The Devil's Conversation Learning: Instantly Become Friends with Strangers

Chapter 1 Preface
Psychological experts pointed out that chatting up is the return of the original social way out of the inner needs of psychology and life after people's social activities are over-networked, and it should be treated rationally.Picking up a conversation is not limited to the first step of communication between men and women. Even if it is to pass some time with strangers, no matter men, women, young or old, there is also a need to strike up a conversation.It is difficult to determine whether the behavior of striking up a conversation is a good thing or a bad thing. If your purpose is very legitimate, there is nothing wrong with using the method of striking up a conversation reasonably.By learning how to strike up a conversation, you can help some introverted and shy people build up their self-confidence, find a shortcut to success, and possibly get a beautiful love. Why not do it?

In fact, in Western society, striking up a conversation is an inseparable part of interpersonal communication and an important way for people to know each other.In a coffee shop, restaurant or bar, besides talking to the person sitting next to you, people will definitely come forward to chat with the person they want to know.For them, striking up a conversation with someone they want to meet is not only a natural thing, but also something that should be done, and it would be unnatural not to do it.That said, while we're still clamoring for people to strike up a conversation in a coffee shop or restaurant, foreigners are already doing it!Westerners believe that strangers get to know each other by striking up a conversation; while Chinese people think that striking up a conversation is unnecessary, because we express our emotions implicitly and subconsciously, and there is subconscious hostility towards strangers , so it should not be learned.

Now, chatting up has become a science with a complete theoretical system and genre, and even a skill that needs to be paid for training, which also proves people's demand for chatting up.But it is undeniable that in daily life and work, we see that many people have social confusion and obstacles, and some people are even self-enclosed, and a series of problems caused by this have seriously hindered career and emotional development.As the so-called concept determines action, without a correct concept as a guide, life will be gloomy.This book "The Devil's Pick-Up-Becoming Friends with Strangers Instantly" aims to emphasize the necessity of chat-up and its influence on people.I hope that friends can get rid of the tension and even fear in social interaction, build up firm self-confidence, cultivate a sunny attitude, master the skills of chatting up, create opportunities for yourself by chatting up strangers, expand business by getting to know customers, and add more to your life. How exciting.I firmly believe that the viewpoints, methods and techniques of chatting up in the book are of reference value and guiding significance for participating in social activities and building a network of contacts.As long as your friends operate according to the method provided in this book, your life and work will be different.

If you want to become a strike-up and social master, then please follow this book to learn how to strike up a conversation!
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