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Chapter 14 Section 3 Enthusiastic Henry and Serious Hans?

Enthusiasm makes you invincible in dealing with people. ? ?

Henry is a good middle-aged man, hardworking and successful.When he was studying in his early years, he had a strong character, and he acted decisively, resolutely, and cautiously.This style has accompanied him to the pinnacle of his career.He is often said to be a wise man.In life, he is also positive and optimistic, and treats people with enthusiasm and sincerity. ?
Hans and Henry were boyhood friends, and they were so much alike in many ways.Hans is also successful in his career, hard-working and conscientious, and also has Henry's strength, determination, resoluteness and prudence.He is also often said to be a clever man.However, just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, Hans cannot be identical with Henry everywhere.Hans was born with a face like a Greek stone sculpture, stern and thin, which suited his character.Sometimes he is even so cold that people don't know how to approach him. ?
It turned out that Henry had many friends, and Hans's friend was his boyhood buddy Henry. ?
Mind walk?

Psychologists at the University of Cambridge use the story of Henry and Hans when they teach students about the psychology of interpersonal communication.When a person communicates with others, he will have expectations of the character of others, and most people like positive, optimistic, warm and sincere people.

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