The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 1178 Horrible widowed parenting

Li Jing's good friends are mainly her college roommates.

The room she slept in was for 6 people.

More than half of them played better with her.One year after graduating from university, she kept in regular contact with them.

Of course, her friends mainly work in big cities now.

The transportation in the big cities is convenient and there are many opportunities.Anyone who is capable can basically serve a bowl of rice there.

Li Jing's friends have been working in these big cities for a year.

At the very beginning, it was the initial stage, and it was very difficult.They have no money, no work experience, and they are very immature in dealing with people.

However, after staying in those big cities for nearly a year, their abilities slowly grew.

Moreover, their vision has been broadened a lot.

Like Li Jing, they were not born in wealthy families. Half of them lived in the countryside.The other half are the girls in the small town.

At the beginning, they didn't have much insight, and they didn't have a broad vision.The angle of seeing people and things is very narrow.

But now they are really completely different from before.

Their wages are rising little by little.At the beginning, it was only more than 3000 yuan, and less than 4000 yuan, but it gradually increased to 4000, 5000, and 6000.

Now, their average monthly salary is almost more than 6000 yuan.

The money doesn't seem like much.

However, they believe that their wages will increase in the future.Because of their abilities, they are constantly growing.

They are very confident about their future.

As people who have seen the world, they really feel that a woman is 23, 24, or 27, eight or nine years old, really young!

In the future, there are infinite possibilities.

They feel that there is no need for young girls like them to get married so early.

It's pretty interesting when you think about it.

For a young woman like Li Jing, the person who is now on a blind date is a graduate of a technical secondary school, over 30 years old, and can only earn 2000 yuan a month...

Then if she is a little older, and she will always be a little teacher in such a small county, the man she will find in the future will basically be like this, right?

Just an ordinary salaryman who doesn't make money.

So if this is the case, why did she get married so early?Wouldn't it be nice to enjoy being single for a few more years?

Getting married is really hard.

Although Li Jing's friends are not very old, they have seen with their own eyes how miserable the lives of countless married women are in their villages or in their small county towns.

Those married women revolve around trivial matters every day.

They either feel that their men are unreliable, or they are complaining about life.

All of them, for their own husbands and their children, have to go out to work all year round.

For example, working in a factory, or working as a migrant worker with my husband.Carrying steel bars and cement every day, or doing transportation.

Doing heavy work every day is very hard!
That's all for work. After returning to the rental house or the temporary shed, they still have to cook for the man in the family.

As for the women in those small county towns, which of them didn't burn candles at both ends?

If the man I'm looking for is a Ma Baonan who lives under the same roof as his parents and has no skills, then life will be even more miserable!
As a woman, she has to look at the faces of her parents-in-law every day.After giving birth, her parents-in-law did not help, so she could only take care of the child by herself.

She gave birth, brought up the children, and raised the children, all by herself.In less than a few years, women like them seem to have aged more than 10 years.

The man they were looking for didn't care at all.When I go home every day, after work, I just lie on the sofa playing games, watching TV, or chatting with some women outside.

Asking him to help with housework, help with cooking, help the child prepare milk powder, and help the child change diapers, all of which require women to beg repeatedly.

I begged that man, but not only did he not agree, he even lost his temper.

Generally speaking, the life of this kind of woman is basically widowed parenting.It's not as good as a donkey's life!
In this kind of marriage, the man not only cannot give the woman a little help, but also becomes a drag.

They are just a group of giant babies who don't care about anything and only know how to enjoy the service of others!

selfishness.grumpy.

A wimp with no skills at all.

They have no sense of responsibility.

But they still feel that they are special!

They kept saying outside that they were supporting their families.

A man earns only two to three thousand yuan a month.

Two 3000 yuan can't even support himself, so he still supports his family?

Isn't this a joke! !
Moreover, this kind of man has always only cared about himself. Not only do they not pay money to his wife every month, he wants to get money from his wife.

The wife's own wages are spent.

He wanted to ask him for 500 yuan, but he kept saying that the money was lent to her and she would pay it back in the future.

Women who live with this kind of incompetent mother boy basically have no self-esteem.

This kind of men who only earn such a pitiful 2000 yuan a month, they are justified all day long and lose their temper with their wives.

What they do is easy.

There is no technical content at all, and it is not laborious.However, they are easily satisfied.

Tell him to work harder, work harder, deliver food outside, and be a courier. They are afraid of suffering.Afraid of wind and rain.

They just want to live with their parents.Be a big baby who is loved by mother and loved by mother.

……

After Li Jing chatted with her girlfriends all night, she felt much better.

However, although her mood is much better, the problems she is facing now have not been resolved at all.

Early the next morning, she sat down with her parents to have breakfast.

Her parents urged her while eating. "Li Jing, last night, that boy surnamed Wang called us."

"He thinks you are too sensitive and easy to make a fuss, as if you have never seen the world. You said that you are already talking, and that is already a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. He wants to hold hands and hug you What's wrong with you?"

"Why do you have such a big reaction?! The people at the police station have made notes for him. You said that if he accidentally left a bad record, are you sorry for him? If he accidentally goes to jail , the children you have with him will not be able to take the civil servant examination or the career establishment examination in the future!"

(End of this chapter)