Be a Strong Woman: Carnegie's Book of Spiritual Growth for Women

Chapter 19 Women are like flowers, don't lose their natural style (2)
Cut out sweets.Eating sweets continuously will definitely increase your weight.Although the aroma of chocolate and the deliciousness of ice cream are still very tempting, it’s okay to just take a look and appreciate it, at most it’s a pleasure to taste it on your tongue.

Diet is the most core part of body shape control, and the other core part is to maintain sufficient exercise for a long time.It is indeed a very pleasant thing to maintain a good figure, relaxed, agile, and capable.In real life, we have found that those women who can control their diet and weight, especially those over middle age, tend to have fewer diseases such as high blood fat, high cholesterol, and high blood pressure.

However, weight control is still based on the premise of health.You must pay attention to the combination and balance of nutrition, because only healthy women will be full of vitality, and this vitality will bring you a good face, good complexion, good figure and good destiny.

Always remember that weight control is an attitude to life.

How much blue silk, how much tenderness

The beauty of a woman must start from scratch!No matter how ordinary a girl is, if she has long flowing hair, she will become beautiful and moving.The shiny three thousand black hair is undoubtedly a charming landscape for women.Moreover, in addition to being beautiful and moving, the black and smooth hair also indicates good health.

Long hair is the source of femininity.A woman's hair is like her second face. Having flowing hair can not only add confidence and charm, but also produce unexpected effects in attracting men's attention.The gentle and charming feminine beauty displayed by long hair is unsurpassed by other inner and outer features.

A research team led by Dr. Kelly Klein, a psychologist at Florida State University in the United States, conducted a survey on 50 men, and processed the hairstyle of the same woman into three styles: long, medium and short through the computer, and the results were overwhelmingly positive. Some men think women with long hair are the sexiest.When many men feel the attractiveness of a woman, they often start with her hair.This is because when looking at a woman from behind, her hair accounts for almost half of her overall image; when looking at a woman from the front, her hair can also be called the "second protagonist".Especially the perfect unity of color, fragrance and movement has become an irresistible temptation for men.

The allure of hair is great, and it is related to the senses of sight, hearing, smell and touch of sexual selection.Many men believe that long hair is the source of femininity.They are very sensitive to women's movements of tilting their heads and stroking their hair. Although many women may do it unintentionally, most men will think that women's movements are coquettish. The man's imagination wanders.What's interesting is that men can't help but want to touch it when they see a hair full of texture and radiance.Because many men feel that this kind of touch is a mysterious, intimate, and innocent blend, rather than naked "sex fast food", and its sensational effect is much more direct.

Many men's desire and expectation for women's hair is long hair with a shawl.Hair is a woman's tender and sexy tool.Women may not know that when a woman's hair ends slide across a man's skin, how many strands of hair will convey how many strands of tenderness.

A woman must be able to create and maintain a sense of mystery

As a woman who is admired, respected and popular everywhere, it is not enough to have amazing beauty, docile personality or extraordinary talent. A woman must be both internal and external, and have inner beauty and outer beauty at the same time. The performance is both dignified and elegant and closely following the fashion, both gentle and watery but also strong and resolute.A woman will be more perfect if she cultivates both internally and externally and adds a little sense of mystery.

Mystery arouses people's curiosity, drives each other to touch each other and explore deeply.In this process, if others appreciate you very much, they will have more good feelings for you.On this basis, because your mystery has attracted others, they will find more shining points in you through further understanding.

Betty has just graduated from college.On the first day she came to the company to report, she made everyone's eyes shine.She wears this summer's latest LV on her arm, and wears a bright silver platinum necklace around her neck. She wears a simple and elegant attire, with a snow-white stand-up collar shirt and a black knee-length skirt, which are obviously new clothes of a big brand. .

Everyone discussed quietly: "Looking at her outfit, she must be a rich lady from a rich family." They all speculated, but Betty didn't say anything.Every time she calls home, her colleagues always see her respectful and cautious expression, which makes people feel that her family background is extraordinary.

Betty was truly extraordinary.Her performance is enviable, and she often can easily attract many clients.Some big customers even come to invite her to drink tea and chat, but she seldom agrees.Most of the time, she likes to enjoy paintings alone, listen to classical music or read world masterpieces, and her calm and relaxed appearance looks so different.

In fact, Betty's parents are ordinary people, but her expression always looks calm and relaxed, and her speech and behavior are gentle and polite.Although she only borrowed her cousin's imitation LV and platinum necklace for a while, it aroused everyone's curiosity: "She is really mysterious!"

Although Betty has never made up lies about her background, and she is ignorant of her colleagues' speculation and comments, she has managed to create a unique "mystery" that attracts people's attention all the time and makes them feel happy. She is very interested in herself and wants to dig out her secrets.

It is faintly visible in front of strangers, and it is inseparable from the people around it.A woman full of mystery never tells her thoughts, opinions, and everything, but has reservations, which make you unable to figure it out.As a result, the people around will think about it unconsciously: they can never figure out her thoughts, she is really an elusive woman.

Of course, the sense of mystery is not fixed.While the mysterious content is constantly being explored and discovered by the other party, it will be enriched and replaced by new content.Women need to constantly fill and update these contents with knowledge and wisdom.

For some women who only have a beautiful appearance but lack a rich heart, their mystery often only makes people feel fresh for a while.With the passage of time, due to poor knowledge and shallow thinking, they will soon lose their attractiveness.

When the other party knows everything about you, his interest in you will also cool down rapidly.If the other party knows you too thoroughly, and even knows your personal privacy, the sense of mystery will disappear, which is definitely not good for women.Everyone should have their own world, a world that is unknown to others.Therefore, women must master some secrets to create and maintain a sense of mystery.

Women, never forget the beauty of your gender
A girl who attended Mrs. Carnegie's lecture once talked about losing a wonderful boyfriend because she was too capable.

The girl has a good job, she works in the office during the day, makes plans, gives orders and has a lot of responsibilities.Even in social situations, she couldn't bring herself to relax, admitting: "My boyfriend was still busy opening his umbrella and I found myself hailing a taxi; I pressed the elevator button for him. ;advised him to order pork liver and bacon at dinner, saying it was good for his blood;he never had the opportunity to help me with my chair when I was seated, and to help me take off my coat, because a man like me was busier than a bee People, I have already done it myself. I am not only efficient, but also like to give orders, and the result..."

Poor white-collar beauty, when a suitable man walks into her life, she is so busy trying to be successful, independent, and showing her abilities that she forgets that she is still a woman.Men, those who are spoiled, not only want to eat cakes, but also bread, he also needs nutritious homemade steamed buns.He likes this kind of girl, who has feminine charm and a bit of brains, and it is enough to appreciate his strengths—if possible, it is best to make money to support the family.

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