Listen to a psychologist tell a story

Chapter 43

Chapter 5 Section 6 Failed Dream?
To follow your dreams, you need a firm heart. ? ?

In San Ysidro there was a well-known horse farm, and his owner's name was Monty.When Monty was a boy, his father was a horseman, and he had to follow his father from a young age, from stable to stable, from farm to farm, training horses.Due to the frequent travel, the boy's schooling process was not smooth.When I was in junior high school, the teacher once asked the whole class to write a report titled "Aspirations for Growing Up". ?
That night he wrote 7 pieces of paper eloquently, describing his great wish, which is to own a horse herding farm of his own, and carefully drew a design drawing of a 200-acre farm, marking the location of stables, running tracks, etc. Then in the middle of this large farm, a huge house covering an area of ​​4000 square feet will be built. ?
He spent a lot of effort to complete the report and handed it to the teacher the next day.Two days later, he got the report back. On the first page, he typed a big red F, and wrote a line next to it: see me after class. ?
Monty went to the teacher with the report after class: "Why did you fail me?"?
The teacher replied: "You are such a young child, don't keep daydreaming. You have no money, no family background, nothing. Building a farm is a big project that costs money. You have to spend money to buy land, money Buy thoroughbred horses and spend money to take care of them. Don’t be so ambitious.” The teacher then said: “If you are willing to rewrite a less outrageous volunteer, I will give you a new grade.”?
The boy thought it over several times after returning home, and then consulted his father.The father just told him: "Son, this is a very important decision, you have to make up your own mind."?
A few days later, after much consideration, he decided to return the manuscript without changing a single word.He told the teacher: "Even if I take a big red letter, I don't want to give up my dream."?
As a result, through continuous hard work and brave struggle, Monty realized his dream. He finally owned his own horse ranch, which covers an area of ​​more than 200 acres and a luxurious residence of 4000 square feet.He kept the report he wrote in junior high school.Interestingly, two summers ago, the teacher took 30 students to camp on his farm for a week.Before leaving, the teacher said to him: "It's a bit ashamed to say it. When you were in junior high school, I once poured cold water on you. Over the years, I have said the same thing to many students. Fortunately, you have the perseverance to stick to your dream. "?
Mind walk?

A professor of psychology at Washington State University is always dancing and excited when he tells this story.He said to his students: Everyone will always encounter some obstacles from others on the way to pursue their dreams. At this time, what you have to do is, once you make up your mind, go on firmly and overcome these obstacles. One day, your dream will become reality. ?
(End of this chapter)