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Chapter 14

Chapter 2 The real winners rely on personal struggle. ? ?

The CEO of Oracle, the second largest software company in the world, and the fourth richest man in the world, Ellison is a man of flamboyant personality and daring to speak out. He was invited to attend the ceremony for the 300th anniversary of Yale University in the United States. ?
In front of the president, teachers, alumni and graduates of Yale University, Allison made some shocking remarks.He said: "All the teachers and students of prestigious schools such as Harvard University and Yale University think they are successful. In fact, you are all losers, because you are proud of studying in a university with outstanding students such as Bill Gates, but Bill Gates He is not proud to have studied at Harvard."?
Allison went on to say: "Many of the best talents are not only not proud of Harvard and Yale, but often resolutely abandon that kind of glory. Bill Gates, the world's richest man, dropped out of Harvard halfway; the world's second richest Paul Allen, who never went to college; the fourth richest man in the world, that is, I, Allison, was expelled from Yale University; He and Bill Gates are classmates, so why is his achievement worse? Because he reluctantly dropped out of school after a year of graduate school..."?
Allison went on to "comfort" those Yale graduates whose self-esteem was hurt a little. He said: "But everyone here should not be too sad. You still have hope. Your hope is that after so many years of hard study, you finally Earned the opportunity to work for those of us (dropouts, college dropouts, expelled)."?
These words stunned the audience, and the ceremony hall was completely silent at that time. ?
Mind walk?

Allison's words may make the world's famous university teachers and students feel uncomfortable.Although his words are a bit extreme, they are not unreasonable.Almost all people have a "sense of identity glory", and they have an illusion that they have received a good education since they were young, entered a prestigious university when they grow up, and after some baptism, life will be smooth sailing, and even rise to the top.They all treat graduation from prestigious universities as a brand in life.In fact, this kind of thinking is due to the illusion that everyone only sees the halo of a famous university, but does not pay attention to the efforts of each successful person.Real success is determined by many factors, and more depends on personal efforts. ?
Remember, Bill?Gates is not proud of Harvard. His success is based on his own efforts and wisdom. ?
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