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Chapter 122 Name Your Surname
Chapter 122 Name Your Surname
Zhou Yu stared at me blankly, didn't speak for a long time, and when he opened his mouth, he said, "You have become who you were back then."
I frowned slightly, what was he talking about?
"When I first ran into you, you always had such a stern face, with only deep coldness in your eyes, and a business-like attitude towards everyone and everything, including me. So I say you are sophisticated, you Utilitarian, because you are no longer like the Jia Xiaoru I know. Later, there is warmth in your eyes, and softness behind your toughness. You will secretly look for the kid surnamed Zhang for Li You, and for the sake of you. I stayed up all night looking for the surveillance video. The more I got later, the more I felt relieved, thinking that I had finally warmed your heart, but it turned out that it only took one step to go from warm to cold."
The state of mind at this time is indescribable, and he really told me the journey of my heart.
Although I got the marriage certificate impulsively with him at the beginning, my heart was cold, and only a faint flame flickered.Because after four years, everything about him was both familiar and unfamiliar to me, and I couldn't open my heart to him because of that thorn in my heart.
Later, in the collision of life, there was friction and warmth, and gradually regained the feeling of the past, and my heart began to soften.Even though I often quarreled with him, I can see from the incident the integrity and sense of justice that he first made me appreciate.
There is no conflict between disagreeing with his values and admiring him for who he is.
Just like his enthusiastic attitude towards Li You, I would warn him to be too enthusiastic, but I approve of his behavior in my heart.
Xiao Dong said that he is the most suitable for me. We share the same values and ideas, and our personalities are similar, and there will be no friction in our work.It made sense at the time, but now that I think about it, it doesn't make sense.
That kind of life is too boring, nothing changes.There needs to be friction between two people to collide with sparks. Even if they quarrel occasionally, as long as it is not hurtful, it is the flavoring agent in married life.
If Zhou Yu and I are the only ones on this journey, then I have the belief that he can calm down his impetuousness, and he can also warm my heart.But it's impossible. There is no marriage with only two people. The many relationships around you, from relatives to friends, are the chain reaction that marriage brings to each other.
We were silent for a long time, sitting on the sofa with each other, thinking.When I raised my head, I saw Zhou Yu still looking lonely with his eyes downcast, and the gauze on his forehead was faintly red.
He frowned, is the wound cracked?Thinking of my original finger injury, I always tossed and tossed it over and over again, maybe his injury is like mine.
"Jia Xiaoru, when was your first obstetric examination?" Zhou Yu asked suddenly.
I was startled, but still responded: "Just these two days."
Only then did he look up, his black eyes were clear, but his eyes were firm: "I don't agree to give up the child's custody."
My heart shuddered, and I narrowed my eyes slightly. After thinking about it for so long, he wanted to compete with me for this child?
But his next sentence was: "I will not come to snatch you either."
I don't understand this, what does he mean?
Zhou Yu said: "I will participate in everything about the baby's future, ranging from his every life plan to every prenatal check-up you have. The baby is the crystallization of you and me, and it is owned within our marriage. I believe you are better than me." I am more aware of the legal implications, which I have the right to participate in."
I looked at him, gritted my teeth and said, "I won't remarry you because of the child."
If he has this idea, then I will kill this seedling in the cradle first.
But he said: "I didn't want to remarry you, but I just told you that I will participate in the whole process of raising the child. Let's start with your first maternity checkup. Then I will ask for leave and come to accompany you."
A little confused about his way, I frowned and looked at him for a while, "What is your plan?"
This matter can't just be muddied in such a muddled way, I must get a clear answer.
He said: "I have already told you my plan, and I will accompany you every time you have an obstetric examination in the future."
I shook my head and said: "I don't mean these things. When a baby is born, he needs to apply for a birth certificate, get a name, and register for a household registration after birth. These things seem far away, but they are actually very close. Pregnancy in October is just a general term, almost The baby will be full-term at 40 weeks, and I don't want to wait until later to make trouble with you, so I talked about everything that needs to be discussed in advance."
This time Zhou Yu was very straightforward, and only asked me: "Will you let the child bear your surname when it is born?"
I didn't think much about it, I only thought about the issue of custody.After thinking about it, I shook my head. It shouldn't be possible. Zhou Yu and Zhou Yu obtained the certificate through normal procedures. The baby I gave birth to will naturally follow the father's surname.Even if my mother has opinions, I can persuade them.
So I said, "No, I will give you your surname."
I don't know if it's my illusion, but Zhou Yu seemed relieved.I don't mind at all, it's normal for men to care about these things.
Then I heard him say: "That's fine, the child will take my surname, and the household registration will be under your name. As for the child's name, we will discuss it and decide on it. If there is anything else you feel uncertain about, tell me." gone."
He is the director of the police station, and he is more knowledgeable about household registration than I am. After getting the certificate, he moved my household registration to his.After the divorce this time, no one was in the mood to think about it, so it has been delayed until now.
Now that the issue of the child's household registration has been brought to the case, I pondered for a moment and said, "I'll go to the hospital for an obstetric examination tomorrow. After the examination is over, I will go to your police station and move my household registration out first. It will be easy for the child to obtain a household registration in the future. In addition, since you have decided to If you don't fight with me for the custody of the child, then draft and sign the agreement, so that you or your family will not have any disputes with me in the future."
This belongs to the self-awareness of lawyers, and everything is based on legal effects, so as to avoid future disputes.I also don't want to take it seriously that one day I will go to court with him because of the child, it's too ugly, and it will wipe out all that little friendship.
Zhou Yu nodded after being silent for a moment: "Okay, I'll pick you up tomorrow. Regarding the agreement, let me write it, and you can read it later."
I was stunned, I am a lawyer, shouldn't I draft the agreement?But since he agreed so readily, I have no reason to bother him about it.
It seems that everything that should be talked about here is over, and it is much smoother than I imagined.Except for the very beginning when he rushed to Xingshi to inquire about his crimes, he behaved rationally and communicated afterwards.It seems that since the divorce, he has become a lot more mature than before. In fact, who is not? After one incident, he has more life experience, how can he stay in the same place forever.
I got up when I saw that it was almost done, and said to the human who was still sitting on the sofa: "Then come here today, come here a little earlier tomorrow, maybe the hospital will have to queue up. Also, don't forget to bring your household registration book."
After going through the divorce procedures last time, he put away the account book, so it should be at his home.
He also recognized my eviction order, got up with a embarrassed expression, walked two steps and then turned his head, "It's so late, can't you let me spend the night on the sofa?"
The clock on the wall pointed to eleven o'clock in the evening, and it was very dark outside the window, but I shook my head at him: "No."
He still wanted to encourage me: "I also slept on this sofa before, it won't affect you."
I said, "One moment, another moment, no."
He slept on the sofa and was depressed before we divorced. No one still lives under the same roof after the divorce.I know him well, if you give him a piece of eaves, you can take off all the tiles, and if you give him a piece of cloth, you can start a dyeing workshop. This time, if I soften my heart and give in, then he will make more progress and will ask for more in the future.
In the end Zhou Yu left lonely under my stare. I wanted to remind him to go back to the hospital to re-bandage his head, but after thinking about it, I decided to forget it.Now that the boundary line has been drawn, don't get involved too much.
Zhou Yu came early the next morning. At that time, I was walking out of the bedroom with sleepy eyes when I heard the door knock and he came in.
When he saw me, he asked in a natural tone: "Get up? Hurry up and wash up and we'll go out. I've already registered a number before coming over. I shouldn't have to wait in line. Also, you can't eat breakfast. We'll buy it outside after you've checked it out."
I couldn't help being surprised, how did he know that he couldn't have breakfast before the check-up?
On the way to leave, I heard him say that he didn't sleep when he went back last night. He took a notebook and read it on the bed all night, and typed all the things that should be paid attention to in the memo on the mobile phone.
I subconsciously glanced at his windbreaker pocket, and for a moment I wanted to take out his phone to see if it was true, and then what did he record?Even I myself didn't expect to do my homework so carefully.
The first time I had a prenatal checkup, I was actually quite apprehensive.
Zhou Yu registered early, and when we arrived, there was only one pregnant woman waiting in front of us.It was Zhou Yu who took the number and went to ask the nurse in front of the doctor's office. After a while, he called me. The nurse took us to another department and told the doctor inside that we need to create a card.
I have checked this on the Internet. When the pregnancy reaches the 12th week, the "Maternal Health Handbook" must be created.After filling in the relevant items, the doctor asked us to take the health care manual to the obstetrician, and it happened to be my turn. Zhou Yu was blocked from the door and I had to push the door in by myself.
But he couldn't help but startled.
In addition to a desk, there are two small beds in the doctor's office. Two pregnant women are lying on each of them, and a certain instrument is connected to the stomach to monitor something.I saw at a glance that the person lying on one of the beds with a big belly was Wei Lai.
She also saw me, and her eyes were also full of surprise.
(End of this chapter)
Zhou Yu stared at me blankly, didn't speak for a long time, and when he opened his mouth, he said, "You have become who you were back then."
I frowned slightly, what was he talking about?
"When I first ran into you, you always had such a stern face, with only deep coldness in your eyes, and a business-like attitude towards everyone and everything, including me. So I say you are sophisticated, you Utilitarian, because you are no longer like the Jia Xiaoru I know. Later, there is warmth in your eyes, and softness behind your toughness. You will secretly look for the kid surnamed Zhang for Li You, and for the sake of you. I stayed up all night looking for the surveillance video. The more I got later, the more I felt relieved, thinking that I had finally warmed your heart, but it turned out that it only took one step to go from warm to cold."
The state of mind at this time is indescribable, and he really told me the journey of my heart.
Although I got the marriage certificate impulsively with him at the beginning, my heart was cold, and only a faint flame flickered.Because after four years, everything about him was both familiar and unfamiliar to me, and I couldn't open my heart to him because of that thorn in my heart.
Later, in the collision of life, there was friction and warmth, and gradually regained the feeling of the past, and my heart began to soften.Even though I often quarreled with him, I can see from the incident the integrity and sense of justice that he first made me appreciate.
There is no conflict between disagreeing with his values and admiring him for who he is.
Just like his enthusiastic attitude towards Li You, I would warn him to be too enthusiastic, but I approve of his behavior in my heart.
Xiao Dong said that he is the most suitable for me. We share the same values and ideas, and our personalities are similar, and there will be no friction in our work.It made sense at the time, but now that I think about it, it doesn't make sense.
That kind of life is too boring, nothing changes.There needs to be friction between two people to collide with sparks. Even if they quarrel occasionally, as long as it is not hurtful, it is the flavoring agent in married life.
If Zhou Yu and I are the only ones on this journey, then I have the belief that he can calm down his impetuousness, and he can also warm my heart.But it's impossible. There is no marriage with only two people. The many relationships around you, from relatives to friends, are the chain reaction that marriage brings to each other.
We were silent for a long time, sitting on the sofa with each other, thinking.When I raised my head, I saw Zhou Yu still looking lonely with his eyes downcast, and the gauze on his forehead was faintly red.
He frowned, is the wound cracked?Thinking of my original finger injury, I always tossed and tossed it over and over again, maybe his injury is like mine.
"Jia Xiaoru, when was your first obstetric examination?" Zhou Yu asked suddenly.
I was startled, but still responded: "Just these two days."
Only then did he look up, his black eyes were clear, but his eyes were firm: "I don't agree to give up the child's custody."
My heart shuddered, and I narrowed my eyes slightly. After thinking about it for so long, he wanted to compete with me for this child?
But his next sentence was: "I will not come to snatch you either."
I don't understand this, what does he mean?
Zhou Yu said: "I will participate in everything about the baby's future, ranging from his every life plan to every prenatal check-up you have. The baby is the crystallization of you and me, and it is owned within our marriage. I believe you are better than me." I am more aware of the legal implications, which I have the right to participate in."
I looked at him, gritted my teeth and said, "I won't remarry you because of the child."
If he has this idea, then I will kill this seedling in the cradle first.
But he said: "I didn't want to remarry you, but I just told you that I will participate in the whole process of raising the child. Let's start with your first maternity checkup. Then I will ask for leave and come to accompany you."
A little confused about his way, I frowned and looked at him for a while, "What is your plan?"
This matter can't just be muddied in such a muddled way, I must get a clear answer.
He said: "I have already told you my plan, and I will accompany you every time you have an obstetric examination in the future."
I shook my head and said: "I don't mean these things. When a baby is born, he needs to apply for a birth certificate, get a name, and register for a household registration after birth. These things seem far away, but they are actually very close. Pregnancy in October is just a general term, almost The baby will be full-term at 40 weeks, and I don't want to wait until later to make trouble with you, so I talked about everything that needs to be discussed in advance."
This time Zhou Yu was very straightforward, and only asked me: "Will you let the child bear your surname when it is born?"
I didn't think much about it, I only thought about the issue of custody.After thinking about it, I shook my head. It shouldn't be possible. Zhou Yu and Zhou Yu obtained the certificate through normal procedures. The baby I gave birth to will naturally follow the father's surname.Even if my mother has opinions, I can persuade them.
So I said, "No, I will give you your surname."
I don't know if it's my illusion, but Zhou Yu seemed relieved.I don't mind at all, it's normal for men to care about these things.
Then I heard him say: "That's fine, the child will take my surname, and the household registration will be under your name. As for the child's name, we will discuss it and decide on it. If there is anything else you feel uncertain about, tell me." gone."
He is the director of the police station, and he is more knowledgeable about household registration than I am. After getting the certificate, he moved my household registration to his.After the divorce this time, no one was in the mood to think about it, so it has been delayed until now.
Now that the issue of the child's household registration has been brought to the case, I pondered for a moment and said, "I'll go to the hospital for an obstetric examination tomorrow. After the examination is over, I will go to your police station and move my household registration out first. It will be easy for the child to obtain a household registration in the future. In addition, since you have decided to If you don't fight with me for the custody of the child, then draft and sign the agreement, so that you or your family will not have any disputes with me in the future."
This belongs to the self-awareness of lawyers, and everything is based on legal effects, so as to avoid future disputes.I also don't want to take it seriously that one day I will go to court with him because of the child, it's too ugly, and it will wipe out all that little friendship.
Zhou Yu nodded after being silent for a moment: "Okay, I'll pick you up tomorrow. Regarding the agreement, let me write it, and you can read it later."
I was stunned, I am a lawyer, shouldn't I draft the agreement?But since he agreed so readily, I have no reason to bother him about it.
It seems that everything that should be talked about here is over, and it is much smoother than I imagined.Except for the very beginning when he rushed to Xingshi to inquire about his crimes, he behaved rationally and communicated afterwards.It seems that since the divorce, he has become a lot more mature than before. In fact, who is not? After one incident, he has more life experience, how can he stay in the same place forever.
I got up when I saw that it was almost done, and said to the human who was still sitting on the sofa: "Then come here today, come here a little earlier tomorrow, maybe the hospital will have to queue up. Also, don't forget to bring your household registration book."
After going through the divorce procedures last time, he put away the account book, so it should be at his home.
He also recognized my eviction order, got up with a embarrassed expression, walked two steps and then turned his head, "It's so late, can't you let me spend the night on the sofa?"
The clock on the wall pointed to eleven o'clock in the evening, and it was very dark outside the window, but I shook my head at him: "No."
He still wanted to encourage me: "I also slept on this sofa before, it won't affect you."
I said, "One moment, another moment, no."
He slept on the sofa and was depressed before we divorced. No one still lives under the same roof after the divorce.I know him well, if you give him a piece of eaves, you can take off all the tiles, and if you give him a piece of cloth, you can start a dyeing workshop. This time, if I soften my heart and give in, then he will make more progress and will ask for more in the future.
In the end Zhou Yu left lonely under my stare. I wanted to remind him to go back to the hospital to re-bandage his head, but after thinking about it, I decided to forget it.Now that the boundary line has been drawn, don't get involved too much.
Zhou Yu came early the next morning. At that time, I was walking out of the bedroom with sleepy eyes when I heard the door knock and he came in.
When he saw me, he asked in a natural tone: "Get up? Hurry up and wash up and we'll go out. I've already registered a number before coming over. I shouldn't have to wait in line. Also, you can't eat breakfast. We'll buy it outside after you've checked it out."
I couldn't help being surprised, how did he know that he couldn't have breakfast before the check-up?
On the way to leave, I heard him say that he didn't sleep when he went back last night. He took a notebook and read it on the bed all night, and typed all the things that should be paid attention to in the memo on the mobile phone.
I subconsciously glanced at his windbreaker pocket, and for a moment I wanted to take out his phone to see if it was true, and then what did he record?Even I myself didn't expect to do my homework so carefully.
The first time I had a prenatal checkup, I was actually quite apprehensive.
Zhou Yu registered early, and when we arrived, there was only one pregnant woman waiting in front of us.It was Zhou Yu who took the number and went to ask the nurse in front of the doctor's office. After a while, he called me. The nurse took us to another department and told the doctor inside that we need to create a card.
I have checked this on the Internet. When the pregnancy reaches the 12th week, the "Maternal Health Handbook" must be created.After filling in the relevant items, the doctor asked us to take the health care manual to the obstetrician, and it happened to be my turn. Zhou Yu was blocked from the door and I had to push the door in by myself.
But he couldn't help but startled.
In addition to a desk, there are two small beds in the doctor's office. Two pregnant women are lying on each of them, and a certain instrument is connected to the stomach to monitor something.I saw at a glance that the person lying on one of the beds with a big belly was Wei Lai.
She also saw me, and her eyes were also full of surprise.
(End of this chapter)
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