The last dragon ever

Chapter 426 Reasons for Unwillingness to Marry
When asked about married women, many people think that life after marriage is very hard.

"Before I got married, I was so comfortable. I could sleep late in the morning, and then get up to work on time. If it was too late, I could bring breakfast into the office. After get off work, I could go out on dates and watch movies. I really don't want to, a People stay at home watching videos and playing with mobile phones. Cooking? What can I do by myself, either takeaway or eat out with friends.”

"But it's different when you get married. At the beginning, when you don't have children, you can sleep late in the morning or something, but you can't do it when you have children. You have to set a good example and get up when the time comes. For Taking care of the children, you have to look around when you are looking for a job, and you must be able to send the children to school, so it is convenient to pick them up."

"My husband and I both go to work. One is for the house and the other is for daily expenses. We are tight. The children are sent to the kindergarten, sometimes by my husband, but most of them are picked up by me. I pass by the vegetable market to buy some food. Sometimes I buy from the supermarket, sometimes online. When I go home and let the kids watch TV, I cook quickly. When my husband comes back, we eat together. After dinner, he takes care of the kids, and I wash the dishes, clean up, and bathe the kids. , Throw the clothes you changed for the day into the washing machine..."

"When I get everything done, it's almost eleven o'clock, and I should go to bed after taking a shower."

"What does my husband do after get off work? Take care of the kids. He says he does, but he's just playing with his mobile phone while the kids are watching TV. How can he help? The kids always call me when they have something to do."

"Actually, I regret getting married. I don't know if there is something wrong with the man I found. He throws things around and asks me about everything. God knows where he threw them. The most annoying thing is that snacks or something will Take it to the bed, on the balcony, or at the computer desk to eat. Even though there is a trash can next to it, you don’t throw it in, just throw it on the table, and then wait for you to clean it up. The sanitation is cleaned up, and his garbage is picked up everywhere. Even when washing clothes, you have to find out where his clothes and socks are, otherwise, after washing, you will find a pair of socks that have not been washed. "

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According to their investigation, the two quickly listed the timetable of the women after marriage. It is not easy to list the women who do not go to work, but the women who work are very clear.

Get up at 7:00 in the morning, women start to make breakfast + coax the children to eat breakfast + wash up, men sleep late (a small number of men are still willing to get up to help, some go to work earlier, so they may have to go out at this time).

At 8:00 in the morning, the woman sends the child to the kindergarten, and then goes to work in the company.

Afternoon: 17:30 (some women get off work even later) When women come home from get off work, some of them have elderly people at home to help pick up their children, and some of them ask their neighbors.Bring vegetables through the supermarket and go home to cook dinner.

At 19:00 in the afternoon, dinner is finally ready (husband may come home from get off work around 18:00, and then sit on the sofa waiting for dinner, playing with his mobile phone while waiting), even if there are elderly people at home, the wife is embarrassed to let him The mother-in-law is working hard (and the husband will also have opinions), so she can only go to wash the pots and dishes by herself.After that, start cleaning.

What is your husband doing at this time?Play mobile phone, watch TV.

After cleaning, bathe the child (everyone in the family starts to rule out bathing).

What is your husband doing at this time?Play mobile phone, watch TV.

After everyone has washed, clean the bathroom (i.e. the bathroom), throw the changed clothes into the washing machine, and some of the clothes need to be washed by hand.

While the washing machine is washing clothes, play with the child for a while and put him to sleep.

What is your husband doing at this time?Play mobile phone, watch TV.

At this time, the time may already be 22:00 in the evening (if a family goes out for a walk or something, the cleaning will be delayed, and the time for the woman to finish everything will be delayed).

After solving the child, I can take a rest.At this time, my husband came.

Well, at night, there are only two husband and wife in the room, everyone understands...

This is the timetable for an office worker woman after she gets married. If it is a housewife, the time nodes before and after get off work are similar, and the things she is busy with are similar.It’s just that, unlike office workers, housewives have shifted the work of taking care of the children to themselves. Anyone who has taken care of children on weekends knows that children have unlimited energy except when they are sleeping, and they just want to play— —You have to play with him, which is a harder job than going to work.

During this period, housewives may do some housework while the children are sleeping, so I won’t explain it anymore.

In short, I feel that after a woman gets married, all the focus is on the family, children are the woman's work, and men don't have to worry about other things except work.

What does a timeline without marriage look like?

Sleep in at 7:00 in the morning, get up at work time, and go to work.

Get off work at 17:30 in the afternoon, invite friends to have dinner, go shopping, and watch movies.Even if you don't have an appointment, you can order a takeaway and lie lazily in the room without doing anything.

Said——Anyway, living alone, it doesn't matter if the sanitation is cleaned once a week, it doesn't have to be so hard.

How comfortable, how come.

Time is happy when you are with friends.When you are alone, your time is your own, you can do whatever you want, comfortable and at ease, and no one will disturb you.

Suddenly, Hu Ling and Hu Yin understood why Wizard Yun didn't want to get married.

The current Wizard Yun is not burdened by her family at all, and she has someone to take care of her life. Apart from the necessary work, she can do whatever she wants at other times.

If life after marriage is like that, even they don't want to get married.

"Wizard Yun, if your married life is just one more man, and nothing else has changed, would you be willing to get married?" Hu Ling asked her tentatively.

"There are tens of thousands of marriages, but how many marriages have you seen that are not like this? Marriage will inevitably have children. Once you have children, the focus of your life will naturally fall on the children. Everyone revolves around him... That's why many people think that being in love is so beautiful, why is it so different once you get married?" Yang Luyun smiled and shook her head, "I just saw through the true face of marriage in advance, so don't persuade me anymore, no matter what marriage is Look, that's not the life I want."

Hu Ling was a little unwilling: "Then what if the man does all the housework and doesn't even want children?"

Yang Luyun was helpless: "That's not love, it's a grievance. If it's just for a while, I can praise him as a man; but if it's for a lifetime, it's too pitiful. No woman deserves a man to do this. There are still many in our lives. What can be pursued, why bother about a woman?"

(End of this chapter)