The Notre Dame system is arrogant again

Chapter 780 About Filial Piety
Mrs. Zhao was stunned, she really hadn't thought about this.

Zhang Xiaohua was so angry.

"Also, let me tell you, don't look at you in front of you. If you serve, you will not get any good in the future. People still think that you are not good at serving! People are like this. People who do not get good, say Everything will be fine for the person who is here! Mother, why are you so careless, can you agree to such a thing?"

"I……"

"I have said long ago that if you don't go to work in my village, you will live here steadily. When your brothers pass the exam and buy a house, you can just live in the past. When grandparents need to take care of them, how many people in each family will live here?" The moon is enough, but now you are taking care of everything!"

Needless to say about filial piety in ancient times, there are many talks about filial piety even in modern times. Some say that parents need to accompany them, and some say that parents need to respect their living habits. !

Let’s talk about companionship first. It’s impossible for all children to stay with their parents at home. Not to mention pursuing dreams and ideals, it’s just for life, so that your parents can go to the hospital when they get sick. You have to go out and work hard, right?Of course, big cities don't matter.

Since you go out to work hard, it is impossible for you to control your time. With the addition of socializing, life and entertainment, how much time is left?
So companionship is largely impossible.

Let’s talk about respecting the living habits of the parents, that is to say, asking the parents to still live in their original hometown, but if the parents are sick or have something to do, who should they go to?
So, people's situations are different, and filial piety is also different.

Well, farther away.

In fact, the old-age care situation in the ancient countryside is similar to that in the modern countryside. It is the son who takes care of the elderly. Needless to say, one son, if there are more sons, they will take turns to live in each family for a few months or a few years.

Even if some sons cannot take the elderly to live, they will use financial compensation.

But generally speaking, the one who provides the economy is always much more relaxed than the one who takes care of it personally.

Moreover, the one who provides financial support is often more affirmed by the parents and feels that they are more filial, but those who take care of them personally are dissatisfied in every way.

What's more, no matter how good it is, it will not be perfect, but the one that provides the economy, only keeps money and does nothing, looks much more perfect.

Besides living in rotation, outsiders think that they are all sons. It doesn’t matter who lives or not, but who knows who is suffering and who is tired. Just say a few words.

Besides, the same son, why should you contribute less and I will contribute more, I will not be good if I contribute more, and you will still be a good person if you contribute less, this is not fair!

In the case of Zhang's family, if Zhang's family moved into the old house, it would be Zhao's responsibility to take care of the elderly.

What does Mr. Zhang do, that is, run errands, what does Mrs. Zhao do, including eating, drinking, and messing around. If the old man is lying on the kang, then you have to poop and pee, and the son will move his mouth to comment on how you are doing. That's all.

As for Mrs. Liu, he must use excuses to make it difficult for Mrs. Zhao, not only that, but he would not think of Mrs. Zhao, and think that it is better to be a son outside.

Even if she is satisfied, she still feels that this should be done, and there is nothing to praise. She would not think that the son outside should not have done this.

Not only the Liu family, but most of the old people are like this.

Mrs. Zhao got up every day to make a fire and cook, feed the pigs and chickens, serve the first meal and the next meal, and had to work hard without complaining, otherwise she would be unfilial.

And other people will put the money on the kang at that time, and just say a few words, this is something delicious for parents, this is something nice to wear for parents, you have worked hard, parents will entrust you, there is No matter what difficulties, just say, your parents are old, you need to pay more attention, how to do it, and then ask the old man in private, how do they treat you?is it good?Then have a meal, stay for a few days, pat your ass and leave, and don't know when you will come back next time.

These words are a bit harsh, but this is the reality, the reality will never be equal to the truth, and you will never understand it without experience.

"Don't talk about the third and fourth uncles, the second uncle and the younger uncle should be the same as my father. If you can't come back to fulfill your filial piety, it's the same if you take your grandparents over to do your filial piety. Mother, you can also be more relaxed."

Serving the elderly is tiring!Even more tiring than a child, the child can slap and scold a few times if he is disobedient, can you do it if the old man is disobedient?Like Liu, what can you do?
Also, not only to serve the elderly, but also to serve outsiders.

The old man is by your side, so if you come to visit the old man personally, of course you come to see him. Don’t you even care about a meal?If you take care of the rice, do you serve it on a plate of pickles?Why do you have to cook a few dishes?
The short-distance ones leave after eating, while the long-distance ones have to stay for a few days. You can’t just cook a few dishes for others, you have to make the whole meal decent, right?

These people came during the slack season, especially in winter to visit the elderly. It was freezing cold at that time, holding firewood and ashes, washing dishes and pots, how cold it was!
It’s enough for my family to eat a simple bite, which saves a lot of time, and the cold time is not long. When guests come, they even clean up and freeze to death!
Some old people will say, young people, why not do more work, cooking a meal is nothing!

But who is willing to work more, who doesn't want to lie down in a warm room, cooking a meal is nothing, but just ask, how many people are willing to do it?That's not a matter of burning a fire, it's a matter of washing and rinsing, and it takes more than an hour to complete!

When the whole family is full, wipe their mouths and go to rest. The women have to clean up and feed the pigs and chickens. When the busy work is almost over, the second meal will arrive. The chicken gets up earlier than the dog goes to bed later and can't finish it!
What is even more desperate is that this kind of life has no end, the only end is when you die and become a wife, or you die.

"Well, what should we do? Ask your grandparents to take turns, and they won't agree. They said they can still move and take care of themselves. Let's talk about it in a few years."

"Since you can move, what are you going to do?" Zhang Xiaohua said bluntly, "When they need help, you can help them. Isn't it good that there is no shortage of firewood and food? How did you get out of that yard? How long did it take? Forget, are you careless or cheap!"

"Damn girl, what are you talking about!"

"Am I right?"

Zhang Xiaohua was so angry, she had never seen anything like this before, and rushed to the door to serve others!

"You can't say that right, I'm your mother!"

"Forget it, anyway, if you want to, it's you who suffer and suffer, so what does it have to do with me!"

Zhang Xiaohua is also tired of crooked, it's going to rain, my mother is going to get married, her parents have to be filial, don't mind her business!

shook hands and left.

The angry Zhao family can't do it.

"Damn girl, your temper is getting bigger and bigger, talking to your mother like that!"

(End of this chapter)