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Chapter 18 What kind of girl can be like a fish in water in love

Knowing a girl, I personally witnessed her four relationships.

The girl is good-looking, with long and straight black hair, big eyes, a straight nose, and a naturally pointed chin. No matter how you look at it, she is a beauty.She is such a beauty, but her love life is not smooth at all.

The girl is a good girl, confident, independent, and capable of taking care of herself. She doesn't smoke, drink, look for a spare tire, or cheat.

But when a girl falls in love, it's like a different person, and she no longer has the confidence to be a beauty.

1. Girls are always insecure.

When a girl finds a boyfriend with better skin, she worries all day long whether he will fall in love with other girls; when she finds an average boyfriend, she worries about whether he will have a long-term relationship with a female colleague.Good or bad, she is 120 worried, and she is like a soldier, taking advantage of her boyfriend's words, digging through his things, always trying to find some evidence to prove that he really cheated on her.In two of her four relationships, she really forced her boyfriend to cheat.

2. The girl is too dependent on her boyfriend.

A girl wants to find a boyfriend for everything, if the water pipe is blocked, find a boyfriend; if the key is locked at home, find a boyfriend.In the past, she would do these things by herself, and if she couldn't, she would call a professional to solve them.Well, let’s forget about all of these, and when we fall in love, it’s like we don’t know anything anymore. "Honey, I'm going to ××, you can take me there" "Honey, I want to buy something, you can carry it for me", finding a boyfriend is like finding a father, big or small lump sum.

3. Girls are as clingy as pet dogs.

It's not cursing, it's really clingier than a pet dog.The first thing I do every day when I open my eyes is to say good morning to my boyfriend, and the last thing I do before going to bed is to say good night to my boyfriend.Not seeing each other for an hour or two is like every three autumns. It takes an hour to go shopping and you have to make two phone calls to your boyfriend.Wherever the boyfriend goes, he wants to follow him, wishing to tie himself to his belt 24 hours a day.

4. The girl only sees him.

Girls absolutely value sex over friends, hang out with friends when they are not in love, and don't know how to write the word "friend" when they are in love.She has no self, she only has him in her eyes, everything she does revolves around him, and he is in every step she takes.Her world became smaller, so she asked his world to become smaller too, and put her first in everything, and put her first in everything.

A good girl has these bad habits as soon as she falls in love. After experiencing the novelty at the beginning, the longer the time, the more her boyfriends can't stand her, and the more they stay away from her, the more insecure she will be, a vicious circle.

Did you say that the girl looks like a cat?It doesn't look like a proud cat, but it's obviously a dog that sticks to people and doesn't pay for its life!
Nobody likes a girl like that.There is a line in the lyrics that "What you can't get is always in turmoil". Only a girl like a cat can feel like a fish in water in a relationship.

So what should a girl who lives like a cat live like?
Confidence - Cats will never lose their natural arrogance just because they are stray cats or not purebred cats. They always look at humans with half-closed eyes, neither humble nor overbearing. (Voice over here: Stupid Human.)
Regardless of age, appearance, figure, education, family and other conditions, a girl must not be inferior; no matter how good the other party is, she must not be humbled into the dust in her relationship.Hold your head high, always have your own demeanor, and there will always be someone who will appreciate you.Only girls with confidence can get away with it.

Love to be clean - cats love to be clean and always try their best to keep themselves clean.

Since a girl is like a cat, naturally she can’t be sloppy. No matter how late she comes home, she has to take off her makeup to let her skin have a good rest; out of the kennel.Girls with a little cleanliness are the cutest.

Independence - Cats come and go freely, so they will not do what they don't want to do to please anyone. Even if humans are feeding them, they will not be obedient like dogs.

In a relationship, he is rich, powerful, and domineering. These are not the reasons for you to live for his joys and sorrows. If he is there, hug each other. If he is not, live your life well.Economic independence is only one aspect, spiritual independence is fundamental.Only by clinging to him from time to time can he be surprised and cherished. Don't be like a dog who wants to cling to another person 24 hours a day.

Ego—it is said that a cat is not well fed, its circle is not only in one room, and it will not lose the whole outside world for a home.

Falling in love is not about selling one’s life. You don’t need to put the other person first in everything. Dress up when you need to, travel when you need to travel, and hang out with friends when you need to hang out. No one can stop girls from having their own lives and pursuing self-worth. , Only a girl with pursuit, thought, and personality can dominate her own life.

Powerful - hard-eared, with a little stubborn spirit, and make yourself a solid backing.

Although it is not enough to be unaffected, but when you should not suffer or when the bottom line is repeatedly challenged, don't just compromise and wrong yourself.If he brought mistress to you, shouldn't he decisively shave his ears and leave with a flick of his hair?Don't be afraid of loss, don't be afraid of the future, grow up like a cat, so that you won't be bitten by a dog.

Girls can be confident and self-respecting, but not overwhelmed; they can be gentle and kind, but not cowardly;

Since it is said that girls are like cats, let us girls fight for a little bit and live like a cat!
(End of this chapter)