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Chapter 299 Can You Love Him Forever?

Luo Weiwei has been in a daze since school was over.

Brother Xiao Ding visited her twice with the pretext of borrowing something, but she didn't say a word.

There are some things that she can't explain clearly, how can she tell others?

"What do you want to eat tonight?" Ruan Yujuan opened the door and came in. Seeing Luo Weiwei sitting beside the bed in a daze, she didn't even need psychology, so she instinctively told her: Luo Weiwei has something on her mind.

"casual."

Luo Weiwei replied without any effort, and lay on the bed with her head up, covering her face with a pillow, the intention of chasing someone was obvious.

Ruan Yujuan didn't leave, she walked over and sat down next to Luo Weiwei, she was silent for a while before she said, "How long has it been since the two of us sat down and had a good chat?"

Luo Weiwei didn't move or speak, but she answered in her mind: It's been a long, long time, so long that she can't remember it.

Ruan Yujuan seemed to be self-conscious, and continued: "When I was in the south, your father beat and scolded me every day, and sometimes he would even hit you when he drank too much... After I got divorced, I was thinking, who should I marry?" Anything is fine, as long as it can protect you well. But unexpectedly, I was still wrong."

Luo Weiwei pressed the hand on the pillow and moved.

Ruan Yujuan put her elbows on her thighs, crossed her hands, laughed at herself, and said: "If you don't give you a relatively qualified father, you will be happy. I should have married no one at the beginning, so I took you with me. The two of us If you depend on each other for life...it won't be until now, you don't want to say a word to me even if you have something on your mind."

Ruan Yujuan is worthy of being a psychiatrist, finding an entry point is always a fatal blow.

The most sensitive point in Luo Weiwei's heart was the darkest days of their mother and daughter.

She swallowed a mouthful of sour saliva, sat up from the bed, hugged the pillow with both hands and said, "Don't talk nice things about me, don't think I don't know, you wanted to leave me at first."

Ruan Yujuan was startled and clenched her hands tightly.

She realized that her reaction was a little big, and quickly let go of her hand, and said angrily, "What nonsense are you talking about?"

Luo Weiwei pursed her lips, and spoke a few seconds later: "You know if I'm talking nonsense or not. I heard everything you said to grandma back then."

Ruan Yujuan was speechless for a moment, and it took a while to explain: "I didn't want you, but your grandmother suggested that... and she has passed away now, so why are you suddenly bringing up things in the past?"

"I didn't mean to blame you." Luo Weiwei turned her eyes away and said, "If you really left me at the beginning, I would understand you. I won't blame you."

Ruan Yujuan opened her mouth, and when she saw Luo Weiwei who had no expression on her face, she suddenly panicked.It seems that at some point, the distance between her and her biological daughter has become farther and farther...

"Weiwei, mom actually..."

"Stop talking." Luo Weiwei interrupted her and said, "I have a professional question to ask you."

No one is willing to bring up too heavy topics, Ruan Yujuan suppressed the words in her heart and asked, "What is it?"

Luo Weiwei licked her chapped lips, and asked nervously and seriously: "What are the differences between patients with post-traumatic stress disorder and normal people?"

Ruan Yujuan asked strangely: "Why did you suddenly ask this?"

"I have a friend..." Luo Weiwei said hesitantly: "He has this disease, but he is much better now. It's just that I suddenly discovered recently that he is still a little different from us."

Ruan Yujuan nodded. When it came to psychological matters, she subconsciously became serious and asked, "What are the different ways of expressing it?"

Luo Weiwei didn't know whether to say it or not, but Ruan Yujuan couldn't make up her mind, so she picked up half of it and said it.

"It's just... obviously a trivial matter. He is very exaggerated. I think it seems a bit similar to violent tendencies."

Ruan Yujuan frowned, said "Hey", and said: "Then his condition is already quite serious. Generally speaking, patients with this disease only show avoidance and numbness to things given by the outside world. For example, he It is difficult to fall into a new relationship, whether it is love or friendship, it is difficult for him to accept new relationships. If, as you said, the tendency to violence is so serious, maybe it has something to do with the trauma he suffered? Your friend is What's wrong with it?"

Luo Weiwei replied honestly: "Because my parents passed away unexpectedly, a pure accident."

Ruan Yujuan was taken aback, then suddenly looked at Luo Weiwei, and said after a few seconds, "The friend you mentioned is Fan Yihang, right?"

For a moment, Luo Weiwei didn't know whether to admit it or deny it.

Ruan Yujuan stood up and said, "Don't hide it, I knew about Fan Yihang before. Therefore, I oppose you not only because you should not think about these at your age, but also because of this issue."

"but he……"

"You don't need to say too much. After I had contact with him last time, I also knew what kind of child he was."

Luo Weiwei curled her lips, and didn't deny it, and said directly: "Then you should be clear, he is not the kind of person who tends to be violent. But today... It should be said that he was trying to help me, and he suddenly became very scared to me. "

Ruan Yujuan said affirmatively: "Then he has entered into hyperarousal symptoms."

"What does it mean?"

Ruan Yujuan explained: "Most people with post-traumatic stress disorder will suddenly have the scene of being hurt in their sleep or unintentional memories. After a long time, they are prone to over-arousal, frightened and angry."

Luo Weiwei nodded and shook her head.

Fan Yihang seems to be a little angry easily, but even if he is angry, he just talks less than usual and is more unreasonable than usual.

Ruan Yujuan continued: "I think Fan Yihang is a very calm person, but this does not mean that he is not easy to get angry. I read a book that said that severe patients sometimes self-destruct. behaviors, and even... hurt others. So Weiwei, although this child looks good in all aspects, as your mother, or just as a person who has studied psychology, no matter whether you are still a student or not, I don’t care. It is not recommended that you get too close to him."

Luo Weiwei frowned: "Even so, this kind of situation rarely happens to him, and he only saw me being bullied today."

She was still helping Fan Yihang in what she said, of course Ruan Yujuan could hear it.

Ruan Yujuan looked at her, and asked seriously, "Then let me ask you, are you sure you can love him forever?"

"What do you mean?"

"Patients like him are most afraid of experiencing secondary injury. It's okay if he doesn't like you very much, but if he likes you very much, but you can't be with him for the rest of his life, it's easy to hurt him. It’s also very easy to injure yourself.”

"To myself?"

Ruan Yujuan nodded: "He may do some reckless and abnormal things in order not to lose you. If you are with him, you must promise never to leave him. This is good for you and him. But if No, don't approach him in the first place."

(End of this chapter)