The happiness of crossing every day
Chapter 1181 Being forced into marriage is extremely painful
Chapter 1181 Being forced into marriage is extremely painful
Under the persecution of her parents, Li Jing felt very painful.
She submitted articles online, asked for help a few times, and chatted with her girlfriends many times,...
Netizens and her friends, after learning about her situation, all stood by her side and scolded that surnamed Wang desperately.
Moreover, they kept encouraging her.
They were telling her one by one that she was no longer a defenseless child supported by her own parents!
She is an adult now.
And also educated adults with their own college degrees.
She has a job and has her own independent ability to survive.She will earn money and have a financial foundation, and she will not be controlled by her parents at all.
Under such circumstances, she should muster up the courage to go outside and escape from those family members who persecuted her and the messy environment.
Only when a person stands up and becomes strong, will others respect her.
Many netizens also helped Li Jing analyze it.
Among them, those with certain social experience and discerning eyes pointed out straight to the point that although Li Jing was an adult physically, she hadn't grown up psychologically.
She is still dependent on her parents.
At her age, she didn't even learn the 8 words of self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement.
Self-esteem is to respect yourself.
Li Jing was insulted so much by that man, and her parents took it so seriously, she still has to wrong herself, some women with strong self-esteem, they don't understand, why is she still in such a place? environment?
Her biological parents didn't tie her up, so why didn't she know how to pick up her ID card, pick up her bank card and mobile phone, and go outside to work?
As long as she is willing to come out of that backward county, the emperor is far away today, can her parents reach out and force her to do anything?
Even if her parents call her and want to interfere in her life, she just doesn't answer the phone.
Isn't this problem easy to solve?
So, in the final analysis, she asked for it herself.
It's her own self-inflicted humiliation.
It's herself, she has to make herself uncomfortable.
When a person is faced with a difficult situation, he usually has three choices.
The first choice is to actively prepare for battle and take the initiative to attack.
The second choice is to ignore it, ignore it, ignore it, and bury your head in the sand like an ostrich encountering a natural enemy.I think I can avoid disaster.
However, the wolf that should find her will still find her.Who told her that her character was weak?Who told her to like to escape from reality?
These women who like to escape from reality, but also rely on others, have no self-esteem, no self-respect, and no self-reliance, are often the meat of other people's mouths.Others eat whatever they want, and eat whatever they want.
And the third state where some people face difficulties is: first pretend to struggle, seek advice from others, and ask for emotional value from others.
Find comfort in others.
Others tried their best to solve the problem with her, but they, at that time, nodded heavily.
However, as long as the people around her open their mouths and coax them, they will compromise.
Like the kind of woman who is domestically abused by her own man, when faced with this situation, she often behaves like this.
At first, it was hysterical struggle.Look here and there for this, and here and there for that.
But as long as her man coaxed her, she would go back in a hurry.
Someone reminded her a few words, but she still felt that others were not reassuring.
Moreover, she kept telling her man that she actually didn't want to lose her temper with him.But it was the friends around her, those netizens on the Internet, who thought it was not lively enough, and kept encouraging her.
It was their fault that her relationship with him was so tense.None of her business.
In this way, this kind of woman stood on the same line as this man, and dealt with those friends and netizens who helped her earlier.
At first, they used a gesture of flattery and hostility to those friends to satisfy their husbands.
Some victims of domestic violence often behave like this.
It's like a fixed program on a computer.
None are exceptional.
It is not enough to be beaten domestically by a man once, and they have to be beaten twice, three times... until they are beaten to death.
When she died in a daze, some people outside would only say that a poor person must have something to hate.
……
Li Jing now actually belongs to the third mode.
She has always compromised when faced with the problem of a blind date.
Even though she herself was unwilling, didn't want to go on a blind date, and didn't want to associate with that surnamed Wang, let alone marry him, but her parents, her relatives, and the introducer kept trying to persuade her.
Moreover, one by one, in the name of caring for her, they called her every day, urging her to meet that Wang Wang as soon as possible.
And the introducer also said, "If you see him more often, you two will get along with each other."
"I know you don't like him, but she is really a suitable marriage partner. To get married, you don't need to find someone you like, and you don't need to find someone who is rich and handsome. You should find someone who is honest and honest and can live a good life. ..."
"Anyway, people who get married these days are living in partnership. If you partner with him, he will treat you well..."
Li Jing's ears are getting callused when she hears such words like a wheel of a cart.
Although Li Jing's relatives behind your back are forcing you every day, and she often hides under the quilt and cries many times in the middle of the night.However, she is weak and can be bullied, and she has no temper, but she dare not resist her parents.
She seemed to have no other choice except to say a few cruel words occasionally.
Her own parents, she couldn't help it.
She can't do anything about that group of relatives who are more powerful than her parents.
Every morning, noon, or night, when the relative who made the introduction called her and bombarded her, she had to take his face into consideration, and she would always remain polite.
Even if that relative pointed at her and spoke rudely, she didn't respect her at all.However, Li Jing, who has no temper, no self-respect, no self-love, and no independent spirit, just cares about the other party's face and responds out of politeness.
The relative who made the introduction trained her like a dog.However, Li Jing could only nod and bow when facing him.
Whatever the other party says, she responds.
Li Jing thought that she was perfunctory, and this relative of hers should understand in her heart.
But she didn't know that people like matchmakers are businessmen who are after money!
Those who specialize in marriage introduction, who would dislike having a lot of money in their pockets?
(End of this chapter)
Under the persecution of her parents, Li Jing felt very painful.
She submitted articles online, asked for help a few times, and chatted with her girlfriends many times,...
Netizens and her friends, after learning about her situation, all stood by her side and scolded that surnamed Wang desperately.
Moreover, they kept encouraging her.
They were telling her one by one that she was no longer a defenseless child supported by her own parents!
She is an adult now.
And also educated adults with their own college degrees.
She has a job and has her own independent ability to survive.She will earn money and have a financial foundation, and she will not be controlled by her parents at all.
Under such circumstances, she should muster up the courage to go outside and escape from those family members who persecuted her and the messy environment.
Only when a person stands up and becomes strong, will others respect her.
Many netizens also helped Li Jing analyze it.
Among them, those with certain social experience and discerning eyes pointed out straight to the point that although Li Jing was an adult physically, she hadn't grown up psychologically.
She is still dependent on her parents.
At her age, she didn't even learn the 8 words of self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement.
Self-esteem is to respect yourself.
Li Jing was insulted so much by that man, and her parents took it so seriously, she still has to wrong herself, some women with strong self-esteem, they don't understand, why is she still in such a place? environment?
Her biological parents didn't tie her up, so why didn't she know how to pick up her ID card, pick up her bank card and mobile phone, and go outside to work?
As long as she is willing to come out of that backward county, the emperor is far away today, can her parents reach out and force her to do anything?
Even if her parents call her and want to interfere in her life, she just doesn't answer the phone.
Isn't this problem easy to solve?
So, in the final analysis, she asked for it herself.
It's her own self-inflicted humiliation.
It's herself, she has to make herself uncomfortable.
When a person is faced with a difficult situation, he usually has three choices.
The first choice is to actively prepare for battle and take the initiative to attack.
The second choice is to ignore it, ignore it, ignore it, and bury your head in the sand like an ostrich encountering a natural enemy.I think I can avoid disaster.
However, the wolf that should find her will still find her.Who told her that her character was weak?Who told her to like to escape from reality?
These women who like to escape from reality, but also rely on others, have no self-esteem, no self-respect, and no self-reliance, are often the meat of other people's mouths.Others eat whatever they want, and eat whatever they want.
And the third state where some people face difficulties is: first pretend to struggle, seek advice from others, and ask for emotional value from others.
Find comfort in others.
Others tried their best to solve the problem with her, but they, at that time, nodded heavily.
However, as long as the people around her open their mouths and coax them, they will compromise.
Like the kind of woman who is domestically abused by her own man, when faced with this situation, she often behaves like this.
At first, it was hysterical struggle.Look here and there for this, and here and there for that.
But as long as her man coaxed her, she would go back in a hurry.
Someone reminded her a few words, but she still felt that others were not reassuring.
Moreover, she kept telling her man that she actually didn't want to lose her temper with him.But it was the friends around her, those netizens on the Internet, who thought it was not lively enough, and kept encouraging her.
It was their fault that her relationship with him was so tense.None of her business.
In this way, this kind of woman stood on the same line as this man, and dealt with those friends and netizens who helped her earlier.
At first, they used a gesture of flattery and hostility to those friends to satisfy their husbands.
Some victims of domestic violence often behave like this.
It's like a fixed program on a computer.
None are exceptional.
It is not enough to be beaten domestically by a man once, and they have to be beaten twice, three times... until they are beaten to death.
When she died in a daze, some people outside would only say that a poor person must have something to hate.
……
Li Jing now actually belongs to the third mode.
She has always compromised when faced with the problem of a blind date.
Even though she herself was unwilling, didn't want to go on a blind date, and didn't want to associate with that surnamed Wang, let alone marry him, but her parents, her relatives, and the introducer kept trying to persuade her.
Moreover, one by one, in the name of caring for her, they called her every day, urging her to meet that Wang Wang as soon as possible.
And the introducer also said, "If you see him more often, you two will get along with each other."
"I know you don't like him, but she is really a suitable marriage partner. To get married, you don't need to find someone you like, and you don't need to find someone who is rich and handsome. You should find someone who is honest and honest and can live a good life. ..."
"Anyway, people who get married these days are living in partnership. If you partner with him, he will treat you well..."
Li Jing's ears are getting callused when she hears such words like a wheel of a cart.
Although Li Jing's relatives behind your back are forcing you every day, and she often hides under the quilt and cries many times in the middle of the night.However, she is weak and can be bullied, and she has no temper, but she dare not resist her parents.
She seemed to have no other choice except to say a few cruel words occasionally.
Her own parents, she couldn't help it.
She can't do anything about that group of relatives who are more powerful than her parents.
Every morning, noon, or night, when the relative who made the introduction called her and bombarded her, she had to take his face into consideration, and she would always remain polite.
Even if that relative pointed at her and spoke rudely, she didn't respect her at all.However, Li Jing, who has no temper, no self-respect, no self-love, and no independent spirit, just cares about the other party's face and responds out of politeness.
The relative who made the introduction trained her like a dog.However, Li Jing could only nod and bow when facing him.
Whatever the other party says, she responds.
Li Jing thought that she was perfunctory, and this relative of hers should understand in her heart.
But she didn't know that people like matchmakers are businessmen who are after money!
Those who specialize in marriage introduction, who would dislike having a lot of money in their pockets?
(End of this chapter)
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