The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 1156

However, after seeing too many tragedies of her classmates, Jiang Jiajia discovered that this was not the case at all.

The more those women who flaunt themselves, are not greedy for money, are independent, sensible, and virtuous, the worse they will live after they get married.

Because those men who marry them are basically chicken thieves.

After they got married, they never paid for their families.

He spends what he earns.

They don't care about wives and children.

Because whenever my wife asks her for living expenses, or the family's rent and utilities, they will always say, "Aren't you working? Don't you know how to earn money yourself? What do you want from me for no reason?"

"I really didn't expect you to become like this! How did you become such a money-grubbing woman? You dare to ask me for 2000 yuan for living expenses in a month, why don't you go to heaven?!"

Some women who gave birth to two children to their husbands, it is impossible for them to devote themselves to work.

Because of the children, the husband doesn't care.The parents-in-law didn't help either.

All of them don't contribute money or effort.He kept asking her for money all day long.

As a woman, even if she has a stable job, she only has three to four thousand yuan a month.

Three to 4000 yuan is needed to pay the rent, water and electricity bills of the family, the older children need to study, the younger ones need to be breastfed and changed diapers, and the family needs to eat food every day... Which one is free?
What's more, the parents-in-law and mother-in-law are very tricky. They kept saying that they had suffered too much before, and now that their children and grandchildren are grown up, it's time for them to think about happiness!

Their so-called enjoyment of happiness means eating and drinking well every day.They also spend money to buy some skin care products... They have to eat a chicken or a duck every few days, and three or five eggs have to be rounded up, and they have to drink bone-enhancing goat milk powder every day...

In addition, the side dishes are not cheap now, they cost seven or eight yuan a catty, and the cheapest ones cost 6 yuan. The thousands of yuan she earned are spent every month! !

It can be said that they are all a woman supporting the whole family.

Just like this kind of donkey who revolves around a mill every day, day after day, year after year, worrying all day and all night that they don't have enough money for this month, what happiness can they have?
One of Jiang Jiajia's cousins ​​and another cousin lived like this after they got married.

Every time Jiang Jiajia saw their old faces worn down by time and her husband's family, she swore in her heart that she would never live such a life!
And definitely not looking for such a wimp!
Jiang Jiajia really couldn't figure it out, what kind of good conditions could that person surnamed Wang have? !
He is a man in his thirties, graduated from a technical secondary school, and only earns more than 2000 yuan a month. Can he support his family?
He can't even feed himself.

How could he bear the responsibility of being a man?
If she is led by him in a muddleheaded way and marries him, will she have a good life in the future?
Besides, as far as that dog surnamed Wang is concerned, if she is really in a daze and marries him, then it is impossible for her to get living expenses from him.

It is also impossible for her to get a penny from his parents.

In this day and age, if the average monthly salary of men is less than 5000 yuan, their own survival will be a problem.

If they insist on finding a wife and having a few children, then the women who are their wives will be exploited by them.

Jiang Jiajia didn't want to be this kind of man's donkey.

She also doesn't want to be the kind of door-to-door daughter-in-law who, after marrying into someone else's family, will work for them for a lifetime.

So, after going through such a bad blind date, she suddenly became smart.

From now on, if she really wants to go on a blind date, she must first contact them on WeChat.

There are so many advantages of WeChat contact.

One, protect your own personal safety.

Second, even if something unpleasant happens, or she can't talk to the man, she doesn't have to worry about how much she will suffer.

In addition, there is another advantage that she has no financial relationship with them, let alone meet for dinner and movies, so once she breaks up with them, those malicious people can't pour dirty water on her.

If you can get along with the other party on WeChat, it means that after the meeting, there is a possibility that you can continue to get along with him.

If you can't talk in WeChat, it means that she and the other party's aura are not in harmony.

The three views are also different.

The other party's appearance is not good, and the salary is average...

There is no need for her to meet the other party.

Seeing it is also a waste of time.

Jiang Jiajia, who had thought about this issue clearly, has never suffered a disadvantage in blind dates since then.

In WeChat, she also accurately and quickly identified those people who were similar to Wang Jiacheng.

When some men go on blind dates, they think that they and women have become partners and can get married.

Because those men think so, if a woman falls into the realm of taking the initiative to go on a blind date, it means that they are eager to get married.

That being the case, it is their honor to be able to look up to them.

If they dare to refuse them, it means they don't know what to do.

Men who have never accepted the other party's rejection will become angry and behave hysterically.

In WeChat, they kept swearing, saying that the other party was an old woman, why are they so crazy?What are you proud of?

...Jiang Jiajia encountered many such things in the following days.

Later, Jiang Jiajia figured it out again. She found that in the small county town, the men who were reduced to blind dates, but those who were over 30 years old and never married were basically crooked.

These crooked melons and dates have a common characteristic, that is, they are poor, ugly, and stingy.

Moreover, their tempers are rather weird.

A large part of the men are still the kind of mom boys who live under the same roof with their parents, are served by their mothers every day, and do nothing at home.

Living with those Ma Baomen who talk about "my mother said" every day, a normal woman will be driven crazy.

Because Ma Baonan is the kind of trash who is incompetent, does not make money, does not make progress, is cowardly, childish, stupid, stubborn, has no self-knowledge...all kinds of shortcomings!

To find such a man is to raise a son for another woman.

Moreover, this is still a white-eyed wolf with elbows turned outward.

Although Jiang Jiajia is young, she has seen many Ma Baonan so far.

What's more, those mommy men also married daughter-in-laws and gave birth to children.

Those women who didn't keep their eyes open and just found an incompetent baby boy to marry, after they got married, they would quarrel and fight with her mother-in-law, father-in-law, and her man every day.

Under that roof, she was the only woman, directly facing the other three.

Sometimes, her sons and daughters have to stand by her father-in-law and mother-in-law.

During this process, she did not know how many grievances she suffered and how many tears she shed!
(End of this chapter)