environment is too harsh and he is powerless, so he can only give up the results to others.They hope to gain sympathy from others, so that, even if they are not as dazzling as excellent people, at least they will not be stepped into the bottom because of their own failures or mediocrity.

Complaining is like a disease. Excellent people stay away from it because they are afraid that it will hinder their plans and delay their development. I found a very appropriate interface, which relieved my inner self-blame.Because of such different psychology, excellent people and mediocre people will have different attitudes even when facing the same situation.

There is such a fable in ancient Rome:

In the distant past, two rivers started from their source and met to flow to the sea.They crossed mountain streams and at last reached the edge of the desert.Facing the vast desert, they are helpless.

A river said: "In such hot weather, our water will evaporate quickly. It is so dry here, we can't pass through anyway." So it simply stopped moving forward, preferring to stay in the desert. The spirit is evaporated, and unnecessary sacrifices are no longer made. "

The other river thought: as long as the water flow becomes thinner, evaporation can be reduced, and as long as it works hard, it will definitely flow to the sea.According to his own method, soon, it met the sea.

In the face of difficulties, mediocre people always complain about the bad environment and find various reasons for themselves to stop their pursuit, while excellent people will not be tired of complaining, they will come up with solutions to problems, and stick to them until they overcome difficulty.

(End of this chapter)