The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 556 Sinking into the Mire

Therefore, after a person who has tasted all the pain, she will cherish it even more after she has a little bit of honey.

After getting used to the ugly things in the world, once some people accept the kindness of people around them, or the kindness of strangers, she will be doubly grateful.

As for those who have lived in honeypots since they were young and don't know the sufferings of the world, they don't really care about the kindness of the people around them.

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Fortunately, Chen Yuanyuan is not the latter.

She has known since she was a child that she can only rely on herself.

No one can be trusted.

If a person wants to live well and live happily in this society, the first prerequisite is actually the strength of one's heart.

Although she couldn't achieve the state of a saint who doesn't take pleasure in things or sorrow for herself, Chen Yuanyuan's head was still so clear from the beginning to the end.

The goal is so clear.

She just decided that she got married to make her life happier and happier.

If marriage can't bring her happiness and joy, it will only immerse her in the abyss of pain, and her heart will be constantly torn.

Then she will resolutely get rid of this marriage.

There is no truth in this world that after a woman marries a man, she must stick to the truth.

For Chen Yuanyuan, marriage is actually nothing more than a paper contract.

A marriage certificate made of paper gently binds two unrelated men and women together.

If you agree, you will come, if you don't agree, you will go.

The essence of marriage is that simple.

If in a relationship, the special pain of life, the father-in-law, mother-in-law and her own man, bring her all day and night, all are those pressures, doubts, blows, denials, quarrels, fights, then such a family, There is no need to wait at all.

Because in essence, living in such a family is equivalent to letting others hold a hard knife and slowly grind the meat on your own soft meat.

A woman who likes to live in this kind of family is either weak in character, or not clear-headed, and she is quite stupid.

Don't say that you can't bear to bear the child, so you can't leave the other party.

In the past, Chen Yuanyuan had actually seen many women with her own eyes, and she had already discovered the problems in the man's family in the early stages of marriage.

Those women have been particularly unhappy since they first married men.

A few years after marriage, no, she was beaten by men and bullied by her mother-in-law from time to time.

However, such a woman stayed in that strange family for five or six years, and gave birth to several children in succession.

After giving birth, each of them began to develop their own "resentful wife" mode.

But whenever they see a person who is close to them, they will have a bitter face, red eyes, and cry along with their family members and friends, crying about how bad their husbands are to her. Her parents-in-law picked on her, her brother-in-law, sister-in-law, sister-in-law bullied her.

As well as those relatives in the other party's family, many of them wanted to take advantage of her, and wanted to get the little money in his pocket.

Even, sometimes her man would ask her to get all those things from her natal family in front of her.

Some women actually know and understand what is going on in their man's heart.

It's nothing more than wanting to embezzle her natal family's property.

It's nothing more than wanting to get all the fields, houses, and the little money in her hand from her natal family.

However, even if they knew the ugly face of the other party, some people would just open their mouths wide and smash them there.

Said his man is not authentic.

Besides, what else can they do?

Except for nagging, nagging, all that is left is resentment towards life and dissatisfaction with her husband.

And everything else is gone.

This kind of person in the quagmire never makes his mind clear.

Do everything possible, use all means to save yourself from that quagmire.

What they think in their little brains is actually all, and they have to keep talking about their pain in the quagmire.

Try to seize the opportunity and pull the person standing on the shore in the safe zone into the quagmire together.

Seeing the other party fall into the quagmire, some people will feel a strange sense of excitement, a sense of satisfaction.

Chen Yuanyuan, who now lives happily, has both children, and is cared for by her husband all the time, can actually understand that kind of mentality.

That kind of "Why do I suffer so much and suffer such sins, but you don't have to suffer?!"

"Why did I live in extreme pain before, but you can live so happily now?! Why?"

"I think back then, I never went to the hospital when I gave birth. At that time, when you gave birth, you had to plant seedlings in the field. Why don't you have to suffer the pain I suffered back then?"

"In this world, who is nobler than whom? I walked that way back then, why can't you walk the same path as me?"

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People actually have this mentality.

This is determined by human nature.

Finding that other people's lives are happier than they imagined, as long as they are a normal person, they will feel jealous.

As for the kind of psychologically unbalanced and psychopathic people, in addition to feeling jealous, they will inevitably have some dark thoughts.

Seeing each other's happiness is not only jealous, they actually want to sabotage it.

In front of others, speak ill of the other party and make the other party feel uncomfortable.

Or it is behind the other party's back and deliberately talking about sourness.Talking about people's happy gestures are all fake.

At this moment, Chen Yuanyuan, who was well taken care of by her husband, encountered such a situation.

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Everyone loves to compare.

Men love more than career, family, women, power, interests, and money.

And what about women?

They also compare in these respects.

However, in their daily life, the one they compare the most with is actually their own man.

If my own man is strong, has a high status, and speaks the same outside, then this woman will be honored as a husband and wife.

Status goes up.

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As for the other pregnant women in the same ward, after learning that Chen Yuanyuan is such a delicate and tender lesbian, and her husband is actually an unknown leader of a large unit, one by one, the eyes that looked at Chen Yuanyuan immediately changed.

At first, they were a little unconvinced towards Chen Yuanyuan.

But now, although they still have a little bit of dissatisfaction in their hearts, their speaking gestures are really humble.

Some even flattered a lot.

(End of this chapter)