Sweet Marriage Dangerous Love: Tang Shao, don't mess around

Chapter 146 The so-called friend

"What's the matter? Didn't you enjoy dinner?"

Tang Yifeng frowned slightly and looked at Su Nuannuan. He sacrificed the dinner with her and gave up her time. His original intention was to let her have more contact with the crowd and free her from the boring two-point life at school and home. It was to make her happy, not to make her feel bad.

"It's not unpleasant. Everyone is very warm to me, but it's just too warm, which makes me a little uncomfortable. Everyone is smiling at me, but I can't tell which one is sincere. There are other thoughts hidden behind someone's smile."

Tang Yifeng smiled and stretched out his hand to rub her head, "I was shocked, I thought it was because someone spoke badly and made you unhappy, so it was because of this!"

"Is this a trivial matter in your opinion, and it's not worth my distress at all?" Su Nuannuan looked sideways at Tang Yifeng, whether the environment he grew up in was like this, so he was used to it.

"It's indeed an hour, and it's not worth your sorrow. Think about it, does it matter to you whether other people's smiles are genuine or fake? What can it affect you? No matter what calculations they have in mind, you just care about it." Live according to your own mood, not to mention that they didn’t make a request, even if they did, the law stipulates that you must meet their request? It’s not that you can help if you want, and you don’t help if you don’t want to. Your status and status Put it here, even if you refuse, what can they do to you?"

"It's true to say that, but they are all classmates. If they really want to say it, I don't think I can refuse it. Moreover, if it is a request from a very good classmate, it will be even more difficult to refuse."

Su Nuannuan has always been not very good at rejecting people, and she doesn't know what she is for, she just agrees to what she can agree to, if some requests make herself difficult, it's okay to make it difficult for herself, she always feels that she refuses Hurt others, as if you have done something sorry for others.

And it is precisely because of this that she is not willing to get too close to people, because she is afraid that after the relationship is close, the other party will make some request, and because she will not refuse, she will feel uncomfortable after reluctantly agreeing. Don't get in too much contact with people.

And this is also one of the main reasons why she later chose the job of coding. Although this job is hard, and sometimes the pay and rewards are not proportional, it has free time and does not need to maintain close relationships with too many people.

However, now that I'm going to change my job as a screenwriter, I thought that screenwriting is similar to writing novels. They are both writers, and they don't need to face too many people. As long as the quality and quantity are guaranteed, the manuscript will be delivered on time.

But it turns out that she is so naive. It turns out that the current screenwriters are already considered half of the entertainment industry. It turns out that screenwriting is also the selling point of a work, and it also needs to cooperate with the production company to do various promotions.

"Why do you feel embarrassed, why do you feel that you can't say no? What are you afraid of? Are you afraid that after you refuse, the other party will not be your friend?"

Tang Yifeng's deep voice rang in Su Nuannuan's ears. She bit her lip, carefully analyzed her state of mind, and finally nodded.

Tang Yifeng was right, the reason why she didn't dare to refuse was because she was afraid of hurting her relationship, because she was afraid that her good friends would end up in a tangle because of this.

"Then let me tell you, a real friend will never have a relationship with you because of your rejection, and even at the beginning, she will not ask you to embarrass you."

Tang Yifeng paused slightly, seeing Su Nuannuan frowned, with a thoughtful expression on his face, so he said again, "Do you know what a friend is? A friend is someone who will stab each other when they are in trouble , but at the same time she is very clear about each other's positioning, knows what kind of distance to keep, and respects any decision made by the other party, and she will never trouble her friends about things within her own ability, because she knows , the friendship between friends is very precious, and it is not worth wasting it indiscriminately."

"But." Su Nuannuan subconsciously wanted to refute, but after saying these two words, she didn't know what to say.

"Now you may think that what I said is a bit too cruel, and you may even think, if this is the case, why make friends? Or how many friends can do this? But in the future, when you have a real Friends, you will understand what I said today. Moreover, the so-called friends, a person may only have one or two in a lifetime. Friends are rare, so we must cherish them, but the so-called cherishing is not for maintaining mutual friendship. Blindly compromise and give in, you remember one sentence, it will make you embarrassed, it is definitely not a friend, since it is not a friend, so what if you abandon it?"

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What Tang Yifeng said completely overturned Su Nuannuan's understanding of the word "friend". She lowered her head, thinking about Tang Yifeng's words over and over in her mind.

Seeing the serious expression of the little woman beside him, Tang Yifeng smiled slightly, reached out and rubbed her head again.

"It doesn't matter if you don't understand it for a while, you will gradually know how to deal with interpersonal relationships in the future. The relationship between people, whether close or distant, requires you to spend a lot of time studying and observing. It’s not about learning, you can figure it out by shutting yourself in a study.”

Tang Yifeng knows Su Nuannuan's personality too well. She is a master who is afraid of trouble. She thinks that interpersonal relationships are too complicated, so find a job that doesn't require much contact with people. If she and him don't get together, he is not Tang. If she is the president of the Tang Corporation, and she is not the wife of the president of the Tang Corporation, then he is willing to fulfill her petty willfulness, protect her under his wings, and never experience the wind and rain outside for the rest of his life.

But the current factual situation does not allow him to do so. She will definitely stand by his side in the future, shoulder her due responsibilities, and face all the praise and belittling from the outside world. The only thing he can do for her now is to give She time, let her grow up slowly.

Forcing Su Nuannuan, who has nothing to do with the world and is extremely satisfied with her small comfort zone, to get out of her comfort zone and adapt to the entertainment and business circles where the weak eat the strong, which makes Tang Yifeng feel very guilty. .

But no matter how guilty you are, you still have to do what you should do, and you still have to bear the responsibility you should bear.

"Brother Feng, does it make you feel tired that I am so indecisive?" Su Nuannuan thinks that she is not a smart person, but no matter how smart she is, she can also sense that Tang Yifeng always has intentions when he is with her. Inadvertently instilling some ideas in her.

She knew that he wanted to use this subtle way to adapt herself to their circle as soon as possible. However, she has lived like this for almost 30 years, and many thoughts are deeply rooted in her heart. Some concepts are not hers. If you want to reverse it, you can successfully reverse it.

Tang Yifeng hugged Su Nuannuan, lowered his head and kissed her gently on the forehead. "I'm not tired, I like you, I just like everything about you, whether it's good or bad, it's all cute in my eyes, in fact, I feel very sorry, because of my relationship, I want you to change So much, even let you do so many things you don't want to do, but we have no choice. In this position, if we don't compete with the world, it means that we will have nothing. What we are fighting for now is not our personal money. And reputation, it belongs to our whole family, even the entire Tang Corporation, if we lose, the Tang family loses, the Tang Corporation loses, what about our family? What about the employees of Tang Corporation?"

Listening to Tang Yifeng sighing and saying this, Su Nuannuan felt pity for Tang Yifeng for the first time in her heart.

She suddenly thought of a term, the Engel coefficient, which was a term she learned in an economics class when she was still in school. The Engel coefficient is also called the happiness index. Economists link the happiness index to the amount of money. It shows that the larger the base of the Engel coefficient, that is to say, the more wealth a person owns, the lower the happiness index he feels, and he will be tortured by various pressures and responsibilities.

Isn't Tang Yifeng's current situation or the situation of most rich people in China like this?When the enterprise develops to a certain point, they seem to be kidnapped by wealth, and they can't retreat even if they want to, because they have so many responsibilities on them. If they quit, what will they do with so many families on their shoulders?
And this should be the reason why the wealthy family cares so much about the cultivation of successors. Only when qualified successors are trained can the burden on them be transferred, and they can live purely for themselves.

When the two were talking, they had already returned to the apartment. After Tang Yifeng let the driver leave, he personally carried Su Nuannuan's big backpack and led her upstairs.

As soon as he entered the room, Tang Yifeng went to the kitchen. Su Nuannuan thought he was going to pour water, so he didn't care. It wasn't until he smelled the fragrance wafting from the kitchen that he realized that he was cooking.

She was about to stand up and go to the kitchen to have a look, when Tang Yifeng came out with two bowls of shredded pork noodles with vegetables.

He put two bowls of noodles on the tea table, and called Su Nuannuan who was sitting on the sofa to eat quickly.

Su Nuannuan moved to sit down in front of Tang Yifeng, and asked, "You haven't eaten yet, have you?"

"Eat it, even if you're not here, I don't feel good eating it. I only took a few bites, and I'm hungry again right now."

Tang Yifeng smiled brightly at Su Nuannuan, and handed her the chopsticks and spoon in his hand.

"At the dinner, you are the one who treats the guests, so you must not be full, come on, hurry up and eat some more with me!"

Su Nuannuan took the chopsticks and spoon, and glared at the man opposite, "You say that you don't eat good food, but want to eat noodles in clear soup. Do you think you have a tendency to be abused?"

(End of this chapter)