Nine-fold lotus of the famous family

Chapter 640 The Grand Finale (7)
Brother Yu is still so young now, his future is full of possibilities, and he cannot deny everything just because of his current situation. There is still a long way to go in the future, and no one knows what he will become. His correct guidance is very necessary.

"How does Aunt Dongfang treat her children? Is she also blindly pampering her?"

Ji Chonglian knew that Jiang Yinlan was a very assertive woman, but Mrs. Dongfang also attached great importance to her grandson, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often had disputes over the child's upbringing, but she was not surprised that Jiang Yinlan was able to guard her child , was not hugged by Mrs. Dongfang to raise her.

"That's not true," Jiang Yinlan wiped her tears, raised her head and said, "My mother-in-law loves brother Yu very much, but I hope he can slowly learn to be sensible on his own. We have quarreled countless times over this. .”

Jiang Yinlan stroked her forehead with a headache, for example, let Brother Yu learn to walk, a child of his age should have been able to walk and run, but he has always been in the arms of the nanny, it's not that he can't walk, it's his grandmother Don't let him go, ever since seeing him fall and hurt while learning to walk, her mother-in-law has been in a hurry with her.

How could the child's toddler not be knocked and broken, and she, a mother, would naturally feel distressed when Brother Yu was injured, but she knew that this was a necessary journey.

Brother Yu is already thinner than other children. This is his natural physique. They have also tried countless conditioning methods and precious medicinal materials, but they still can't change the fundamentals.

She thought that at least he could learn something slowly in other aspects. If he left everything to others, he would only be a waste in the future who had to rely on others to help him even eat, walk and dress.

And how could her Jiang Yinlan's son be a waste?

She and her mother-in-law have experienced countless quarrels about the children. At first she was able to argue with reason, but in the end she also got tired, so she simply let her mother-in-law go.

Jiang Yinlan told Ji Chonglian about all kinds of things in the mansion in detail, about how her mother-in-law opposed her to raise the children, so that now she is always surrounded by her mother-in-law's eyeliner, if she is a little out of line, I am afraid it will trigger another war , not to mention that the nanny was sent by her mother-in-law. Brother Yu is only pestering the nanny now, and even her biological mother has to stay behind. This is the most headache for her.

After all, Mrs. Dongfang is Jiang Yinlan's mother-in-law and Dongfang Tou's mother. Even if her various actions are inappropriate, the starting point must be for the sake of the child, thinking that the child will grow up according to her ideas. It cannot be said that she is wrong, but Her method is not beneficial to the child.

Thinking of this, Ji Chonglian couldn't help asking: "Have you tried talking to your mother-in-law?"

Jiang Yinlan shook her head, with a sad expression on her face, "What are you talking about? Whenever she said that the child couldn't understand three sentences, she would be anxious with me, which made me dizzy. Every time I came back from such exhaustion , I really don’t know what else to say to her.”

Ji Chonglian thought about it: "Then have you thought about bringing the child back to her natal family?"

After all, Jiang Yinlan is a married daughter-in-law. As long as Mrs. Dongfang is in charge of the family, she can't help but have the final say in this family. She can keep the child by her side to take care of, but she can't escape her mother-in-law's eyeliner and pressure. It's no good for her or the baby.

"Bring it back to...my mother's house..."

Jiang Yinlan was startled, chewing these words carefully, her eyes suddenly brightened.

Yes, why didn't she think of it?

After being consumed by these trivial matters, she even became confused.

She could find an excuse to go back to her mother's house, and of course she had to bring her nanny with her. In Jiang's house, her mother-in-law had the final say.

She can slowly let Brother Yu get rid of his dependence on the nanny, and teach him to walk and talk.

Even if the mother-in-law wants to come and rob someone, she can still communicate with her father and brother first. There are so many Zhuangzi in the Jiang family scattered all over the place, so it is good for her to take her children to practice, live in one place for a while, or see some place If it is suitable to buy a new residence, I can't let my mother-in-law find it.

When she straightens Brother Yu and comes back to this house, no matter how much her mother-in-law dotes on him, those formed habits will not be easily changed, besides, she will be watching from the sidelines.

What she needs now is a place where her mother-in-law is not watching at all times and can interfere with her at any time.

She will write to Dongfang Tou about this matter. She is a mother and she has her own way of raising children. I believe he will agree with her.

Waiting for Brother Yu to stand in front of all of them obediently and sensiblely, who can say that her upbringing was unsuccessful?
The more Jiang Yinlan thought about it, the more excited she became, she couldn't help but clenched Ji Chonglian's hand, and said gratefully: "Thank you Chonglian, you taught me what to do, if only you could come back sooner, I won't... ..." After saying this, Jiang Yinlan suddenly stopped, knowing that she had made a slip of the tongue, she couldn't help apologizing: "I didn't mean that, you and Mr. Pei finally got together, I..."

"It's okay, I know."

Ji Chonglian patted Jiang Yinlan's hand with a smile, "If you want to go back to your mother's house, you should make a plan as soon as possible. You are so smart, so I don't need to teach you what to do in the future!"

"Well, I've already thought about it."

Jiang Yinlan nodded, and became confident again in an instant.

Ji Chonglian nodded with a smile, this is the Jiang Yinlan she knew, that gorgeous and confident woman.

But thinking that after leaving here today, she will avoid Mrs. Dongfang for a while. Although she thinks that she did the right thing, she did it against Mrs. Dongfang once from Jiang Yinlan's standpoint. If someone becomes stubborn , this misunderstanding cannot be cleared up in a few words.

I can only hope that Jiang Yinlan's precepts and deeds can reshape Brother Yu, until the results are achieved, Mrs. Dongfang will know that everything they have done today is the right decision!

About ten days later, Ji Chonglian learned about the development of the subsequent situation from Ye Jinyu.

I heard that Dongfang's mansion is already turned on their backs, but fortunately Mrs. Dongfang is very strict in running the family, and there is no gossip in Shangjing City. It is only when Mrs. Ye's mother and daughter visit that they know the whole story.

After Ji Chonglian's visit that day, Jiang Yinlan remained on hold, and returned to her mother's house three days later, saying that she wanted to take Brother Yu to stay for a few days before returning.

It's understandable that Jiang Yinlan misses her natal relatives without her husband by her side. Besides, brother Yu is still Jiang Ge's grandson, and it's okay for her grandfather to keep them and their mother here.

Mrs. Dongfang felt relieved, but a few days later, the carriage from Dongfang Mansion was going to Jiang Mansion to pick up people, but unexpectedly Jiang Yinlan's mother and son were not found. Elder Jiang Ge also practiced Tai Chi, saying that their mother and son had gone outside the city to relax. , he didn't know exactly which Zhuangzi he went to.

(End of this chapter)