The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 518 A Good Time for Reform and Opening Up

Recently, Su Fuli felt that her life was particularly depressing.

Because she was introduced by others, she met her husband through a blind date.

Therefore, she does not have a special understanding of her husband's temperament.

As the saying goes, the road is far from knowing the horsepower, and it will see people's hearts over time.

The more she gets along with her husband now, the more oppressed she feels from the inside out.

That kind of depression often makes her feel that sometimes she is really out of breath.

She didn't know what was wrong with herself.

Every time she saw her husband, she felt very bored in her heart.

She felt particularly disgusted with her current life.

She really wants to escape from here.

Over the past year, Su Fuli has been doing housework at home from morning till night.

She felt like a slave, and like a cow and horse who only knew how to work.

I work day and night, and there is no time to rest every day.

Laundry, cooking, sweeping, cleaning, washing here, wiping there, these things are repeated every day.

No sense of achievement at all.

She didn't have a sense of accomplishment, so she didn't say anything.

What made him feel even more unbearable was that his mother-in-law, including her husband, was like a supervisor.

Pointing at her as a body worker every day, let her always pay attention to whether there are hairs on the floor of the house.

If there are strands of hair, let her quickly pick up those long hairs and throw them out.

Su Fuli has heard her husband say countless times, "This woman's hair is the dirtiest..."

In addition, every time she changed her underwear, her husband also liked to talk about his disdain.

"Dirty..."

Su Fuli thinks that she washes her lower body every day, and she also changes her underwear every day.

But that's what Gao Banner wanted to say.

At the beginning, the words he said would often make Su Fuli feel particularly ashamed.

At that time, Su Fuli often reflected in her heart, whether her living habits were not good?
Is it really too unhygienic?
Or, wash yourself twice a day?

Early one, late one?
However, after Su Fuli washed it once in the morning and once at night, she still heard her husband say in front of her, "It's so dirty!"

On that day, Su Fuli realized belatedly that her husband was actually saying that she was really dirty.

Su Fuli suddenly realized at that moment that it was probably because of her bad background, her husband disliked her.

And this kind of dislike comes from the bottom of his heart.

Su Fuli was a little sad, wronged, and sad at first.And she hid in the toilet alone, and cried heartily.

Later, with a relatively strong personality, she suddenly had an idea.

She suddenly realized that it was impossible for her husband to be her reliance for the rest of her life.

And she doesn't have the qualifications, so what to rely on!
A woman can only rely on herself in her life.

Relying on mountains and falling, running by water.

No one in this world can be trusted.

What's more, marrying such a husband now is just because he thinks he is beautiful and young.

When Su Fuli thought of this, she suddenly realized that if one day in the future she was no longer young and no longer beautiful, then her husband might turn around and leave her.Then choose someone else.

When Su Fuli realized that she might face this problem in the future, she began to think about her own way out.

A man who has no blood relationship with him, after marrying him, has been exploiting himself, exploiting himself, using himself, and when he has no use value, he is very likely to kick himself.

Therefore, now, I must fight for some more survival for myself.

A person does not rely on a face to live in this world.

But skill.

What is the skill?

A mouth that can speak well?

A pair of skillful hands that can turn decay into magic?
Or a college diploma that can be eaten anywhere?

……

These are actually skills.

They are all the foundations that can become a woman's self-sufficiency.

After Su Fuli thought about these things in her heart, she began to start a new stove for herself secretly.

reading.

She has to keep reading.

Moreover, she has to go to a university with a famous brand.

She wants to stay away from this place.

Earn a little more, free space for yourself.Survival capital.

Wu Zetian once said a very good sentence, which is to be determined with one mind and everything to be achieved.

This sentence means that a person who has settled down can do something if he wants to achieve it.

Therefore, the perseverance and perseverance of a smart woman should not be underestimated.

……

In the two years from 76 to 78, the situation was changing and huge.

Especially the change in 78, which deeply affected another generation of people.

People all over the country, after listening to the enthusiastic host on the radio station, using his high-pitched voice, vigorously praised Shantou's new policy, when the whole country was going to implement reform and opening up, they still gritted their teeth and worked hard. Su Fuli, who was doing housework, immediately had a frown.

Reform and Opening?
When Su Fuli heard this word for the first time, she thought a lot about it.

I also thought a lot.

This, she thought, was an opportunity.

A chance to truly change your destiny.

Su Fuli grew up, under the influence of her grandfather, she has high ambitions and lofty aspirations.

She actually has her own ideals.

It's just that this ideal, under the cruel reality, was tightly hidden by her and suppressed in her heart.

However, Su Fuli now feels that this will be a great opportunity to help her realize her ideals and goals in life.

For all of this, Su Fuli's husband, Gao Banner, is still the same as before, without any self-consciousness.

Over the past few years, Gao Banner has become more and more satisfied with his life.

He felt that since he had such a young wife who was much younger than him, his life was much more comfortable than before.

The first one is that it is much more convenient.

The second one is much easier.

He had such a hardworking, sensible and understanding wife, so he felt that it was not a loss for him to marry her back then.

The deal I made earlier was quite a bargain.

The daughter-in-law, she is really sensible, obedient, and well-behaved.

People are getting more and more beautiful.

He felt that although she had a poor family background, she was just an orphan without the help of her parents, brothers and sisters, but being an orphan also had the advantages of being an orphan.

(End of this chapter)