Return to the Red Chamber: Jia Min Xiuxian

Chapter 81 Goodbye Xingyin at Hanshan Temple (5)
She originally wanted to be selected into the palace so that one day she could climb to a high position, but she failed in the draft, so she could only rely on the Jia family.It is said that she does not have a noble backbone because she wants to support the Xue family. If she doesn't care about it, the Xue family may have been defeated long ago.She can't let the Xue family fall, she can only support it with what she can do.She is different from Daiyu.

Daiyu was the only daughter of the Lin family in her previous life. Even if Daiyu wanted to support her, she could not do anything, because even if she made the Lin family flourish, once she married, the Lin family would be empty and completely ruined.What's more, it's not up to Daiyu to decide who she wants to marry, she can only listen to the arrangement of the Jia family, and she can't make the decision at all, so Daiyu just needs to take care of herself.She doesn't have to think so long-term, and on weekdays, her life in Jia's mansion is nothing but romance.Therefore, Daiyu can maintain the nobility and purity of her scholars.

But Baochai is different.First of all, Baochai has an older brother, and the Xue family has to pass it on, so they can't be defeated, they have to stand up.Unlike Daiyu, who can feed the whole family by herself, she has to take care of the whole family.If she wanted the Xue family to continue to pass on after she got married, she had to support it.And my mother and brother have no skills, so I can only rely on her.

Another point is that Baochai's marriage is in the hands of her own family.If the Xue family is prosperous, she can naturally marry a relatively better family.In the future, I will have to support my mother's family.If the Xue family is in decline, then they can only let others pick themselves.Her marriage is still a matter of choice within a certain range.From this point of view, the Xue family cannot be defeated.

As for Baochai's marriage to Jia Baoyu, it was not up to her to decide.If there were other choices, she would definitely not choose Baoyu.A dude like Baoyu who has no self-motivation and responsibility and only knows how to eat, drink and hang out in the flowers is definitely not her best target.Just look at her poems.The sentence "good wind sends me to Qingyun by force" perfectly interprets her self-motivated spirit.In addition, she persuaded Baoyu to study hard from time to time, so it can be seen that she looked down on Baoyu for not being motivated.It's just that she can't help it.

In fact, in Jia Min's view, even Baochai is not worthy of Baoyu.This is not to say that his status is not worthy, but that he will make Baochai's pearl dust.If Baochai finds an ordinary person to marry, becomes an official's wife, or even a merchant, on the one hand, she can urge her husband to make progress, and on the other hand, she can take charge of the family business. She is definitely a good and virtuous wife.It just depends on how she is kind to others when she is in charge, she can definitely establish a good relationship with those wives in the officialdom, and pave the way for her husband's Qingyun road.It's a pity that Baochai's ability is married to Jia Baoyu's broken stone.

As for Mrs. Xue, she really doesn't look like Mrs. Wang's younger sister. She has no idea when things happen, and Mrs. Wang decides everything. In the end, Mrs. Wang calculated and counted money for Mrs. Wang. She doesn't have Mrs. Wang's character at all.I can only rely on Mrs. Wang.

Her biggest mistake was to spoil Xue Pan indiscriminately, and spoiled Xue Pan so much that he didn't know how high he was, causing trouble.As a mother, she is far worse than that in front of Baochai, and she has no ability at all.

As for Master Xue, Jia Min doesn't know.She just felt that Master Xue was also unclear.No matter how good the daughter is, no matter how disappointed she is with her son, she can't just care about her daughter and ignore her son.You have to know that whether your daughter can stand in her mother's family in the future depends on her mother's family. Just to make her life more comfortable in the future, she should also teach her son well, at least to be able to keep up, so that the family will not be ruined.

What's more, he only has this one son, and he will rely on Xue Pan to inherit the lineage in the future. Even the future of the Xue family will be handed over to Xue Pan. The daughter will marry one day, and no matter how capable she is, she can't let it go. Are you staying with your mother's house?Whether the Xue family can prosper in the future depends entirely on the son.You can't just ignore your son if he doesn't succeed, let your wife spoil you like a playboy, and feel uncomfortable if you don't cause trouble all day long.If things go on like this, when Baochai gets married, who will the Xue family be handed over to?
What's more, no matter how capable Baochai is, she is a woman after all, and she can't interfere in many outside affairs.You can't show your face at will.For example, the Xue family is a businessman, and the shop is their entire net worth.As a woman, Baochai cannot go to the shop to check, which gives those dishonest servants a good opportunity to embezzle and hide.If no one supervises them for a long time, those who work will sooner or later give birth to a second heart, and the Xue family can only slowly decline.

So, Master Xue really doesn't have a long-term vision, doesn't think about the family, only cares about his own preferences.

For a family, if the decision-maker cannot see the long-term, the family will fail sooner or later.Especially in this day and age.It's no wonder that Xue's family will go downhill, and they can only hold on to Jia's house tightly.

In fact, in terms of this point, why not the Jia family?The Jia family in the previous life is a good example.In Jia's mansion, after Jia Daishan's death, the highest decision-maker was Jia's mother. She was a person who didn't have much long-term insight but felt good about herself. After being sent to the palace, Jia Zhen's son Jia Rong was asked to marry Qin Keqing in order to establish a relationship with the royal family.

Later, in order to promote Yuanchun to the throne, Qin Keqing was murdered, and Jia's mansion really entered the prosperity of cooking oil with flowers and brocades.As everyone knows, after a hundred flowers bloom, they will wither and wither.

There is also the Grand View Garden, which was originally built as a family-saving villa. Although it was to welcome the imperial concubine, it was too extravagant.As everyone knows, the national treasury is empty, but her family is so ostentatious, but her family does not have a deep foundation. If there is no gray income, how can such a rich family background come from?Just looking at this, one knows that the Lin family's wealth must have been taken.After all, the royal family knows how rich the Lin family is.Without the financial resources of the Lin family, the Jia family would never have been able to build such a family-saving villa.This is a blatant pull of hatred.If the royal family doesn't make noise, I'm sorry for their troubles.

Speaking of Qin Keqing, it is said that this Qin Keqing is probably the exiled daughter of the deposed prince.Of course, this is not without basis.Because there are many objects in Qin Keqing's room that only the royal family can appear.

At the beginning, Mother Jia let Jia Rong marry Qin Keqing, the daughter of the emperor's most beloved son, just to get on line with the royal family, but she didn't expect that the prince would be pulled down from the horse. This pawn is useless.

When the new emperor came to the throne, he thought that she was the daughter of the new emperor's political opponent. He wanted to use this to invite favors, so he asked Jia Yuanchun to inform the new emperor, and quietly killed Qin Keqing, so that Jia Yuanchun was promoted.

But what Jia's mother didn't count was that even if they were political enemies, they were still members of the royal family. Royal people were the most protective. Even if he didn't like it, he couldn't allow outsiders to bully him, just like Emperor Kangxi did to Concubine De now.Even if he doesn't like the fourth elder brother very much, he is still his son, he is the son of a dragon, and he cannot be allowed to be bullied by a concubine De who comes from a humble background.

(End of this chapter)