Listen to a psychologist tell a story

Chapter 20

Chapter 3 Section 5 The vulture whose feathers were plucked by the king?
People have self-knowledge. ? ?

The American educational psychologist Jensen once told a story to his children to teach them to learn to establish their own value and cultivate self-awareness. ?
A vulture flew over the palace and saw a yellow oriole in the palace was very favored by the king, so he asked the yellow oriole:?
"How did you get the king's favor?"?
Huang Ying replied: "After I arrived in the palace, I sang very beautifully. The king liked listening to my singing very much, so he liked me very much, and often dressed me with pearls."?
After hearing this, the vulture was very envious. It thought: "I should also learn from the yellow warbler, so maybe the king will like me too."?
So the vulture flew to the place where the king was sleeping, and began to cry. ?
The king happened to be sleeping, and when he heard the buzzing of the vulture, he felt terrified, so he asked his subordinates to go down and see what it was calling.The subordinates went down and came back to report that it was a vulture calling for some reason. ?
The king was very angry, so he ordered his men to go down and catch the vulture, and ordered the vulture's feathers to be pulled out. ?
The vulture returned to the flock full of pain and scars. ?
The vulture became angry and said to other birds everywhere: "This is all caused by the yellow warbler, I must take revenge!"?
Mind walk?

A person with self-awareness can correctly know himself, evaluate himself, and emphasize his own value and ideal.But there are always many people in life who don’t know themselves well. They always want to stand out, but they don’t work hard to tap their abilities. Instead, they blindly imitate others mechanically, and the result is self-defeating.What's even more tragic is that when they fail to achieve their goals, they don't know how to reflect on themselves, but blame others.Such a person can only face the fate of failure. ?
In fact, being true to yourself and your beliefs is a kind of wisdom that can help you to succeed. ?
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