The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 1190 Marriage is actually very realistic

In Chen Weiwei's view, some women carry a memorial archway on their backs all their lives.

And, what they like most is the archway of "I am a good woman".

Therefore, no matter how uncomfortable, miserable, and humble they are, they still feel that they are worth it.

Because they are "very virtuous", they are a group of "good women", they are "great", and they are not "selfish" at all...

However, in Chen Weiwei's view, those women's actions and thoughts were really ridiculous and hateful.

Because besides the good name, what benefits can they get?

Apart from being praised by many netizens on the Internet, especially those male netizens saying, "You are such a good woman, you are not a loss if your man marries you...", in her real life situation, she didn't get it at all. Definitely improved.

They still had to burn both ends of the candle.

They have no dreams of their own, no life of their own.I have been living for my own man, my parents-in-law, and my children all my life.

If some women accidentally get sick, such as cancer, they are not of much use value, and their men will behave very realistically.

They would choose to divorce her.

Tell her to leave the house and get out.

It is impossible for them to sell the house at home, exchange the valuable things for money, and then take these poor women to the hospital, and spend as much money as possible to treat them! !
In fact, there are very few men who can take a woman to her death in the hospital.

Chen Weiwei's own sister is now a doctor.

And also a doctor of obstetrics and gynecology.

She often listened to this sister, telling her what she had seen and heard in the hospital.

After Chen Weiwei listened to it a lot, she felt very deeply.

She discovered that people can only rely on themselves in life, and they cannot rely on others.

Parents will go before their children.

After the children grow up,...if they are promising, they will go far away and pursue their own lives.As for those who are worthless, they can only stay with their parents to grow old.

In name they are being filial, but in fact, they want to drain the family's wallet.

As for the husband who is not related by blood.

It would be even more fake.

To be able to find a husband who loves each other and communicates with each other is really the luckiest thing in life.

However, the vast majority of marriages in this country are just staying together and making do with each other.

Especially those who are on a blind date.

Flash marriages and flash divorces are the norm.

Even if they can persevere, it's all stumbling and struggling to get by.

Chen Weiwei has seen too much, she only believes in money.

She felt that money was the only thing that would disobey her.

Now that she has money, she can be chic wherever she wants.

If she feels unhappy, she can go out and have fun.

Like those couples who live together and quarrel every day, most of them are poor.

Poor and humble couples are sad.

Couples without money have the worst relationship.

They can argue for days over a dollar.It is also possible for the daughter-in-law to fight the mother-in-law for a pound of potatoes.

Chen Weiwei didn't bother to mention these things to Li Jing in her life.

Because she knew that Li Jing, who had never been beaten by the society, would just say, "Chen Weiwei, isn't what you said too exaggerated?"

"The stories you tell are all made by yourself, right?"

"How is this possible? I feel that some people have a good life. Many couples are quite in love..."

As soon as Chen Weiwei heard her childish words, she wanted to laugh.She didn't bother to argue with her either.

She thought in her heart that when she got married, she would know whether the things she said were true or not.

Chen Weiwei only had one thing to say about common people's marriages.

That is, the poorer the family, the more quarrels and chaos there will be.

In Chen Weiwei's hometown, there is a family where both parents are farmers.They raised two sons.

The older son is smarter.He was particularly motivated in his studies, and was admitted to a heavy-duty university in his third year of high school.

As for the younger son, he has to be a little stupid.When he was studying, even if he worked very hard, his grades were only at an average level.In the year of the college entrance examination, I only took one and three books.

Later, the two of them graduated from college.Participated in work.The gap is becoming more and more obvious.

The eldest son is majoring in computer science.After I came out to work, my monthly salary was more than 2 yuan.

The youngest son studied liberal arts in high school.In the three universities, I majored in English again.English is known as panacea.It is used everywhere and made everywhere.

If you can learn English well and speak fluently, you can actually earn a considerable amount of money by going to the coast to engage in foreign trade.

But this youngest son is not up to date.

After graduating from the three books, there is no certificate for English Specialist 8.He started out working in a training class.Three to four thousand yuan per month.

Compared with his brother's more than 2,...he felt unbalanced.

Later, he quit his job and went home to take the civil service exam.I failed the exam three times.

His brother earned more and more money.

Therefore, his parents paid more and more attention to their eldest son.

The younger son saw it in his eyes and remembered it in his heart, and felt that his parents were very partial.My heart became more and more unbalanced.

Moreover, he already hated his brother thoroughly.

At the end of the year, when my brother came back, he drank some wine during the Chinese New Year, and killed his own brother while he was drunk...

Chen Weiwei is also from the countryside.

Her family is in the same team as this family.

It's not far to live!

So everyone in Chen Weiwei's family knew about his family's messy affairs, and they were very clear.

After Chen Weiwei heard what her parents said about this matter, she deeply felt that there could be so many conflicts between these brothers because of some things.

So much so that the younger brother killed the older brother.

Then the relationship between the husband and wife is definitely more excessive than this.

After all, elder brother and younger brother are related by blood.

And what about the so-called husband and wife?
In the two or thirty years before their marriage, the two of them had nothing to do with each other!

It is normal for a man and a woman who have nothing to do with each other to beat and scold each other and complain to each other when faced with various interests.

Some men's domestic violence is more normal.

……

After Chen Weiwei picked up Li Jing from the train station, the two of them took a taxi.Then they went back together, to Chen Weiwei's own apartment.

Correct.

This apartment of only 30 square meters was bought by Chen Weiwei herself.

She borrowed 15 yuan from her sister.

In addition, she has worked hard outside for 4 years of university and 20 year of work. ...It's almost [-] yuan.

Moreover, she paid the down payment for this small apartment.

This small apartment is near the outskirts of the big city.Next to it is a group of cemeteries.

However, Chen Weiwei just liked such a place to stay.Because this is her house.

Every night after she came home from get off work, she went back to her little room, and she felt extra grounded.

(End of this chapter)