my old life

Chapter 509 The turning point of life

No one can help me when I need him and guide me the way when I'm in a hurry like my second uncle.

If there is no second uncle, I would not be where I am today. I have indescribable gratitude in my heart. I can always open my heart in front of him, because he is the person I trust the most!

"Second Uncle, I don't have Fatty's shrewd mind, nor Misu's social experience, and I'm not Su Yurong's opponent. I can't even feel my presence among them... I also know that relying on favors can't bring them up. Time sticks together."

"It's good to be able to find your own position, let's continue."

"I know that no matter how powerful a team is, it's useless if it doesn't belong to me. I want to be an indispensable person, just like you!"

"That's what I said, but I'm not indispensable." The second uncle's words were so deep that I couldn't believe it.

In my impression, Second Uncle's gangsters are all centered on him. He is the center of control in the gambling game, and he is also the one who has the final say in life.

"Actually, let's put it this way, no one is irreplaceable, and the earth will continue to turn without anyone, do you understand?"

"I understand the truth, but I don't understand what it has to do with now."

"Silly boy, there has never been anyone in the world who is irreplaceable. Your starting point of thinking is good, and the issues you are considering are also right, but you just chose the wrong direction."

"What direction, Second Uncle, can you tell me carefully?" At this moment, I felt that I was about to unravel the confusion in my heart, because Second Uncle knew what to do.

"Everyone in this world is a relationship between using and being used, remember this sentence?"

"Remember, I remember every word you said in my heart, and I have never forgotten it." I answered honestly, knowing that he was solving my doubts for me.

"Your problem lies here. You still don't understand the true meaning of this sentence. Using and being used is not as ruthless as it seems on the surface."

"I don't understand." I said carefully, feeling that I still don't understand anything, and I don't have a deeper understanding of using and being used.

"The relationship between using and being used has always existed, including friends and relatives, but the method and purpose of using are different, but don't be confused by the word use, the way people get along with each other can be regarded as use."

"I still don't understand... I feel that these words are really ruthless." I said carefully, and the second uncle's words made it difficult for me to accept every time, because he never played cards according to the routine.

"Do you know what I am going out for this time?" Second Uncle asked nonchalantly, and I honestly said I didn't know.

"This time I'm here to help Chu Ge solve the problem. He has a small place in Ji County. Do you think he is using me?"

"This...you only help if you have feelings, don't you?"

"Wrong, feelings are also built on the relationship of use. Real feelings and relationships are both to be used and to be used. Just like you use people around you to deal with AOB, everyone knows it in their hearts."

I was a little surprised by what the second uncle said. I seemed to be experiencing an unprecedented world and accepting a brand new thought.

But it is undeniable that what he said is correct, the harder it is to understand, the deeper the truth!

"It's good that you want to win people's hearts, but you have to choose the right direction first. You have to know the value of being able to be used by others, so that they will follow you, and the relationship of mutual use can be long-term."

"I seem to understand a little bit."

"Don't think that using these two words is ruthless. In fact, people are all the same. Birds of a feather flock together and people are divided into groups. Why do you make friends with cheaters instead of office workers? The reverse is also true for them. "

"That is to say, for the people around me, I am also a potential target for use?" I asked without knowing why, feeling that the window paper in my heart was about to be pierced!
"That's right! Now think about it carefully, what is your most valuable thing to be used by others? Put aside your own personality traits, and just think from the perspective of interests." The second uncle asked abruptly, and I immediately began to think.

I thought about it for a long time, but I didn't think of a place where I could be used by others, but I had a strange idea in my heart, the most valuable to be used by others...could it be the second uncle?

"Second Uncle, are the most valuable people around me, you and your gang?" I asked cautiously, feeling that this idea is absurd but very realistic!

"That's right! This is why I alienate them. You are my own nephew, and you are an irreplaceable existence!"

The second uncle's words gave me an instant epiphany. At this moment, I really understand the true meaning of using and being used!Not so ruthless in the literal sense.

"Second Uncle, it turns out that all of this is your trick, but why didn't you tell me earlier?"

"You may not understand this truth now, but you will understand it in the future. There is nothing wrong with using and being used. In fact, they are both very obvious." The second uncle's tone was much more relaxed.

He made me understand a very incomprehensible truth, absurd yet realistic, this kind of words full of negative energy solved the doubts in my heart, and made me live more clearly!
"Wait a minute, second uncle, what should I do with a friend like Su Yurong? He is just by my side because of favors, but sooner or later the favors will be repaid, and he has no desires or desires and has no use for me... "

"If you really want to keep him, you can give him some needs if he has no needs. Everything can be created."

"I don't understand." I answered bluntly, because I knew that I couldn't keep up with the second uncle's thought rhythm.

"Xiaochu has a casino, Ah Yu has a trading company, Ah Feng and Black Snake are homeless, give them what they don't have, let them do what they like, it's that simple!"

"I see, let them live the life they like, right?"

"That's right, relationships can only be developed on the basis of a relationship that can be used by each other. This is true of everything. This is the most straightforward human nature."

Although the second uncle's words are realistic, they can see through human nature. Although some words are difficult for me to understand for a while, I can gradually understand the meaning.

I don't know how many times the second uncle has experienced confusion before he can analyze human nature so thoroughly and straightforwardly. His perspective is always so different, and he always allows me to discover the most real and straightforward side!
"I know Second Uncle, now I know what to do!"

"It's good to know. It's cold recently, remember to wear more clothes. I'll go back in a few days."

"I know Second Uncle, you should also take care of yourself!"

"Actually, there are some things that I shouldn't have told you... because you can better know what it's like after you experience it once."

"Oh? What's the matter?" I immediately had doubts in my heart. I knew that this was the usual style of the second uncle cheating on me. Could it be that he discovered something?
"Forget it, you always have to grow up! When I was your age, I experienced the betrayal of women and the rebellion of brothers. Of course, without the departure of old friends, how can new friends join?"

"I see! Second Uncle, you are telling me to be careful of the people around me, right?"

"After all, you are young, sometimes you are too easy to be emotional, too easy to be used by others... because you have an almost idiotic attachment to feelings, which is hard for me to understand!"

"Hey, maybe this is my fate, I've been like this since I was a child!"

"So you will experience a lot, and many things are painful. I can understand but I can't tell you. Only by going through it yourself will you have a deeper experience!" The second uncle clearly has something in his words!
This has always been the case since I was a child to my second uncle. He saw that I was about to fall into a pit but he would not help me, saying that he would only remember the lesson when he fell in pain!

"Second Uncle, don't be so mysterious? Tell me so that I can prepare in advance..."

"I can tell you this time, what about next time? A man who hasn't suffered from a woman, a man who hasn't experienced brotherly betrayal, is not a real man at all!"

If someone else said this, I definitely wouldn't believe it, but I have absolutely no doubts about what Second Uncle said... because I can trust him, I believe he won't harm me!

"Second Uncle, in fact, I don't need to let me experience and bear everything by myself. Sometimes let me know the harm of things and take precautions in advance. It's good to taste the taste, and I don't have to hurt me so deeply."

"You kid has learned to integrate and understand! But you still have to be careful about some things, and be careful of the people around you!"

What the second uncle said made my scalp buzz!Could it be that he has already seen who has evil intentions?

(End of this chapter)