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Chapter 14 A Worldly Love (2)

I think of a website that organizes a new type of blind date for older white-collar workers. Men and women are blindfolded, so as to eliminate the adverse effects of judging people by their appearance, or quickly appraising each other based on their appearance, and only listen to the voice from the depths of their hearts.But the result was not good. As usual, many people secretly pulled down the blindfolds and peeped at each other, lest the person opposite was an ordinary person with a low appearance and low social status; in this way, it would be a waste of time.Such blind dates, which are trying to innovate in form, of course will not receive the expected results.If you don't know your appearance, your income, and your price, how can you fall into a love that is becoming increasingly expensive and rare?In any case, we have to love something worthwhile, so that we can rest assured to marry or marry.

Just like, the price of houses is getting more and more expensive, and the cost of food and clothing is also rising; and the love that lives in the thin air of the secular world will also be like this.

woman heart.

When girlfriend Xiao A was being chased by her boyfriend, she was being pestered by another man named Kang in the unit at the same time.Xiao A hates Kang in front of her, with a humble appearance to the bone. Seeing him come to the office so fawningly to give her the coffee she just bought, she is annoyed, and has no good words for him. In front of me, when Kang Lai was mentioned, he would always use the stick of words to attack him all the way, criticizing Kang to nothing, and a group of women were also amused by such a criticism conference, until the flowers were trembling.

So when her boyfriend was chasing him, he speeded up, ran all the way, and finally caught up with Xiao A, who was emotionally blank for a while. The image is even more tragic.We all thought that he would give up in Little A’s love affair with great fanfare and turn to open up a new base, but he didn’t want to. After a few months of rest, he made a comeback and came to our office to report every day, or bring a bag of fresh Biluochun, either take a few fashion magazines that little A likes, or put a box of chocolates that little A is most obsessed with, and quietly put them on her desk.

This kind of flattery is not only worthless and derogatory to Xiao A, but even we outsiders, after seeing it, underestimate him in Xiao A's merciless ridicule.Little A at that time, I don't know if it was vanity, or to fight his never-tiring pursuit, wherever he went, he would air his happy love there.Moreover, the more he was around, the more enthusiastically he spoke. The love, almost like honey, flowed slowly from every cell of Little A in the slow motion of a movie.

And our group of gossip girls, because of Xiao A's courage, are also very cruel to that lonely man.When meeting him to say hello, he often raised his head high, and his eyes swept across the ceiling.He was clearly eating the chocolate he sent, but he was still mean to others, "the toad wants to eat swan meat".Seeing him approaching us with a smile, trying to attack Xiao A's strong fortress from us, I felt bored in my heart, and quickly avoided it, just like avoiding a buzzing fly or mosquito.

And Xiao A's love, after being fresh and enthusiastic at the beginning, began to bloom like a flower under the sun in midsummer, and she became irresistibly tired.When a group of people get together to show off their boyfriends, Xiao A no longer rushes to speak.The luster in the eyes of the past also dimmed at that time.Asked when they got married and shared the fruits of romance with us, Xiao A avoided looking away and talked about him from left to right.

Later, it was the love "detective" in our group who revealed the secret that Xiao A didn't want to tell us.It turns out that Xiao A's boyfriend looks humorous and funny on the outside, and he likes girls, but in fact he is narrow-minded and selfish. He often quarrels with Xiao A because of trivial matters.And after every quarrel, he never takes the initiative to apologize to Xiao A, always proud Xiao A, abandons face, humbles and asks for peace.Moreover, she was extremely fussy about money, and had to pay AA for a meal with Little A, and even issued a notice in advance, saying that when buying a house in the future, Little A would need to pay half of it as a down payment, otherwise her name would be refused to be written on the house title certificate.

When such a secret is discovered by us, there must be pain in Xiao A's heart, but Xiao A still pretends that love is sweet, showing a bright and charming smile to each of us, until one day, The boyfriend accidentally slapped Xiao A across the face, and Xiao A made a sharp turn in the boat of love and lost direction.

None of us thought that under our noses, Xiao A and Kang quickly got together, and without "discussing" with us, they secretly obtained a marriage certificate with Kang.Such an unexpected ending made us hate Little A for a long time.And little A, I don’t know if it’s a loss of reason, or some other unspeakable suffering, but in the torture of our sight, she pretended that nothing happened, and even passed by in the corridor. She can say a word like a stranger Not sent.

This time, Xiao A did not carry on the love like before.And we, in Little A's silence, remembered all the bitter sarcasms and sarcasms she had made towards Kang in the past, and suddenly couldn't help laughing, thinking that this little A, no matter what, is a bit cheap, how could it be so easy, Just marry yourself to a man who doesn't look down on you at all?
Half a year later, at Xiao A's wedding ceremony, as expected, she didn't send invitations to our group of girlfriends, and we, consciously, pretended not to know.When she came back from her honeymoon, they met again, and finally found that they had become the most familiar strangers who had nothing to say.

After a long time, I heard by chance that the reason why Xiao A chose Kang was because of Kang's words, he said that he could give her a warm house that she would not need to take care of, a home where she could be her own princess as she wished. , the purest love that doesn't require anything in return from her.

But this kind of promise bought Xiao A's heart, but still failed to exchange Xiao A and our group of girlfriends, the gossip friendship that is not very reliable like love.

Love the house and Wu.

Her parents and his parents are colleagues and work in a company.One year, there was a mistake in the company's accounts. Some people suspected that it was her parents, but her parents repeatedly denied it.For some reason, his parents remained silent and found iron-clad evidence. Finally, her parents, who refused to bow their heads, admitted their mistakes at the meeting and willingly accepted the punishment of demotion.Of course his parents were promoted, but since then the two families have also become enemies, and they never speak again when they meet.

Of course, she and him knew about this period of history, but they still fell in love with each other inadvertently.This topic, naturally, became a sensitive fuse in the hearts of the two of them, as soon as they got close, they would spontaneously ignite.But always mention BU.She knows that her parents have always been selfish and care about each other with relatives and friends, not to mention being criticized and hated by colleagues in the work unit.Even for my daughter, when it comes to finding a boyfriend, she is "strictly required" that she find a son from a rich family with a background, otherwise she will not be "accepted".Such clear rules made her disdainful and gave her a headache.So in front of him, he showed his dissatisfaction and resentment towards his parents; he said that they were greedy for petty profits, and they didn't even care about their own reputation; No wonder he threw away his reputation for the rest of his life so recklessly and coveted that little money back then.

After a long time, he also felt that she and her parents were really not noble.Leaving aside the trivial matters of more than ten years ago, his parents have long since given up their hatred and have a good wish to rebuild the old relationship with her family; besides, he has not offended them, no matter how unreasonable he is, he should not hate him to the bone, even They don't even answer the phone.So when she "blamed" her parents again, he also stood by and spoke for her, persuading her that it was impossible to do as her parents said. Anyway, after breaking up with them, she still had the gentler love and care he gave her. take care of.

At first, she listened to his agitation and moved "Juliet's mind".But when he said it too often, she became disgusted.Once when he satirized her parents face to face again, she not only lost her temper, but also broke up with him completely angrily.

He still doesn't understand that he loves her so much, for her, he doesn't even have the opportunity to study abroad; and she also loves him deeply, why can't she even listen to a very fair comment from him?Didn't she always hate her parents who are not of high quality and narrow-minded?
He couldn't figure it out, coupled with his stubborn and arrogant nature, he was unwilling to forgive others easily, which made him a small step away, and finally missed Qing's beloved her.When they said goodbye to each other, there was already a new flower protector by her side.There was one "enemy" comparable to him, not only conquered her heart, but also bought her parents with ease!

He didn't understand even more.I secretly inquired about the QQ account of the "successful man" and asked him for advice online.Unexpectedly, that person became a Buddha who plucked flowers and said nothing, and it took him a long time to send him a sentence "Love the house and the crow", and then never showed up again.He was a genius in the Chinese Department when he was in college, but he still looked up the idiom dictionary seriously, and saw that it said, "The Great Biography of Shangshu·War" said: "A lover is also the bird on the roof." This idiom is metaphorical because Love a person, and love all people or things related to him.

He read it over and over again, and finally understood that the brilliance of the "master" lies in that he didn't follow the girl's accusation just because he didn't like her parents, but just smiled and said: Turning around, Aiwu and Wudi will give her parents a share of their deep love for her.Although that love was not much, it was enough to dispel the resentment in her heart one by one, and silently, slowly immersed in it.

(End of this chapter)