Hand in hand with the World Bank

Chapter 804
"Han Xiaochen, what's wrong with you? Why do you have such big opinions on men?
But well, people's hearts are unpredictable, and the people next to my pillow may not be able to fully believe it, do I understand this?

But my dear Han Xiaochen, please don't be so pessimistic, and don't target men like this.

In fact, if you want to say that life is miserable, are you as miserable as I am?
I was nearly kicked out of school by my parents when I was 15, you know?At that time, my dad forced me to drop out of school and beat me severely, even took his foot to chop my face, you know?
But even then I persevered desperately and went to work outside to earn tuition for myself. Do you know how I survived at that time?
do you know?Since I was a child, my parents had long-term quarrels, long-term domestic violence, and even my father's domestic violence was terrible.

Do you know how domineering this is?That's the rhythm in which I feel that in that house, he might kill him in the next second.

At that time, I kept thinking about tree moving, people

When he died, he desperately wanted to escape from his original family.

do you know?Since I was a child, I witnessed my father beat my mother cruelly, and I was often beaten by him.

But I was young at that time, and when I advised my mother to divorce, my mother not only disagreed, but also told my father, and then they played mixed doubles.

But I don't have a memory, and when I saw my mother being beaten badly by my father after this, I would still persuade her.

Thinking about it now, I think it's ridiculous, but even so, I have to tell you that there are actually happy marriages in the world.
My husband is very good to me, and I have many good friends. Their marriage is also very happy, and my husband cherishes them very much.

And at that time, especially after I had been cared for and protected by my husband for a long time, I realized that not all men in this world are so cruel, not so scary, not so untrustworthy.

In fact, it is good to have a lot of men, but of course, even so, it is better not to disclose things to anyone that should not be known by the other half.

Otherwise, let’s say that this person can’t challenge human nature. Since we are having a good time at this moment, why should we challenge the human form, and try to find out the particularly evil side of their human nature? "

Han Sitong sighed faintly, looked at Han Xiaochen who seemed to be quite depressed, and smiled slightly.

"Han Xiaochen, you know I like to watch dramas, and I watched the TV series about Mendi that day.

I think what Luo Shengli said in the finale is actually quite reasonable.As for that Luo Shengli said at the time:

"In this society, according to the amount of wealth, there are many classes. No matter for which class, this money is a magic mirror. As long as you are curious to take a look at it, you can see those people.

The so-called filth hidden under the beautiful appearance."

In fact, if you think about it carefully, isn't that the truth?It's rare for this person to be confused, but he should be on guard where he should be.

Only in this way can you live happily. My dear God is not particularly harsh on you, and is even very friendly to you.

It's just that there is no such thing as a free lunch in this world. Everyone has their own last resort, which is normal.

And we are born as human beings, in fact, which one is not selfish?Can you guarantee that there are no selfish cells in yourself?
I don't know how you are, I know that I am actually quite selfish a lot of times, and sometimes I even have some small thoughts when I socialize with friends.

But so what, I never thought of harming them. Is it wrong to sometimes want to protect myself?

Even when my younger brother borrowed money from me, at that time, I was not a good person and I didn’t know my husband, and when I had money in my hand but clearly refused to lend it to him, was it wrong for me to go too far ?

But in fact, at that time, I was afraid that my brother would not pay me back, or that I didn't want to pay it back, so I refused to lend it to him.

I even feel that my parents value boys over girls, and I don’t want to lend him money if I have money. I feel that my relationship with him is weak, and I feel that he is not worth paying for me.

Do you think I'm wrong?In fact, I don't think I was wrong, but, I will be condemned by my brother, and I will feel that I am very selfish, and I will ignore him when he is in danger.

The same is true of my younger brother, although this person understands that when borrowing money from relatives and friends, it is a favor to lend it to you, and it is also a duty not to lend it to you.

But he didn't do it, he felt that I was sorry for him, and sometimes he would talk when I met him, and often sneered at me.

I don't like to hear that, and I often lose my temper, but, sometimes I think about how ridiculous I was doing at that time.

"Han Sitong, don't lie to me. Don't worry, I understand everything. I think I have much more social experience than you.

But sometimes when I hear what happened to you, I feel distressed. You are your own parents, how can they bear it!

You are their first child, why do they treat you like that? You don't mean like..."

Like my class, I was born when my father raped my mother.

So my mother wanted to torture me. Although she said she hated it, she knew it in her heart.

But Han Sitong is not!Han Sitong's parents are officially in love, and Han Sitong is their first daughter.

Han Sitong seemed to be able to see what Han Xiaochen was thinking at this time?
"Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite. Let's be young. I have a friend who is the second child. He has an older sister above him and a younger brother below him. It stands to reason that their family is really patriarchal."

And his parents are nearly 20 years older than mine, so it's normal to say that people are old-minded and patriarchal.

But, I think my friend's parents and even his sister and brother are good to him.

Although there is a patriarchal situation, this life is much better than mine.

Sometimes I also think, maybe I am too stupid or have a bad mouth and can't make my parents happy.

Maybe it's really like what my parents scolded me, I'm really stupid and ignorant, my head will always be muddy, and I will never learn to be filial.

But later I saw the interaction between my friend and his parents, and I realized that, in fact, if my parents don’t like me, they just don’t like me. Sometimes it has nothing to do with men and women!
That friend of mine is much worse than me in studies, and what's more, he often loses his temper with his parents at home.

He doesn't do much housework, only his mother's three children, and all the housework falls on his mother.

However, when my classmate went out to play with me, his mother would secretly give money to his daughter, and I never had this kind of treatment since I was a child.

There are other families like that, and then I realized that, in fact, it’s not that my hometown has a tradition of patriarchy.

It can only be said that my parents value sons over daughters, or that my parents only value my younger brother and not me, this is the truth. "

When Han Sitong said this, his expression was quite calm, as if he was talking about other people.

"Han Sitong, it's all over now." Han Xiaochen suddenly felt sorry for himself, a young woman who thought she was always happy.

"Yeah, everything is over with Han Xiaochen. Let me tell you, I've been thinking about it for a long time. Besides, am I trying to persuade you? Why are you trying to persuade me instead?"

Han Sitong smiled lightly
(End of this chapter)