Mrs. Lu is a sensation in the city every day

Chapter 261
Although my parents didn't have much time to participate when I was young, my mother always said that you have to work hard for what kind of person you want to be, and you must not just because your parents like you Whatever you become, you will become that way. At that time, my mother did not have any requirements for herself. What she hopes most is that her child can have a good future, so that she can feel that her child is constantly improving. Growing up and making continuous progress is the state I need.

Because when my parents were very young, I knew what I wanted to be. At that time, my mother was always supportive of me, and she was always my number one fan. What I wanted to do in the past I was in business, because my father was always worried about whether he could not bear the consequences of a wrong investment at a young age, and he once asked.

But my mother has always supported and supported me, and the reason is very simple. A person will always make mistakes in his life. It's a very good feeling to understand one's own mistakes in the midst of mistakes, at least to the extent that it makes people feel happy.

So my parents supported me unconditionally at that time, and even some of them never asked too much about many things about me.

You just have to do it, and you don’t need to explain too much to them, because at that time they feel that even if they tell themselves, they probably don’t understand it very well. nothing.

That is, when I actually feel in my heart that I must treat my children, I cannot give my dreams to my children, because a person's life should be decided by himself, if his parents change his mind , in fact, when I get old, I will complain more or less to my parents. After all, everyone has their own ideas and wants a better way of life, and they all want to prove themselves people.

And many parents actually need to learn to let go of their hands and let their children learn something. Sometimes because you keep your children by your side all the time, and even plan all the routes, Maybe the child still doesn't follow his own route in the end, or even a person or an event may make your child feel that he doesn't want to be close to you, and then he will really regret it.

But sometimes Lu Yan feels that he actually has some good memories of his parents. If his parents hadn’t made such a choice, he wouldn’t be who he is now. I always thought that it was good for other students’ families to control them, because it made me feel like I was valued. In fact, now that I think about it, those children should be very envious of my life.

After all, I have decided everything by myself from the very beginning, even some big things, as long as I have decided, it means that my parents will never say a bad word, and it will be very difficult. Recognize their own ideas, even sometimes they have the ideas they need for themselves, but not everyone is the same as themselves because they can express their own ideas because they have their own ideas. Some of my good friends really don't have this opportunity.

In the past, I thought it was my parents who didn’t have time to take care of me. After all, to others, my parents are very busy busy people. If I have time, it’s not right. They rarely appeared together, and my friends at the time also said that maybe this was a benefit.

But now that I have a child, what I want to do most is to give my child enough only so that my child can realize all his dreams, and many times I hope that my child can have all Talk to yourself about everything.

I don’t have to point fingers, but I want to know what my children are thinking, so that at least when I am with my children, I won’t feel like I am with my parents. I think it’s fine as long as it’s not like this .

In the past, what I was most worried about was that I could not manage well when I had children, because I felt that the job of being a parent was really difficult.Because many times what you do is not necessarily right, but you also understand that everything in the world cannot be determined right or wrong, so what you need for yourself is actually to keep trying.

In the beginning, after his son left on Gu Molian's side, his mental state was not right for a few days, and he always missed his son. After all, his son is so cute It's impossible not to think about it.

In addition, my son himself has been watching all the time. These days, I thought that the filming process really took a lot of time. Almost all of them were unable to leave in this crew, and then they couldn’t pick up the child. The main reason was that they took over In fact, I didn't say time to take care of it, because I have been following it all the time.

Lu Yan here can only take the child by himself, because if he does not take the child, the child has learned to speak now, and everything else is fine. Maybe other parents are worried that their child will be abducted. But what I am worried about is that my child is fooling others.

The brain is so fast at such a young age that people don't know what this young age is thinking. It seems that as long as you say a word or something to him, this child can immediately remember it. The kind of thing that will be forgotten is indeed a very surprising feeling, after all, in my heart, I rarely think that children can be so smart.

It made people feel a little unbelievable, especially those employees who followed him, because these people who were not young were deceived by this child because they sometimes felt that their brains were not good enough.

At this time, the little thing was actually very worried about his father because he said that every time he did something wrong, the first thing he did was to apologize to his father. It was so sincere that Lu Yan really didn't know what to say. it is good.

It's even more so now that he can talk and walk. That's how Lu Yan looked and felt that his child didn't want to do anything, otherwise he really couldn't hold it anymore.

(End of this chapter)