Ode to joy

Chapter 219

The waiting time was palpitatingly long.Guan Juer took out her work and started to work, but she was a little absent-minded, she was worried about her parents' attitude.Especially her mother, she knew that her mother must be picky, and her mother was extremely picky about her only daughter, how could she not be picky about Xie Bin.

Finally, a text message from Dad came: We will stay in Haishi on Friday night and meet Xiaoxie on Saturday.Guan Juer replied to the text message: Can I switch to May Day?Dad replied: No, before we meet, you have to be careful not to get too close.Guan Ju'er blushed when she saw that her colleagues were entering the door one after another, so she took the time to make a phone call to Xie Bin. "My parents are coming on Friday, can I have dinner with you on Saturday?"

"This week?" Xie Bin was obviously shocked.

"Yeah, as soon as I mentioned it to them, they were absolutely obliged to come. But if you don't want to, I will..."

"I'm fine, I'm glad they value me. I'll pick them up when they arrive."

"They have their own car. My boss has come in, bye." Guan Juer was a little dazed after putting down the phone.She didn't know whether it was right or wrong to tell her parents so early.

Andy was waiting for the elevator, but Qu Xiaoxiao and Dr. Zhao, who looked like conjoined twins, were waiting.The onlooker was more embarrassed than the two who made it, she turned to the elevator and said, "The nanny made breakfast for you two, why don't you go over and get it."

"It's too late. Hey, why aren't you wearing your engagement ring today?"

"Dai two days is enough to declare sovereignty for Baozi. I remember Xiaoqiu was discharged from the hospital today. I don't know how they will deal with it."

"Should I go directly to Ying Qin's house? She's not very strict, who will take care of her here? Her mother doesn't even have a place to live here."

Dr. Zhao interjected leisurely: "It can always be accommodated if you squeeze. But I don't know if it will cause infection."

Qu Xiaoxiao laughed loudly, "Sister Fan and Guan Guan will both thank you for your words."

"I'm going to buy a dress to wear when I go to Baozi's to apply for a marriage certificate on Friday. I don't know how to buy it. Are you free tonight?"

"I'm not free tonight and tomorrow night. You'd better look for Elder Sister Fan. She's the vacancy right now. Apart from telling her not to save money for you, what else can you do? She has good eyesight." Qu Xiaoxiao lay on Doctor Zhao's back Seeing that he didn't react much, he added another sentence, "I didn't expect it. We seem to have just met. You are ready to get married. Xiao Qiu is also ready to get married."

Seeing Qu Xiaoxiao's movements, Andy couldn't help smiling and helping her, "When are you guys?"

Dr. Zhao said without hesitation: "Xiao Qu once said that she would not see my parents until she entered the MBA for half a year. Probably around that time."

Qu Xiaoxiao didn't even think about the answer, she hung on Dr. Zhao's body in surprise, and he carried her into the elevator. "Why don't you ask my parents when they will see you? I haven't even told you yet. You are such a bully. This is the 22nd floor, Pansi Cave, and you have no right to speak."

Dr. Zhao said with a stinky face: "For a talent like me, everyone will pass the vote without any doubts. Simply don't bother to think about it, there is no variable at all."

"Haha, Andy, have you ever seen such a smelly and shameless person?"

"That's called self-confidence." Dr. Zhao answered again.Andy smiled.She has a good memory, the separation and reunion of the two not long ago was entirely due to their own lack of self-confidence.

The three broke up at the elevator entrance, each looking for a car.Qu Xiaoxiao pestered Dr. Zhao and asked, "You mean I'm not confident?"

"You are confident first, and I am second. You are afraid to see my parents, and I am afraid to see your friends. I am really relieved, it's okay to see you. But the result is barely good. This is the lesson I have learned."

"Well, I love you and listen to you."

The two got into Qu Xiaoxiao's car, and before leaving in a hurry, they embraced and kissed again.Andy passed by and smiled.Dr. Zhao sighed after kissing, "Why do you have so many business trips, I have so many operations, we don't have time to indulge until we die after we get back together."

"You ask for leave now, let's go back." Qu Xiaoxiao screamed.

"No, the operation is waiting for me. If I do it one day late, the patient will suffer one more day. I can't bear it."

"Actually, so do I. Money can never be enough."

The two went to work very depressed.

Accompanied by Qiu's mother and Ying's mother, Qiu Yingying was finally discharged from the hospital and returned to the rented house.When she broke up with Ying Qin, Qiu Yingying cried all the way thinking that she would not be able to see each other for a long time.If it wasn't for the two mothers, if the sisters on the 22nd floor were involved, she would definitely beg Qu Xiaoxiao to find Dr. Zhao again, and ask Dr. Zhao to help her stay in the hospital for a few more days. She didn't want to leave Yingqin.

When a group of three opened the door of 2202, Mother Ying frowned first. "In-laws, there is only one room, one single bed, where do you sleep at night?"

"Go back and buy a mat and some foam boards, and sleep on the floor, just for a few days, and get over it. In-laws, sit here, and I'll see where to boil the water."

Qiu Yingying hurriedly said: "I will come to boil the water. I can do anything that doesn't require bending over. Mother Ying sits down for a while, the water will be ready soon." Qiu's mother wanted to stop her daughter, but when she thought about it, her in-laws were watching , I let my daughter go to work.

But Ying's mother couldn't help but said: "I don't think you should boil the water. You can't live like this. Don't let one get better, and the other will fall ill again. Anyway, our two families have already obtained the certificate in a few days. Besides, my family should Qin is still in the hospital. There is no one in Yingqin's room, so why don't you stay in. I can rest assured that you will not be afraid of thieves coming in when you live there, and you can rest assured that you will have a better rest. I can also go back and cook some vegetables and wash clothes, which is also convenient for me. Yingying, you should call Ying Qin quickly and ask him to ask someone to make lunch for you, and I will help you clean up here before going back to the hospital. "

Qiu's mother couldn't help hesitating, "Is it convenient to do this? I haven't got any proof yet. How about I ask Yingying's father."

"Don't ask, the general direction is for their men, we will solve the small things by ourselves, and don't bother them with everything. Yingying, you can call."

Qiu Yingying actually wanted to agree a long time ago, but it was only because of the presence of the two elders.She quickly took out her mobile phone to talk to Ying Qin, and the two mothers here helped Qiu Yingying pack the clothes that will be used in the next half month.

But after Ying Qin heard the news, he wondered, "Then why don't you simply return your rented house too? After I leave the hospital, we will get a marriage certificate. After marriage, you don't have to move back to the rented house. Why keep it? Isn’t it a waste of rent? You can discuss it with my mother.”

"Hey, how can I say that, tell me, I'll hand over the phone to your mother."

After hearing what her son said, Ying's mother thought it was right.Go back to the house and discuss with Qiu's mother.But Qiu's mother objected, "Oh, this is not very good. It doesn't sound right. After all, I'm not married yet, and I'm so eager to move in. It seems...it seems unreasonable?"

"Tsk tsk, women, don't talk about any changes. I'll tell Yingying's dad. Yingying, call your dad for me."

Seeing this, Qiu's mother reluctantly obeyed, telling her daughter not to call.So, Qiu Yingying excitedly sent a text message to everyone on the 22nd floor, "I'm discharged from the hospital. I'm in good health and can walk by myself. My mother and Ying's mother are helping me pack up and move to Ying Qin's house. I'm leaving 2202. I will miss you all." Yes, I will come back to see you when I am healthy. Sister Fan, how do you tell the landlord to quit the rent?"

Guan Juer saw the text message first, she was surprised, isn't the Ying family very conservative, why did she suddenly figured out that she could live there before marriage.She put the question aside, went to the bathroom and called Qiu Yingying. "Xiaoqiu, we are at work, so we can't help you. Why don't you pack it up, take away what you need today, pack up the heavy ones that you don't need temporarily, and put them in the house. I'll come back tonight Xiaoxie will help you move there together. It’s just that it may be later.”

"Ah, Guan Guan, you are so kind, give me a kiss. You come tonight with an empty stomach, and my mother and I will cook and wait for you."

"No need for this, we have to eat enough to move it. It's just that I don't want to part with it."

"Guan Guan, I really don't want to part with you. It's a pity that I can't do anything now. I'll come back to find you when I'm all well."

Qiu Yingying put down the phone and hurriedly reported to the two mothers.Both of them breathed a sigh of relief, having a car and a friend to help them was so convenient.Ying's mother smiled and said: "It seems that you are very popular. A few of your friends came to help, and those who have money will contribute money, and those who are capable will contribute, and they all seem to be very capable."

"Yes, the five girls on our entire floor are you helping me and I helping you. My dad has already said that with these friends around, he will not worry."

Ying's mother laughed, "That's right. But before you get married, you play with your friends, and after you get married, you can focus on a small family."

"That is."

Mother should relax. "It's really sensible. It can be seen that Ying Qin's father can't make mistakes in judging people. You can handle it in a big way, no problem."

Qiu Yingying nodded again and again, even though she was embarrassed to admit it, she was already very happy in her heart.That's right, she has no problems at all.

▼ mud puddle
if we talk to strangers

Among the five golden flowers, each has its own characteristics and shortcomings, but there is no doubt that the little girl Guan Guan is the most upright and peaceful, smart, kind, considerate and generous, with a good background, in addition, there is a bottom line, principles, and a little Generally speaking, such a girl is most likely to obtain family happiness in real life.

However, things are impermanent, and good people may not always encounter good things.So, the police brother with a complicated background appeared on the stage.

In all fairness, Xiao Xie Tongzi, from the beginning of the treatment of Xiaoqiu at the train station, to today's you and me who are in the same customs, talking about each other's feelings, what Naibao showed us is a person who puts aside his background, regardless of his background, in every aspect. People who can’t say anything bad—even if they play word games in the confession, it’s understandable—who wants to talk about such a family ugliness.

Up to now, Xiao Xie is still a relatively positive, bold and careful, smart and motivated, considerate to his girlfriend, appreciated by his boss, and liked by his friends. He is basically a capable and capable person, and even a very loyal person.

In connection with Xiao Xie's background: she can get the support of her stepfather (his biological parents certainly don't have this ability), go to college, and study music. Although she has the influence of her biological mother, most of them also have her own sense of observation, empathy, and pleasing people.So Guan Guan was completely in love with that romantic sunrise.

It also shows that once such a person shows a completely dark side in the small family, it will be difficult for outsiders to believe.Xiao Xie is a smart and motivated person. People with such a personality are mostly competitive. People who are competitive will not like to fail.But the marriage of Xiao Xie's parents was a huge failure, and the whole life of Xiao Xie's father was even more a failure.Freud said that children learn from their parents how to interact with the opposite sex and form sensory judgments about the opposite sex.The mother's abandonment of her husband and son gave Xiao Xie a very bad start.The rumors of right and wrong from the neighbors, whether it is pity or ridicule, make things worse.

In such an objective environment, if you want not to pervert, you must be a person with an extremely strong, open-minded and kind nature.But what I saw was that Xiao Xie was obviously playing tricks in his confession.What I am most worried about is that Xiao Xie is not hiding from Guan Guan, but lying to himself.I ignore that problem and it doesn't exist.

As Ye Zi said, children from unhappy families often repeat the tragedies of their parents unconsciously.However, what makes me sigh is that if it is a girl, it is likely to hurt itself easily.Boys, on the other hand, are more likely to be influenced by their external and aggressive genes and social traditions, and choose to hurt others.

There are generally two ways to hurt someone:

I betrayed first.Because all women are unfaithful and untrustworthy, they are always capable of betrayal - if the conditions are right.Subconsciously, he doesn't believe that he can keep his lover for a long time, so instead of suffering the future that is bound to happen, instead of accepting passive blows, it is better for me to take the initiative, then the betrayal will never exist, and I retain my self-esteem .

The second: I want to control everything.Everything has to be done according to the ideal established procedures, and failure is terrible.Of course, the process can be tortuous, the actions can be gentle, and the means can be varied, but the final success is necessary.How can I be like my father, unable to keep my wife and job, useless in my life, and achieve nothing.Doubt, then, begets anxiety, anxiety begets restlessness, and restlessness begets fear.And those who are in fear are the most capable of cruelty.

Xiao Xie is fine.But it was great.A person from no background can win the favor of the leader; besides his outstanding ability, he can also unite his colleagues; he is brave enough to help his girlfriend to trouble the hospital, and he can carefully observe Zhao Mei's heart-wrenching behavior during the chaos; Romantic, this is simply a perfect boyfriend, but unfortunately, perfection is poison.

Now, all that is needed is a good wife and a good family, and all the flaws of childhood can be made up for.And his father's failure will never repeat itself.Even if Guan Guan secretly fell in love with others at first, but not himself at first—Naibao's foreshadowing is deeply buried.As for those who are seriously suspicious, have a strong desire to control, and are capable and scheming, just refer to the Empress Dowager Bao.

Now the question is, what if we talk to strangers—which happens to all unmarried girls or women who are about to remarry—what to do?
This stranger is so cute and brings me such happiness, and his childhood misfortune, under the halo of love, in the female tenderness, kindness, tolerance and love written in the genes, in the fact that I can save him, I am charming Touching his vanity, this is simply a bonus, not a vigilance.

If she talks to a stranger, Qu Xiaoyao won't start the prelude at the beginning, even if she takes the lead, she will have all kinds of tricks to get away; if it's Andy, she has a very smart mind, and The madness of burning jade and rock together; what about Guanguan, this good boy who will soften his heart when facing his friends, and the good girl who will not agree to his mother when she uses the family card to interfere in her life-even if she resists, she will soften her body and curve to save the country. When facing the bottom line, there is the determination and cruelty of a strong man to cut his wrists and gouge out his flesh to heal his sores.Although she knew that Naibao was a fake stepmother and real mother, and even though she knew that Naibao couldn't stand female mistresses, she was still worried about Guan Guan.

In the end, I actually don’t want Xiao Xie to come to that point. Based on his experience, if a good woman like Tong Guanguan completely collapses, I don’t think he can find family happiness—the most important thing is, I’m afraid He himself would not have believed that he could find any confidence in women.

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